8.22 diary

Up around 10:00..
Feed the cats,  coffee toast and pills...with Sunshine here.
Working on my books etc
She came out,and asked for some cuddle time in bed.
I obliged, which led to giving Her DO orally..
Followed by  the ol n out....
Then S&D&D..
Starting talking about going to the market..
She suggested giving me incentive/motivation...
In the bedroom, shorts down, bent over the edge of the bed, she applied 9 of a riding crop, right handed, then left handed...
We dressed and set off, first to Winco then Vons, then home.
The other guys came out and helped unload...and put away the groceries...
She started dinner...
I caught up on reading The Science of Mind...
I started catching up on blogging...
Dinner served 2130..
Then back to blogging.....   (2200)

In my room to make the bed...
And a small nap...
then on into the hot tub, when She announced She was heading in for it....
Then out, and showered and dried...around midnight......

HsLS  9
HsLO  88
HsLD  7
H UN  88

HER DO   Yes


Posture and Position part VII

• I've found the following tactics can be used to enhance and focus on positioning:
• Adjustment & readjustment. I think it's important to deliberately position and adjust the spankee prior to the first swat. Emphasis should be placed on positioning and presenting the bottom fully. Throughout the spanking, the spankee should be readjusted as their position begins to fail.
• Verbal instruction. I think it's best to require the spankee to willfully maintain their own position with out the physical assistance of the spanker especially in the case of stand-up paddlings. Therefore, verbal communication is necessary throughout the spanking to encourage the spankee to continue to assume the correct position.
• Pickiness. One of the disciplinary aspects of spanking is that no matter how perfect the spankee is positioned, they can always improve, stick their bottom out a little further, etc. The spanker should not feel guilty that their exacting demands regarding position are perhaps a little too picky and unrealistic. [True, and as important as the physical aspect of positioning is, the psychological effect, by emphasizing the spankee's submission, is equally so -- Web-ed.]

8.21 Diary

UP 0100 to pee, and eat some cookies.
Up 0200, to throw up into the toilet...
UP 1000, S&D&D, feed cats, and in car 1045.
At SPW 1140... for Textbook study class, followed by birthday pizza and cake for Rev J.
Home 1435....
Down for a nap 1500...
Up 17:30, and saw that She was down for a nap.
Into the Hot tub.
After some time, She joined me.
Out, and S&D&D...
Sitting around...redoing my daytimers and on line.
Sunshine came out, was sitting at the computer...
To bed  00:00...

Hr sLS  34
Hr sLO  64
Hr LD 93
Hr UN  64
Her DO No...excused by the presence of Sunshine.

Posture and Position part VI

• Over the desk on tiptoes. Another school-like position. The student must bend over a desk with nose or chest pressed to the desk. Hands and arms should be placed on the desk over their head to further arch the back. To further elevate their bottoms to be spanked, they must raise up on to their toes. Penalty swats can be awarded for every incidence of a heal touching the floor (hint: watch after the "last" swat before the student is told they may relax).
• Over a barstool or horse. This is probably the best position for paddling because the bottom is presented in a plump and relaxed manner. The person to be punished must lay their full weight across the stool, their feet hanging and hands grasping the legs of the stool at a level such that there is a little support for their upper body. This is a relaxed, comfortable position which works well for lengthy spankings.
• Lying on bed. Another comfortable position for lengthy spankings and ensuing diversions. The spankee must lie face-down on a bed. Their face should be pressed to the mattress while their hips and bottom are elevated on pillows. Since pillows are compressible, it may take three or four to achieve the proper elevation.
• Kneeling in chair. One of my favorite positions for spankees with great butts because, properly executed, it presents the rear in its most flattering light. The trick is in the execution. The spankee must kneel in the seat of a padded chair (save those knees) facing the back with the thighs vertical and upper body forward over the back. Again, the spankee should be required to arch the back well. Two things conspire to shape his or her bottom cutely. First, the back of the chair prevents him or her from bending so far as to preclude a good back arch. Second, just as high heels shape calves fully by angling the foot to shorten and bulge the calf muscle, kneeling with the calves at right angles to the thighs seems to allow the buttocks to bulge fully. [an infreqently-seen variation is to use two chairs, back to back, so that the knees are placed on the seat of one chair and the hands on the other -- Web-ed.]

