Showing posts with label Urtication. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Urtication. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

7.01 Diary

Hung around at work to clean up a few things, while making up the time that I got in late, the night before...so OUT  about 710, and home  0800.
Fed the critters, and scooped, stripped, and got in the shower, and joined Her in bed.
I did not ask first, to join Her in bed, which She pointed out.  And I'll point out, we are not currently operating under any type of D/s agreement, until such time as She finishes or we decide to not have a semi-formal document.
She was tired, having sleep ...not much... after being up most of the night, after taking along nap the previous day... so we just lay together, until I suggested I might as well get up, get somethin' to eat and get to bed early.
She agreed, but it still took another half hour before we actually did it.
Got up, got something to eat, read the newspaper, took my pills... and went to my bed around 1030, and she joined me.
I got up around 1330 for p&s, and while I was sitting at the table finishing a glass of iced tea, she came out of the bedroom,  and we started talking about this, that, and something else... so I didn't go back to my bedroom until 1445...  and She came in, around 1515,  and began stroking and sucking my penis... oh my.
This led to me asking Her if She wanted to go for a ride.
She did, but She was too dry in Her nethers for penetration when She straddled me, so She rolled onto Her back, so I could perform oral, until She was quite ready.
Then I slid up to get face to face with Her,  and encountered Sleepy Penis Syndrome...could not get it even remotely hard enough to manage penetration.   So I slid down to continue with some oral, then moved up, to lay alongside Her.
She pulled the pink waffle maker out of the dresser drawer next to Her.
"What do you think you are going to do with that," I asked.
"You owe me for not giving me penetration, and I'm not taking a 'no'. Get over my lap."
I got over Her lap, and She applied 44 smacks of the paddle to my buttocks, on alternating cheeks, as I counted them out,  then added another ten smacks of a leather paddle.
Then She asked for a bit more oral service, which I was happy to provide.
And my alarm was going off. Time to get up and ready.
I did, and was standing in the living room, stark naked, when Stitch came home (late... 17:15 or 1720).
I remembered a chore, and went to the bedroom to get the chamber pot, brought it back to the bathroom to empty it out, and clean it, and took it back to the bedroom.
Then I got in the shower....and lathered, rinsed, and dried, and dressed in socks and underwear, then went into the living room to get on my shirt and tights.
She had finally started a pitcher of tea (I'd been asking Her to, since 10 that morning).
It had not fully steeped yet, but no matter, I had to get going. I poured some into my mug, and added the contents of a can of Red Bull, and ice,   and kissed Her, good bye,and went out to my car.
In car 1800...
At work  1858.
My second least favorite co worker was still on duty,  but fortunately, told me, he had permission to leave early, as in, whenever I was settled in and comfortable with him leaving, which I did, as soon as I could.
My usual co-worker, the female had switched days, to be off today, and would be working Friday, so I had the guy on-duty who usually works the days that she does not work, and we never meet on our current schedule.
He's okay, just way too polite to suit me.

Other than getting yelled at by the most-despised client that my company has,  it was an easy night.

Here's hoping the morning is the same.

HsLS  8
HsLO  71
HsLD 7
H UN 1235
Her DO?  Yes


from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
Once the medical condition has been remedied, he will re-secure the device and notify Her of the action.

from How to Control Your Husband  (more possible humiliations)
12.  Sexually servicing  several women
13.  Telling others about your lifestyle
14.  Prostate or other type of milking
15. Being naked around the house
16.  Anal penetration (dildo,  strap-on, etc.)
17.  Sex with an inflatable doll
18. Suck a realistic dildo
19. Being naked outdoors
20.  Being photographed (or video recorded)
21.  Post photos or videos to the web
         more 'humiliations'  tomorrow!

from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
Sensitivity to any sensations increases markedly, and in the words of Master Conrad Hodson "a feather can feel like a brush, a light spanking feels like a strap, a light strap or flogger blows their minds."  One bottom, inquiring if a nettling would effect a spanking and in answer receiving a few swats with just the fingertips, exclaimed 'a four year old could have me in agony!"
      ε

Monday, June 30, 2014

6.29 Diary

The movie ended...and She rolled on me, and slipped down, and began giving me a long, lingering, and delightful blowjob.
And I wanted to return the favor, and She got on Her back, and I took Her tighty pinkies down and off, and began licking between Her closed thighs, and She moaned,  and put a pillow over Her face in an attempt to muffle Her moans, until She pulled me up by my armpits, to mount Her....
And we fucked,  hard and slow, fast and shallow, and at speeds in between.
And  Glory Be.
I ... climaxed, inside Her.
After resting a minute, I slipped down between Her legs, and  begin licking and cleaning up.
And I crawled up, to lay next to Her.
"Now, is there ANYthing you want, that I can do?"
"Let me go to sleep."
"That's it, of anything I can do, that's what you want?"
"I don't want to be spanked, I don't want to be fisted or fucked with a strap-on, so no, I just want to go to sleep."
"I would have included, putting you in chastity, but since you said you don't want anything, doesn't matter."
"I do not want anything."
   To sleep,  0200 or so.

