04.29 Wednesday Diary

00:15  PIl

AT work, watching The Newsroom on my tablet... Season 1, eps 1 through 5....
OFf work 850, in car 853....and home 9:40.
She was sleeping...and after a discussion that got aired on my Facebook page and doesn't need to be rehashed here, I returned to the car alone, to begin morning errands.
10:35  at the SS office, in line, or with a number, waiting to get one form, to ask for an appeal....  
Form in hand, left there at 1210.
Off to the banks, to take as much money as I could out of Chase, and put into WF...
THen in search of a PO to get stamps and get my IRS payment mailed,  17 days late.

HOme 12:51.

Sleeping 1300, in the other bedroom, which is always cooler than ours..
THen up, and sitting/napping in the living room chair...
Then,into the main bedroom....
1800 awake for Pill
UP 20:00.
Cleaning a couple bags I brought in from the two cars...
Dinner of chicken and rice was served, and I ate while watching a two hour ep of Law and Order/SVU.
She came ino the bedroom near the end of it...
Then I watched Criminal Minds....

HSLS  1446
HSLO 1602
HSLF/me  1447
HsLF/her 939
Her DO/HR S  N/958
D s l CI 154

4.08 Diary Wednesday

03:45  "pill"09:00 off work
09:11 in car
10:03 HOme
She had saved for me dinner in the bedroom mini-fridge.
I heated it,and went into the bedroom to eat...
She was watching the last some minutes of "Brokeback Mountain" on tv....
I got my laundry together, in the wash... went to sleep around 10:00
UP 15:00 P and ?   and laundry in dryer.
17:30 UP.
Laundry in and away. 
Talking...
Pill 1800...   made a decision, and set alarms, to take 1/2 a pill every six hours....  Six pm, etc.
TV...
"Agents of Shield" from  15 days ago
"Agents of Shield" from 8 days ago
Dinner...
"S.V.U."
SHe came in to join me for "CSI Cyber"...
Took a pill, and sleep, around 0000.

H s L S  942
H sL O  1095
H sL Fun 943
H s HER L Fun  455
H UN 232
Her DO?/Hrs s   N/454
D s l CI  133

4.01 Wednesday Diary

Off work, in car  0925.
Went to H.D., purchased cord for the whip/weeder whacker,  and super glue.
Home....  brought my stuff inside the house,  changed to my outdoor-clothes,  and went to work on the yard.
Managed to do the entire outside sidewalk area, and the primary western quadrant of the inner front yard.
In the house...scooped the cat box...  moved my car across the street, to just in front of the house...
Took a shower...
created a DM, and watched "Justified" while eating....and went to sleep 1630.

20:30 kind of awake, as dinner was served.
ANd watched 'SVU' for today, then one from last week...
  and back to sleep  23:30.

H s l S  774
H s l O  927
H s L F(me) 775
H s L F (her) 287
Hr UN 64
Her DO/hrs since  No/286
D s L CIG  126

2.25 Wednesday Diary and TFTD

Off work, and out 8:09.
Rushin' to meet Her at the SSI office in L'wood.  
I arrived about 0917, before Her, and stood in the line to get in, and She pulled up, parked, and came up, and met me at the head of the line, just in time to go in.
We announced to the intake person that She had an 09:30 appointment, and we sat down to wait.
One minute later, She realized She had left Her phone in the car, and I got up to go fetched it.
I returned just in time for Her name to be called, and we were shown in.

We meet with a nice woman.
It wasn't good, it wasn't bad. Nothing was/is settled as yet.

We went home.

I sat down, to load KIK onto my phone, and spent a minute chatting with somebody I had met on tumblr who had mentioned using this to me. 

And I went to get a nap, around noon.
Got up around 13:30 for a snack, then back to bed

And up, around 18:30.

I was allowed to use the computer in the living room for a bit.

Dinner was served, 8:55, and I went to the bedroom to watch 'SVU'.  
SHe came in to join me, and we watched "Elementary" together.

And I went back to sleep, 23:00.

Hrs s l S   85
Hrs s l O   85
Hr s l  D    96
Dys  UN   94
Dys s l CI  91
Her DO    No




Thought for the day:

Okay, I have spoken to the men. Now it's time you women paid attention. Your job, as the head of the house, is NOT to do your husband's bidding! It is to keep things running smoothly and to make sure your partner is doing his part. How do you do that? I have two words for you: Reward, and Discipline!

If you do not reward your partner for his good behavior, he will begin to get lax in his duties. If you don't punish him when he fails to please you, or do what you want, then YOU are to blame when things fall apart.

Yes, if your partner does everything you ask, but you begin to expect this without any kind of reward, then you are fooling yourself. He will become lax in his duties and will not be as attentive and loving as you would like. So, take a few minutes, every day, to praise him for what he does for you. Give him a little “physical” encouragement. That's what he wants and understands.

When your husband (boyfriend, girlfriend, lover, or what have you) is doing what you expect and want him to do, then you should reward him with some kind of physical or auditory pleasure. Reach into his pants and fondle him for a minute. Whisper something sexual to turn him on, or allow him to fondle your breasts for a minute. Do SOMETHING to reward him. If he has been good all week, tie him to the bed and tease his cock for twenty or thirty minutes. Or anything else you can think of that you know he will enjoy.

Now what if he didn't wash the car this morning like you asked? Just as rewarding good behavior is important, so is discipline! If he fails to please you, complains about the way you run things, or even about not getting enough sex, PUNISH HIM!

You can use many different kinds of punishments or disciplines. Having him make the bed ten or fifteen times in a row, is a great discipline if he fails to do it,or does it poorly. Bending him over your knee and using a hairbrush to make him cry is an excellent way to stop his complaining. Don't be afraid to use any kind of punishment that works.

After all, wouldn't you expect to punish your children for misbehavior? Then why don't you treat your partner the same way? Sure, the punishments may be more harsh for your partner than for your kids, but the outcome will be the same; A well behaved husband.

Mistress Ivey

2.18 Wednesday Diary

Off work and out 9:15, in MY car and home 10:20.

Merry got up as I walked in.  I let Donna out of her crate, and fed all the animals.  
I emptied the diswasher, put dishes in, sorted all the tupperware-type containers, looked at the non working dryer...
Did a fashion show with panties, to see what She does not like and does, and took pix of the ones She likes....
had a snack of carrots celery and apple... sorted mail, read theapper,  
Moved into the bedroom  ..... sex with Merry ensued, resulting in a happy ending for me!
I tried to nap,but sleep was not forthcoming... so I got up , started on notebook fiddling, uploading panty pix to my blog...
watched Shameless... two eps of ComicBookMen, 
while hand scribbling some new stories to work out, and submit to Ms Ivey.  
Merry went out to the market with Stitch and returned, and served up dinner.  
I watched SVU...and went to bed, when it ended.

Hours since last sex  10
Hours since last O     10
Hr since last D          101
Days since locked up  2145
D since last CIG         84
Her DO                     Yes