8.20 Diary

Off work  0915, picked up by Sunshine...off to NoHo...and the NoHoDiner for quick breakfast, then over to a Drs building for Her mammo.
Filled out a few pages of forms; She got called in, and..She came out five minutes later; they told it, it was too early, not needed, come back in December.
Ah well.
And headed home.
I remember the S/B 5 transition onto the 110S...then waking up when I saw signs for LBB.
Home 1215...feed the cats...water bottles out for pickup tomorrow...snack and newspaper, and into Her room for a nap..  after I lay down, my penis came to attention, so I went to the doorway, and called Her attention to it.
She came into the bedroom, and we took advantage of it. Score a few DOs for Her...and I got to sleep around 1400.
And awakened  1645.
Toilet, S&d&d...  In Her car 1724.
Arrived at the restaurant of the LICK munch early, like 1810...sat in car and waited until the group manager arrived, then followed Her in.
It was an interesting enough presentation, about  Earth and Wind and Fire and Water... and Colors... and Days of the week...
We left aroun 2110, home 2140..
and Bed 2215.

HsLS  10
HsLO  40
HsLD  69
HR UN  40
Her DO 1



posture and position part v

• Over the knee. Similar to over-the-lap except the spankee is bent over the left knee with their legs restrained by the spanker's right leg.
• Hands on ankles. This is the classic school-style paddling position. The student must stand well clear of obstacles with feet shoulder width apart. Leaving knees straight and back straight, the student must bend over and grasp their ankles with both hands. The spanker may want to observe the student's hands throughout the paddling to ensure they do not leave the ankles and earn extra swats. The spanker stands facing the left side of the student [i.e., stands to the left of the "student" - web-ed]. They should stand far enough away so the paddle barely overlaps past the right cheek. They should adjust fore and aft to ensure that both cheeks are struck at the same time (assuming a paddle is being used. Canes and straps warrant slightly forward positioning). It is not possible to more fully expose and present a rear end than when in this position. When one is told to bend over and grab their ankles, one is, in effect, being told, "we intend to thoroughly paddle your bottom. So not only will you present your rear-end but you will stretch and endeavor to stick it up and out as far as you can absolutely positively can. And throughout the paddling, you will continue to strain to stick it out for the paddle." This is a great fantasy position but I think it only works safely in reality for spankees with flexible bodies (especially when a thick paddle is used). Inflexible people can't reach their ankles without bending their knees. Non-fleshy butts get pulled tightly across the pelvic bones and don't provide enough padding when a heavy paddle is used. [Our response is, use a lighter paddle! But this position is a very tiring one for the spankee, making its usefulness limited. -- Web-ed]
• Hands on knees. A safer, more workable position than hands-onankles. The bottom is presented in a plumper, more paddle-friendly shape but visually, the position is still very school-like. Depending on the person, I think this position can be more visually appealing because the back can be arched a bit which perks up the bottom. In fact, the further up the legs the hands are placed, the more the spankee can arch their back and stick out their rump. Again, feet should be shoulder width apart and hand position enforced. Because the back can be arched and bottom upturned, it should be required, both prior and during the paddling. A technique which tends to arch the back correctly is to require the student to look forward at a spot high on the wall. That way, they are required to pull their head up and arch their back. [an excellent suggestion, and one which we employ ourselves when giving a paddling, this technique was actually used in some schools where corporal punishment was administered, and perhaps still is --web-ed].

