8.13 Diary

With a long morning at work, tried calling the IRS...  on hold for 40 minutes, got connected...put on hold a couple times...then sent to the main queue, and told by recording, it would be another 30 to 60 minutes!  GRRR
Left the office in disgust... 10:15
Home 11.10
Talked to Merry a bit, had something to eat, and to sleep  12:30.
Up around 2100 in time for dinner.
She was tired as heck, as was I, when we went to bed 2330.
I offered Her a DO, and She declined.

HsLS 39
HsLO 39
HsLD 127
Hr UN 40
Her DO   offered/declined.

# NINE of Nine Rules for F/m Spanking Punishment Sessions

IX – At the conclusion of the punishment session the submissive man will explain to his Mistress his understanding of why he deserved to be spanked. Then he will thank her for taking time to correct him.

8.12 Diary

out 0641, home  0723.
Fed animals...unlocked self, showered and throughly washed my groin, dried, went to the bedroom, ASKED if I could join Her; She mumbled yes, and I climbed in next to Her.
We dozed a bit... then She woke up...to find my penis quite hard,and She got on top of me, then rolled off, to have me get on top of Her.
We 'did it' awhile, which ended in a rare orgasm for me... 
And none for Her!  She said she enjoyed it, but 'it' just wasn't happening.
We got up...and fixed somethin to eat and I went back to bed, in Her (cooler) bedroom around 1030.
Awake 3:30 for P&S, and again around 5:30 when I got a call on my cell from the union that I became a member of when Merry was doing part time work for HLB! 
That got me up enough to move and feed the animals, and S&d&d
In car 1815  at work   1908. 
Easy night at work....

HsLS  15
HsLO  15
HSLD  103
Hr L  22
HR UN  16
Her DO  NO, but tried!


# EIGHT of Nine Rules for F/m Spanking Punishment Sessions

VIII – The spanking instrument(s) used and the mode of their employment is solely at the Mistress’ discretion.

8.11 Diary

Off work, and out  0639...and home  0717.
Fed the animals...  and She was awake, in my bed, and talking, so I stripped off, and joined Her.
And went to sleep.
She was jolted awake by a phone call from Her bank, and jumped up to do research via Her computer.
I slept on, until 0930, when She woke me asking if I wanted something to eat, so I got up for cupcakes and a cup of coffee.
By this time, She had read my blog from yesterday, and was a bit miffed by the "hard limit"  I mentioned therein.
As I was heading back to bed, She said gruffly, "Put a device on."
Oookay...   I fetched my Spartacus Deluxe and ... put it in place and set the plastic lock.

And...went back to sleep.
She woke me up, around 1630, telling me that She wanted a DO before Stitch got home from work.
I groggily got up, fumbled around for my bedside copy of the MHA, and showed Her, Rule #4,  which forbids Her from waking me up during my sleeping time on Monday and Tuesday.
She frowned and shrugged, and took down and off Her hinky pinkies, got Herself FDAU on the bed next to me... and counted as I smacked the naked cheeks of Her bottom, ten times each, although it was really hard to hear HER count after 'five'.  
At nineteen, I asked, "How many 'zat?"
"Nineteen.."
I smacked one more, and said, "Done."
Then I said, "Now, it's cooler in the other room...."
She jumped up, and we went to the other room.
I was quickly between Her legs...  and giving Her oral service.
Satisfied, She rolled over, and said, "Give me some more there," pointing at Her bottom, so I gave Her cheeks another twenty smacks, but not quite so hard as the first set.
Then we just ... talked...
One subject being... the giving of spankings, and the difference to the receiver in getting  WHAP .WHAP.WHAP.WHAP.WHAP.WHAP or getting  WHAP .... WHAP .... WHAP ... WHAP ...

Time to get moving.
I feed the bedroom cats, and S&D&D,  poured beverages, kissed Her good bye, and was in car about 1830.
Monday is usually an easy traffic day, but not this Monday evening.
At work  1929.
Easiest enough night, other than helping M do set up for Tuesday, which had significant challenges to it.
And I checked on jury duty; I do not have to report on Tuesday.
And my manager changed the schedule, so I don't have to report til 1930 on Sunday, so I can attend 'the party' if $$ allows.  

