12.28 Thought for the Day

81 - 101 of 101 reasons to Spank Your Man

81. To help him remember important dates like your birthday and your wedding anniversary.

82. Spanking is a good cure for cursing, swearing and foul language.

83. It will help him understand that having muscles and being good-looking is not everything, and that he is also expected to use his brain.

84. To help him remember to put the toilet seat down after using it.

85. He may cry because the spanking you gave him hurt, but then he will smile because it happened.

86. A properly applied spanking relieves the conscience and resets the clock (for him, too).

87. He is too important to ignore.

88. A spanking from you will serve as a reminder that being cranky or general attitude problems will not be tolerated.

89. So he will remember to obey you at all times.

90. Other men get spanked, and you do not want him to feel left out.

91. Putting a man across your lap is actually quite comfortable, for you (not so much for him).

92. He let his mind wander, and he should only be thinking about you.

93. A spanking will remind him that his eyes belong on you, and not ogling other women when the two of you are out together.

94. He was checking out female-male spanking web sites, again, without you, and without permission.

95. You like him in red, and especially with a red bottom.

96. Just because you can.

97. Removing his clothes layer by layer during a spanking can feel like unwrapping a gift.

98. That is what paddles are for (and the second best use for hairbrushes, wooden spoons and leather-soled shoes).

99. Just to make sure he remembers that he belongs to you.

100. There are always more where that last one came from, and you do not want him to forget that.

101. Spanking him empowers you, since once you give him his first really good spanking, you will have more power in your relationship, and forever after.

12.27 Thought for the day

61 - 80  of 101 reasons to Spank Your Man

61. It will serve as a good reminder of the rules, because if he breaks or forgets any of your rules, he will get a spanking, and then he will not do it again (at least not for a while).

62. It is a good stress and anger reliever for you.

63. It is a good excuse for a massage on his bottom afterwards, (but only if he is well behaved!)

64. You have always wanted to spank someone.

65. Spanking him helps you to develop your maternal instinct.

66. A spanking will remind him to perform his chores on time.

67. You can help him to have a good cry, which is especially important if he hasn't had a good cry before, or not for a long time.

68. It will remind him not to take you for granted, and to be thankful for the things you do for him.

69. He will know the importance of sitting up straight, because after a good spanking, he will not do that for a few days!

70. He will learn the meaning of respect for authority, specifically, your authority.

71. He will be reminded what humiliation means and he will learn how to humble himself.

72. It improves the relationship between you and your mother-in-law, especially if he was spanked at home before being meeting you, because now your mother-in-law knows that you care enough to continue to discipline him whenever he needs it.

73. It is a good exercise for your arms.

74. Discipline is a good reminder that his performance in the bedroom is important.

75. A spanking will remind him to help around the house.

76. A spanking will allow you to have your revenge if he embarrasses you in front of friends because he knows, or will soon find out, that you can spank him in front of your friends.

77. Spanking him gives you the authority to encourage your female friends to spank their husbands or boyfriends for misbehavior.

78. It's great entertainment when you have your female friends over at your house because not only can you let them watch you give him a spanking, but you can also let your friends spank him, too.

79. He will learn to control himself and behave while the two of you are out together; if he doesn't, he knows that he will be in for a spanking as soon as the two of you get home.

80. To remind him to leave important decisions to you and not to make decisions or take action without your permission.

12.26 Thought for the Day

41 - 60  of 101 reasons to Spank Your Man

41. You'll love how his skin grows warm and pink.

42. Hugs and kisses (you can expect it of it as his payment for your hard work).

43. You will be his hero.

44. It’s wonderful to spoon after a spanking.

45. You can make him smile when you tease him about future spankings.

46. He'll adore you all the more for listening to his needs.

47. Haven't you always wanted to threaten to "tan someone’s hide,” and mean it.

48. It’s fun to collect and test various spanking implements.

49. It’s a great alternative to staring up at the ceiling.

50. He wants you to spank him, that is why he showed you this list!

51. It is a great way to settle an argument (although you are never wrong, even if you are, you win!)

52. You can help him break his bad habits.

53. A spanking from you will give him the opportunity to atone for his misbehaior.

54. A good spanking can relieve the guilt he feels when he misbehaves.

55. You can give him the gift that keeps on giving - his bottom will be sore for a few days.

56. His willingness to submit to you demonstrates his love for you.

57. A spanking from you will allow him to show you how sorry he really is.

58. Men are immature and because they often behave like children, they need to be punished like children - with a hard spanking on their bare bottoms.

59. It will help him come to terms with the fact that you are the boss in this relationship.

60. A spanking will remind him to be respectful and courteous to you at all times.

12.23 Thought for the Day

21 - 40  of 101 Reasons to Spank your Man

21. Men who get spanked tend to be happier than those who don't get spanked.

22. Role play spankings are great fun.

23. If something doesn’t work, you don’t have to repeat it.

24. Spanking isn’t about the pain; it’s about a shared experience.

25. Spanking will open an exciting new chapter in your relationship.

26. Spankings promote greater physical and emotional intimacy.

27. Your willingness to spank him demonstrates your love for him.

28. It’s wonderful to feel completely in love, and completely loved, again.

29. With a safe word, he can tell you before things go truly wrong.

30. He's your lover - It's OK if your hands wander a bit.

31. The process of experimentation allows the two of you to grow together as a couple.

32. You are the one he wants to share this secret with.

33. Spankings don’t have to be serious – the two of you can laugh and joke about it before, during and afterwards.

34. He is likely to be willing to indulge in one of your fantasies in return.

35. Consensual spanking is not abuse.

36. Spanking is a huge turn-on for him, and that can only be good for you!

37. He won’t think that you are mean if you’re doing what he asked.

38. Dressing up can make things even more interesting.

39. With a few simple rules, adult spankings are safe and fun.

40. You, as well as other women, are more powerful than you think.

12.22 Thought for the Day

1 through 20  of 101 reasons to Spank Your Man

1. The lovemaking after you spank him will probably be sensational.

2. A Romantic spanking will open lines of communication between the two of you.

3. The two of you will not be alone as there is a community of spankos to provide support and advice.

4. Adult spanking is the most common of all kinks.

5. Spanking him can strengthen your relationship.

6. You get to put him over your lap – with his bottom exposed and completely vulnerable.

7. He's eager for this, really!

8. You control the level of intensity, so the spanking you give him does not have to be severely painful.

9. Don't think of spanking him as punishment, think, instead, about spanking him as foreplay.

10. Spanking builds trust between the two of you.

11. It's really okay to spank someone if they agree to it.

12. Spanking isn't weird or unusual - it's another kind of sex.

13. You can be the strong, decisive woman of his fantasies, or you can just be a strong, decisive woman.

14. Spanking is not a sickness - The American Psychological Association says so.

15. Spanking tends to make a man very eager to please.

16. It is common for couples to include erotic spanking in their lovemaking.

17. His dream can be your pleasure.

18. It's something fun the two of you can do together.

19. You can turn spanking into a game.

20. A spanking will relax him.