8.19 Diary

In car 0630, and headed home, in a helluva lot of traffic.
 Home  07:18.
Merry, asleep in Her bed, and tallship, at the dining room table, fingers flying across the keyboard of his laptop.
I feed the animals...scooped the litter box in my room...  stripped, went into the bathroom, cut the plastic lock on the CD, and took it off, got on the shower ... lathered up and rinsed off..  and dried, dressed in a-shirt, boxer briefs, and no show socks, and went into Her room.
She woke up after a few taps on Her shoulder, and told me to get into bed, as She got out to go pee.
She returned, and we almost immediately began things with me pulling down Her kinky pinkies, and giving Her oral delight....   until She moaned, 'pleeeese', and tried to pull me up to Her,  and I said, "Gimme a chance to get my shorts down..."
 Once I did, She guided me into position...   and we knocked the boots that we were not wearing, as She had countless orgasms on the way to me having one. Woo Hoo!
Then began cleanup, as I licked my own creampie out from between Her legs...  then after a moment, I got up to go start on  BLD, while She stayed behind to catch up on reading... on Her cell phone.
I made sandwiches, and She came out to the living room also.
I read Monday and Tuesday's paper while I ate, then excused myself to Her room to sleep.... 0945.
Up 1530 for P&S, and to listen to what She had to say about bills She had paid thus far.
Back to bed, and up 1735... S&D&D and fed cats and packed up..
And out to Her car, along with Stitch getting in the back seat...
With Her driving, rolling at 1815, and at work 1915.

The tail end of an incredibly slow day at work, leading into a somewhat busier following day.

HsLS  16
HSLO  16
HsLD  45
H L  47
H un  17
Her DO   yes

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Posture and Position part 4

• Following are descriptions of various positions that I find erotic, their distinguishing characteristics, tactics that can be used to enhance them, and precautions to take. All descriptions assume a right-handed spanker.
• Over the lap. Spanker is sitting with good posture in an armless chair, knees together. Person being spanked must lay face- down across the spanker's lap, their head to the left and feet to the right. They must be over the lap far enough so their bottom is conveniently located directly over the spanker's right thigh. In order to preserve modesty, the person being spanked may be tempted to lie flat with their head up and legs straight out behind; however, if they are concerned for their modesty, they shouldn't have gotten themselves spanked in the first place. The spankee's head and shoulders should be angled down and their knees tucked down out of the way so that their bottom is well turned up. A palm pressed against the back of the head and swats to the thighs are helpful in positioning the spankee. Knees should be at least six inches apart and the lower back should be "arched" or dipped to further turn up their rear. Depending on size, toes will either be resting against the floor or hoisted off a few inches. The full weight of the spankee should be resting on the lap. Hands can either be on the floor or grasping the legs of the chair. If the right hand flies back during spanking, it should be pinned to the lower back by the spanker's left hand. Prior to starting to spank, the spanker should firmly grasp the spankee's waist above the right hip with the left hand to prevent squirming off the lap. Then the left elbow should be planted between the shoulder blades to keep the head and shoulders from bobbing up. The spanker should raise their right knee slightly, turning up the bottom further. In the case of a woman spanking a boy, she should make sure his penis is pressed firmly against her right thigh and aimed to the left. [not quite sure what he's getting at here --web-ed.] By turning their upper body to the right, the spanker can get a fuller swing and more comfortably apply a stronger swat. By combining all of these tactics - the raised knee, the elbow in the back, the hand in the small of the back - the spanker can effectively pin the spankee down and spank the daylights out of them.

8.18 Diary Part one 00:00 to 06:00

Fun at work:
 00:30, Major and very picky client calls, saying her boss will land in Zurich at 1100, needs a car and driver... well, it was already 0930 in Zurich, and I had to tell her 3 times, the sooner she let me off the phone with her, the sooner, I could start making the calls to see what I could do.
One call to our primary affiliate in Switzerland got it covered, but still, too much drama...
Remember Bruce Campbell...he is a regular of ours... in LA and in Medford Oregon. We had a ride that he ordered for himself, Saturday evening, for 0500 this morning..  The affiliate we use in Medford... we have ONE on the books...not an area of high demand for us...  had not responded to emails or phone calls from the time it was booked.
I started trying ..by calling and leaving voicemails... at 0315,  calling every 10 minutes or so, up until 0400, when I finally called him, and told him, we don't seem to have available service...and he said, "Okay, I'll see what I can do on my end."
Merry called, around 00:45.
Sunshine had hijacked Her, almost from the time She got home...  so She was checking in.
She asked how I felt....
Oh, tired.  I've been up since 7:30 Sunday morning, other than an hour or so nap... hope to be able to get home without dozing off on the freeway too many times...
She said, "Oh well...   I was thinking about invoking a Merry-2 or a Merry-3 when you get home, but if you're all that tired...."
Aiiiiiiiiigh.    The skin is barely hanging on to my ass, as it is.....