HsLS  36
HsLO 711
HsLD  79
H UN 23
H L  14
Her DO   Yes

 # Seven of Nine Rules for F/m Spanking Punishment Sessions

VII – Some Mistress may want to include ritual and ceremony. Formality and duration emphasize the seriousness of the submissive man’s failings.

810 Diary

0930 or so,  up.
Feed cats, toilet,  coffee, and eat... cupcakes that CJ brought home from somewhere...
Immediate indigestion, and downing Alka Seltzer.
Sitting and reading,  and I told Her, "You should see what this thing is doing to me...."
She said, "Take it off."  And I cut the lock on the chastity device, and took it off.
She looked at my damaged package, and took a whiff, and made a face, and began clean up operations.
After wiping it down, She said, "Leave it exposed, don't pull your shorts up, let it air out."
Easy for Her to say.
Seriously, nothing seems to embarrass me, and certainly not walking around...or sitting, as the case was, with the back of my briefs up, and the front of my briefs down.  The only other household member around was Stitch, and he has certainly seen 'it' enough times.
After sitting at our respective computers a bit,  She turned to me and said, "I am insisting on... a DO."
"I was just waiting for you to finish what you were doing.  Get to the bedroom."
In the bedroom, on the bed...i stripped to just socks, and pulled down Her kinky pinkies.   A couple minutes of oral got Her engine revved up..
I mounted Her with a limp noodle, but a little bit of handiwork got it hard enough to do some of the old in-out, and when my mouth went to Her right nipple, with my fingers tweaking Her left nipple, and She put Her own right hand to Her clit,  Her loud moan indicated She had a 'good one',  and I wasn't getting close myself, as the sweat was rolling off of me, so I stopped.
She hopped up, and went off to take a shower.
I gathered work clothes, and was putting some laundry away, when She came back, already showered.
I went on in, and took mine, then dried and dressed.
And packed up, and poured tea into travel mugs, and got my stuff into the car, and kissed Her good-bye... 
Rolling about 1340, and at work  14:30.

Teen Choice Awards at the Shrine.... McCartney at the Rose Bowl.
Busy at work, but not frantic.
I was doing set up for Monday, and not paying a lot of attention to the night's work anyway.
Then the other guy asked about leaving early.... as his drinking buddy-chauffeur was at the window....  (this is a trend I've noticed, every Sunday that I've had the misfortune to work next to this guy).
Fine by me.  He was gone, 23:15 or so.
Merry called, around midnight, to give me Her update on the day.
Submike had come over... and She said, She allowed him to give Her 'pussy worship' and She was not at all impressed with his oral skills, although he seemed rather pleased with himself that he got Her to cum while doing so...    
How little he really knows....
THEN She told me that She (or Sunshine) and tallship and Stitch went to the Golden Corral for dinner.
I was ...about as mad as I can get, when I'm at work and there's not a damn thing I can do about it.
They went to my favorite place.... OUR ?  favorite place... without me.
Okay, so...
 From now on, whenever they go, it will be WITHOUT me.  I will not go there again.
When She signed off the phone, She said She was about to give tallship lessons in figging.  
 How come the fun stuff only happens when I'm at work? 

HsLS  12
HsLO 687
HsLD 55
H L 69  then
H UN 13
Her DO?  YES

 # Six  of Nine Rules for F/m Spanking Punishment Sessions

VI – Prior to the first stroke the Mistress will explain to the submissive man why he deserves punishment.

8.09 Diary

Waiting for tallship to call for a ride from the meeting place... I fell asleep in my chair.
She came out of the bedroom, around 0245, and called him, and he said, "Oh don't worry about it, he'll find a way home..." 
Ergh.
Off we went, back to bed.   
She asked about a DO for Friday, and I obliged with some oral, which didn't take too long, and She said, enough, and we went to sleep.
She got me up around 10:00... 
Coffee, snack, newspapers, pills...  which had my stomach feeling horrible, and I went back to bed until about 13:00.
Up again, and She said, "You've earned a treat, time to pick a card."
I did.   She looked at it first, opened 'the book' to the appropriate page, showed me the card (8 of diamonds) and the page, and we talked about ...when.
I actually have jury duty this week, so my schedule will be day to day until it's finished. 
And, babyman has an afternoon appointment on Wednesday...
SO we tentatively decided on Thursday..
I haveta get around to putting in a hook, in the ceiling.
Then, at Her suggestion, we played a couple games of Scrabble.
Then we went out, in Her car.... to the bank inside the market, to deposit a check that came in the day before, and some shopping there, then to a smoke shop, to get some liquid for my 'crack pipe', then the PO to drop off a letter that I've had laying around for a week to go out, then the 99c store for a number of one-dollar items... and home.
I called my parents on the way home...and was still talking to them when we pulled up, and Stitch and tallship came out to grab some of the bags.
All that was left for me to take in was a container of litter.
Groceries in and away...
I stripped off, and took a quick dip in the newly-filled pool.
Sunshine was going to join me, but quickly decided it was still too cold.
I got out, and went on in and showered/dried/dressed.
Dinner was leftovers from the last couple nights.... and we were on our own, so I reheated pulled pork over rice.