Although, as I write this, the idea is kind of intriguing.

I need to wait to see how I really feel, once I get home.

<stop 06:00, to be continued>

Posture and position part 3

• Excellent visual presentation. Speaking from the point of view of an admitted bottom fancier, there a few times that someone looks more adorable and beautiful than when he or she is positioned to be spanked. Not only is the bottom emphasized, but it is formed to a flattering shape and sexily perked out. Spanking positions would be sexy even to people not into spanking. POSITION & POSTURE
• One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of swatting is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While some spankings are haphazard, I prefer spankings that include the ritual of positioning.
• Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance the spanking. These positions generally work to the advantage of the spanker and the disadvantage of the spankee.
• The spanker enjoys the following advantages from their position:
• Comfort. Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is positioned to be comfortable throughout the spanking. They are able to swing their arm at a natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy spanking with ease because of their position.
• Strength. Because they are able to wind up and freely swing their arm at a natural angle, the spanker is able to apply swats to the intended target with force. While standing, the spanker cannot only swing their arm but rotate their body to deliver maximum energy to an anxiously awaiting, clenching derriere.
• Full access to the bottom to be spanked. The spankee's position is designed to fully expose their bottom and the spanker's relative position is designed to put that bottom at a convenient angle and height. Therefore, the spanker is able completely view, tweak, pat, and spank it.
• Safety. Because the spanker is in the position to easily spank the rear-end at the correct angle, it is much less likely that a blow will fall too high or too low.
• Control. The spanker's position gives them the "upper hand" and allows them to easily control the spankee. They sit or stand higher than the spankee and are easily able to restrain and situate the spankee.

8.17 Diary

Saturday night, bed 0130...
I offered and She accepted a DO for Saturday...which I provided orally, then we went to sleep.
I was up 0230 for P&S
And again at 06:30.
Alarm off at 07:30, because She had things to do and places to go.
I had a bit of morning wood, which She took advantage of,  by taking down my briefs and Her own, and getting on top of for a bit of ride, then rolling onto Her back, with me getting on top of Her.  We stopped when She was satisfied, as I wasn't getting close...
Then She 'suggested' I put a cage on it, so I wouldn't be tempted to play solitaire while She was away.
Which I did...
She showered and dressed, and was out, shortly after 8, heading on a bit of a road trip, some 100 miles to the south of us.
I piddled around...and took the time to clean off the mountain on Her desk.
Then i took a nap from 0945 to 1100.
And up...
And started packing for the party I was going to, and for work...
And S&D&D...
And in my car 1215.
Stopped for gas....
Arrived at the Lair, around 1330.

Started by taking part in a game of "Precision" which is sort of a speed game, trying to fit different shaped pegs into corresponding holes...  with bottom swats applied for the number you don't get in, in the one minute that you have to do so....  (I got 12 swats the first round, and 10 on the second...whoo hoo).

Then some sitting around and watching....

BDL told me, he saw that I was coming, and that he didn't bring any canes at all...other than sjambok, just for me.... oh boy.

Around 4:30, I judged myself to be ready.
He set out three leather paddle/straps, and the sjambok,  while I stripped down to a-shirt, jock strap, and socks, and bent over a table.
He started with a number of hand smacks to my buttocks to get the ol' blood flowing..
Followed by 15 to 20 of the alligator paddle....  (OWCH)(croc strap)
Another 15 to 20 of some kind of leather strap   (Ehhh) (Canadian prison strap)
Followed by 15 to 20 of a double leather strap (OWCH)(razor strop)
Followed by 15 or so of the sjambok  (Oh Mi Gawd..) (42" polypropylene)
He asked "How ya doin'"  and I held up four fingers on my left hand, while I tried to catch my breath.
"Four more? Okay."
Four more were duly delivered.  Uggghhhhhh....
After-pix follow this.
More sitting around, as best I could.  My right cheek/thigh STILL hurts as I write this...

Around 1845,  headed out, to car,  to work.
Arrived 1920.
And sat with Dumbass-1 to my left, and Dumbass-2 to my right.
Oh well.
Had one driver drop a client at the airport, and REJECT a ride for an arrival within 20 minutes, because he 'was tired'  which left me annoyed and scrambling.

Not the first time, for this particular chauffeur, either....

HsLS  16
HsLO  57
HsLD  7   Not from HER, but a beating's a beating...
Hr UN  120
Hr L    16
Her DO  Yes...

Posture and position part 2

The spankee realizes the following effects from their position:

·                     Relative comfort. Except for the notable exception of their backside, I think it's important that the spankee be relatively comfortable so they can focus on the sensations being inflicted upon their posterior.

·                     Anticipation. Bending over and getting into position to get your bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds anticipation.

·                     Increased sensation. A properly positioned bottom will tend to be spanked harder and more completely on the sensitive "sit spot".

·                     Humiliation. Being put over the knee is a childish, humiliating posture. Having to "assume the position" is humiliating in its submission and rubs in the fact that they are being spanked.

·                     Exposure. A properly positioned bottom is fully exposed. The cheeks are fully presented and split, their undersides turned up.

·                     Emphasis on their bottom. Spanking positions place the center of attention on the bottom of the person being spanked, a fact not lost on said person. The bottom is emphasized by its exposure and upturned position relative to the spanker.

·                     Presentation of their bottom. Not only is the bottom exposed and emphasized but the spankee feels they are willingly "sticking it out" and presenting it for its punishment in the same way as the condemned man who must place his head on the chopping block. The spankee knows their bottom cannot evade or escape the swats.

·                     Submission. Cooperatively getting into position to be spanked is the primary act of submission in spanking.

·                     Safety. Although it may be of little solace, the spankee can take comfort in the fact that their position affords safety from injury. Of course, this can be disconcerting if they know they will be spanked with even more abandon.

·                     Loss of control. Once positioned, the spankee has relinquished control and may not easily regain it until the spanking is done. They may have difficulty removing their rear from the line of fire if they try.

·                     Inability to clench. When standing, one can clench their cheeks together, mitigating the sting of a swat and the exposure. When properly positioned, it is more difficult to clench cheeks and the spanking will be applied to a relaxed, bouncing bottom.

8.16 Diary

Up around 10:00....
Feed cats, laundry away, fix the bed, eat-newspaper-pills, hooks in the ceiling....
Online with FB, FL, EP  etc
Into the pool for a swim...
Then S&D&D
Then into my car with Merry...
To a WF to cash and redeposit my paycheck...
Vons for shopping...
Ch bank to cover my overage...
99c store...
Winco...
Foods For Less...
and home...unloading and putting groceries away.
Weekly phone call to parents...
Sitting in chair and chilling...
Snuck off to my room for a nap from  1900 to 2030
Up, for dinner, and in my chair for.... whatever ....
And to bed 0130.

HsLS  33
HsLO  33
HsLD 199
h UN  112

Her DO  Not on the 16th, but just into the 17th, yes.


POSITION & POSTURE  part 1

One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of swatting is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While some spankings are haphazard, I prefer spankings that include the ritual of positioning.

Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance the spanking. These positions generally work to the advantage of the spanker and the disadvantage of the spankee.

The spanker enjoys the following advantages from their position:

·                     Comfort. Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is positioned to be comfortable throughout the spanking. They are able to swing their arm at a natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy spanking with ease because of their position.

·                     Strength. Because they are able to wind up and freely swing their arm at a natural angle, the spanker is able to apply swats to the intended target with force. While standing, the spanker cannot only swing their arm but rotate their body to deliver maximum energy to an anxiously awaiting, clenching derriere.

·                     Full access to the bottom to be spanked. The spankee's position is designed to fully expose their bottom and the spanker's relative position is designed to put that bottom at a convenient angle and height. Therefore, the spanker is able completely view, tweak, pat, and spank it.

·                     Safety. Because the spanker is in the position to easily spank the rear-end at the correct angle, it is much less likely that a blow will fall too high or too low.

·                     Control. The spanker's position gives them the "upper hand" and allows them to easily control the spankee. They sit or stand higher than the spankee and are easily able to restrain and situate the spankee.