My head was throbbing.  
Caffeine withdrawal was my thought as to the cause.
Tallship needed a ride to a hospital, as he was taking a sleeping test, and his car was having starter issues; ie no telling if it would start or not.
I started by loaning him my Firestone credit card, so he could go get it fixed sometime soon.
Then, rather than any of us having to take him there, and come get him in the morning, I loaned him my car... with the understanding that he would take Merry's gas card, and fill it up along the way.
Then I showed him the 'bells and whistles' of the car.
I realized later, I did not show him how to open the gas flap, but evidently, he figured it out.
Then I went to bed to 'take a nap' and rest my head, around 2200.
HsLS 63
HsLO 663
HsLD 31
H LOCK 58
Her DO yes.   (there was the one at 0300 which was technically Saturday... but She wants that applied to Friday...and for Saturday, She is giving me a pass because of my headache...)


# Five of Nine Rules for F/m Spanking Punishment Sessions

V – Spankings are most appropriately performed when the Mistress has calmed from her angry. A judicial mood will enable her to select the exact level of deserved punishment.

8.08 DIary

Up for P&S 0045,and again  0430.
Up and moving, 1200.
Pee, fed cats,  coffee and snack and newpaper, while She talked to me about an email She received from submike.
Some laundry in dryer, some laundry in and away, then sitting and organizing....
And writing and online, and etc....
Stitch home from work around 1700.
I put a post on FL "This is Consensual Spanking International Day"
She read it, looked at me, invoked MerryTwo, told me to get something of my choice, then FDAU on Her bed.
Which I did.
She delivered 40 swats of the new bath brush to each cheek, resulting in some remarkable dog bruising there.
She started manipulating my cock in cage, then showed how easy pull out was, and suggested I relock it on a tighter notch....which I did.
Then I finished Wednesday's blog.... and dressed, and three of us got in Her car, as She was dropping tallship off at a meeting place, for a date.
We went on to a supermarket....did shopping for dinner, returned home and unpacked.
She started  dinner, and I went to the garage, and cut a long bamboo piece into smaller pieces, cut off the sharp limbs, and filed down the notches, until there were two lengths suitable for.....well...
I went back in in time for dinner.
We sat and ate..
THen cleared the table.
I set up  the Scrabble board.
And Stitch, Sunshine and I played one game, then Stitch excused himself, and Sunshine and I played a second.
Sunshine helped me make my bed.
We had ice cream cones.
We sat down at computers...
Sunshine excused herself to lay down, around 0030.
I'm still here, waiting for tallship to call for a ride home.

HsLS  39
HsLO  639
HsLD  7
H L   34
HER DO   no

# Four of Nine Rules for F/m Spanking Punishment Sessions

# 

IV – The spankee is kept naked during his punishment. This will enhance his sense of vulnerability.

8.07

Awake 0930 or so, and She invoked Merry Two.
She produced the church paddle, and I went over Her lap for 30 smacks of the paddle on each buttock.
Then we hugged, and we talked...
And I orally provided Her a DO or three or four, and we had intercourse, which was great for her...
ANd we got up and got some coffee and somethin' to eat.
And read the newpaper, then the pool guy arrived.
We were completely draining the pool, so it was a bit of a 'to do' , getting instructions on what to do while refilling it.
Then I S&D&D and  per Her instructions, put on a chastity device.
She had me show it to tallship.... then I sat down to my laptops, looking at EP and FL, looking at mail, setting the DVR for various movies...
Merry and tallship went out to the market...
at 1645 I headed to my car, but saw the pool water was not flowing, so I went to check on the hose and saw it had uncoupled down in the water, so I retrieved the ends to rejoin them and got soaked in the process of joining them and adding silver tape...so I had to change clothes...  
They arrived home as I was just ready to leave...
I was out about 1700...  and arrive, and walked into a movie theatre about 1715. Enough time to get a large raspberry iced tea, and went in the theatre to watch previews until showtime.
I saw "Guardians of the Galaxy"  a really good flick.
Afterwards I went to a supermarket on that side of time, in search of Divawash. Could not find that, but did find another bottle of Vit E lotion for skin care, and another bath brush, for a different type of skin 'care'.
THen home.  
tallship and Stitch were waiting for me, to put on dinner, but I was deadset on fixing a tweaked chest of drawers in Her room first...
and I did just that.
then we sat down to dinner.
And Merry arrived home from Her night out with submike.
She told us some about it, then She sat at Her computer.
After dinner, I sat at mine, while thumbing through the TV Guide...
and we went to bed around 11:20.

HsLS  13.5
HsLO  615
HsLD  14
H un/L  606/10
Her DO  Yes.



Three of Nine Rules for F/m Spanking Punishment Sessions

III – Over time the spanking rules may evolve, IF only that spankings may increase in painfulness if the same offence is repeated time after time.

8.06 Diary

Off work when Merry arrived to get me, 0915.
Home  1030 or so.
I wanted to get something out of my car, went to get my keys from the hook behind the front door, and they were not there.
I freaked out. I make it a habit to put them there.
I started looking ALL through the house.
I went into the back yard, and into the garage...and was coming out of the garage, when tallship stepped out of the back door..."Are these them?"
I breathed a sigh of relief..."Yeah, where were they?"
"You don't wanna know."
"YES I DO..."
I entered the house, and Sunshine said, "I was playing hide and seek with your keys."
I was furious...too angry to talk.  I went to my room, slammed the door, and locked the door, and lay down on the bed.
She tried to come in, the locked door stopped her.
She went around via the back door to the open sliding glass door to my room, and yelled in, "I'm sorreee Shiiilo.."
Eventually, I had to get up and feed the cats and eat, so I could get to sleep my self.
I got up and went into the kitchen.
Sunshine said, again, "I'm sorry Shilo..."
"Don't talk to me," I snapped.
She went into her bedroom, lay on the bed, and started crying.
I fed the cats, has some BLD, and went to my bedroom for a nap.
After a bit Merry came in, having read yesterday's blog and journal, so She had a bit of a grim look,  and was wondering why She woke up on a wet bed.
I explained that as best I could, still at a bit of a loss as to why Sunshine hid my keys.
She got me up around 1530 to get ready.
I S&D&D and prepped the house to keep Devastating Donna from tearing it apart, and we went out to Her car to go to the OC Fairgrounds.
WAZE did a good job of getting us there, but on arrival, we were told we had to go elsewhere to park, and take a shuttle back...no big deal.
We walked around a bit, mostly Sunshine and me...seemed like Sunshine and Merry were switching off quite a bit....
Saw a few farm animals.....
Bought a large Mountain Dew in a Fair Souvenir cup....
For dinner, She had a turkey leg...which she thought wasn't done enough, and I had a foot long sausage sandwich...
Then we walked on to the Ampitheatre.
In our seats some 30 minutes before show time; She continued reading a book that She was well into, and I looked around in my small field glasses..
Somebody we knew from the FL community came strolling in, and yelled hello at her...
The show started very close to 19:45 with Blue Oyster Cult on first.
They played several of their greatest, finishing with "Don't Fear the Reaper" and stayed on about 45 minutes.
THen the stage was reset for Deep Purple.
After twenty minutes, they came on stage, and opened with "Highway Star." 
They played a decent set, including two from an album released a year ago that I did not know about.  
Merry got ill during one piece, and ran to the bathroom...came back an reported "it was quite the mess".
She had to go, again, as "Smoke on the Water" was ending, and I went with Her, ready to leave when She was done.
We passed around the top of the ampitheatre on the way back from the restrooms, and Sunshine convinced me to stay, and listen to "Hush" and "Black Knight".
Then we made our way out, getting a good jump on the crowd.
We grabbed a couple frozen chocolate and peanut covered bananas on the way out...
Went on out, to the shuttle stop...
Arrived at our parking lot, where she got a little confused about where the car was...she remembered a stop sign, but headed for the wrong stop sign.
Well, we found the car...and WAZE directed us home, avoided the 405 N which would be closed, and we used 405 S to 55 N to 5 N to 91 west... and made it home in good condition
And more or less,went straight to bed around 0020.

HsLS 92
HsLO 591
HsLD  39
H UN 592
Her DO  NO  (but because Sunshine 'jacked Merry, I got a pass on breaking the DO rule)

Two of Nine Rules for F/m Spanking Punishment Sessions

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(there was an illustrative art piece here, but one of my fat fingers deleted it)

II – The submissive man should understand that breaking discipline will always cause his Mistress to punish him.

8.05 Diary

Off work, and in car 06:30.
Home 07:20.
She kinda woke up as I came in the house, and said She was going back to bed, but would I wake Her up when I'm ready, so that She could join me in MY bed.
SO...fed the animals, and scooped a box, and showered and dried, but did not dress other than a towel around my waist... 
Woke Her up, where She was dozing, next to tallship, and we went to my bedroom.
We were talking... 
Or trying to, with one of the young cats climbing all over Her or me, or both...
While Her right hand was stroking my penis, getting it kind of hard before it softened again..then hard, then soft... 
We've been having problems, all stemming from my stubborn, often belligerent, attitudes about ...just about everything.  
So, when She asked me, referring to what Her right hand was doing, "Do you like this?" ...
I said, "No."
She stopped, instantly, sat up, then got up off the bed, and walked, rapidly, out of the room.
I lay there, debating whether this meant it was time to get up and get something to eat prior to sleep-time, or simply wait for Her to return, which was mostly likely going to happen...
And She returned, and said,  "You need an attitude adjustment. I'm invoking MerryTwo."
She went around to Her side of the bed, got the medium church paddle out of the drawer, sat on the bed with Her legs extended straight out in front of Her, and said, "Get over my lap."
Another debate was being fought inside my head.
Whether to 'go along' or to say "No".
I don't know if She noticed my hesitation.
I stretched out over Her lap, from Her left to Her right. "Count!" She said.
I counted out thirty hard smacks of the paddle on my right cheek.  
"No need to change position, it's good like this."
She smacked my right cheek, and I resumed counted, again to thirty.
"Done," She said. I got up, on my knees in front of Her, and we hugged.
We talked...some... with no clear resolution to anything... and got up, to get something to eat.
Both of us in the kitchen at the same time, doing different things....
I sat down to eat and read the paper; She finished up, and dressed, and She and tallship departed, as She was taking him to a hospital for a colonoscopy.
I finished eating, and went to bed.
..woke up a few hours later, alone in the house... urinated, ate cookies and drank milk, went back to bed.
Around 1720, She came to my doorway and said, "Time to get up."
I did...  and S&D&D.   And fed the cats. And poured beverages into my travel mugs.
While I was in the kitchen, She yelled from Her bedroom, "Got any AA batteries...?"
I approached Her and asked, "What room was I in?"
"The kitchen." "And you were in..." "The bedroom."
"And..."  
She frowned. "Where do you want me?"
"I am not invoking Shilo. Don't have time. Just reminding you, don't talk...yell... at me from a different room."
She had much earlier indicated a desire to drive me to work... 
So She, Stitch, and I piled into Her car, around 1800, and headed to my workplace.
Ugly traffic on the 101 north of the 5, so I did not arrive until about 1930.

CHAPS, the app we use to communicate with chauffeurs out on the road, was about half-working.
So, some two-way communication was eliminated, but there was still plenty. 
Considering it was a 120-ride day Tuesday, going into a 94-ride Wednesday, not much was going on.
Other than watching some cockamamie flight that was supposed to go from NYC to LAX but got diverted to Cincinnati, and took off from there and landed again in Salt Lake City... and none of the sites I use could get a handle on when it was gonna arrive.  
So I put one of my very best chauffeurs on the ride, and he was at LAX and waiting, when the damn plane did arrive, around 01:45.

HsLS  68
HsLO  567
HsLD  15
H UN 568
Her DO  NO 

ONE of Nine Rules for F/m Spanking Punishment Sessions

I- At the beginning of an F/m relationship the Mistress should give the submissive male a clear outline of actions that will cause him to be punished. The Mistress may want to explain which behaviors will most determine the quantity and quality of a spanking. But she need not over specify.