She was up earlier than me (as usual, it seems) making macaroni and shrimp salad (OH BOY!) for Her meeting later in the day.
I got up, and started on coffee, toast, and newspaper, as She was getting ready to go.
Actually, as "she" was getting ready, as little-s was in control.  (Toilet)
After she and Stitch left, I saw her phone, on the computer desk.
Then minutes later, she was calling my phone from Stitch's phone, asking about whatever it was she had left behind.  (Toilet)
I went to the pharmacy to get Her prescriptions...  a seventeen minute round trip, which includes the time it took to park, walk in, ask for and pay for them....
Toilet; Shower and dress and toilet,  and pour iced tea in my travel mug, and in car 13:40.
I went to the toilet, number 2, four times, from the time I got up to the time I left for work.
I still wonder where it all came from.
At work 14:30.
It's been the "BET Experience" all weekend, downtown, culminating in the BET Awards, tonight.
The organizers should be called the DISorganizers.   This is our worst event of the year, when it comes to working with people who simple haven't a clue....
Fortunately, I was just doing set up for the next day, for which we have a whopping 85 rides on the books so far, and did not have to move into the night's operation until the swing guy left, at 19:30.

While at work, She told me that Bee 'moved in'.
And the sub that we liked from Friday's interview messaged to say, that he was backing out.
Ah well.




from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
She will have one emergency key available for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and other situations where excessive bodily harm may be present.

from How to Control Your Husband
Men are all different.  Thus, different things turn them on and different thingshumiliate them.  Here is a list of things that humiliate many men.  This list is by no means complete, nor is every man be turned on by everything on the list.  It is up to ou to discover what works and what does not.  Sometimes, only the threat of these things is enough to turn him on.  Humiliation can be used as a punishment as well.  Find out what ones and you can control his behavior through the threat of it. 


from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
And here's what they do: 
Nettles cause intense burning sensations in the skin where applied, very similar to the sharp pain of a whip.  In fact, the family classification Urtica comes from the LAtion uro -- meaning 'to burn'.  But while a whipstroke comparatively fades rapidly (within an hour at least, with aching for a few more) the hot intense burn of a nettle can last of up to 24 hours.

Sunday, June 29, 2014

6.28 Diary

Up for p&s, 0500.
And up for real, 0930.
Shower, d&d, and in the car, off for our 11:00 interview.
Who was a no-show.
So, we had breakfast.
Stopped at a supermarket on the way home...
We 'had' a 1400 interview scheduled, but she was unable to get the guy to reconfirm it, and She said, we weren't going until She could.
I washed down my car and hers, and watered the fruit in the front yard, and started on a reorganization project in my room.
And she let me know that a high school ex-boyfriend was having all sorts of personal issues,and was coming over to talk.
Towards the end of their talk, She asked me, how I felt about him, moving in with us for awhile, while he got his feet back on the ground.
Fine by me.
He left around 17:30.  
We got dressed, and headed for our 1830 interview.
The guy met us in the parking lot of the restaurant, saying he had a bad experience with meeting inside a restaurant... and all but refused to come into the restaurant with us.
We looked at each other, shook our heads 'no', and walked on into the restaurant, leaving him standing there.
After a few minutes inside, we walked out, having decided to go to a different restaurant, anyway.
Afterwards, we went to the pharmacy, to get Her prescriptions...but the pharmacy closed several hours earlier...  then we stopped for much needed gas in my car, and went on home.
I finished a couple minor projects, then lay down to watch "Nurse Jackie" and She came in to join me.
Then we talked about watching a movie.   And I went to my pile, and picked out a couple, and we decided on "Jersey Girl".
 No snickering, please; I happen to really like it.
I have not used the DVD player, since we moved into this house, so I had to find the remote, and remember how it worked.
While I was fiddling with it, She reached into the dresser drawer right next to Her and pulled out the pink waffle maker.
"I thought you said you lost this..."
"Yeah, I thought so, turned out that one and the other were under the false bottom of the toy bag we carry around."
"Oh...well, how about I spank you with this right now?"
"How about, you don't. I'm trying to get this to work."
Nothing else was said; I got the dvd to play, and we watched the movie.


HsLS  111
HsLO  1148
HsLD  171
H UN  1187
HER do?  No

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He will not attempt to defeat the device in any way, OR possess the keys.

from How to Control Your Husband
7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease him.
1. Fond him through his pants, in public or private.
2. Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.
3. Make him shop for lingerie with you.


from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
The article Organic S&M provides lots of useful info on nettles, including the history:
 Among the Druids, it is/was a sacred herb, while Roman soldiers were noted to carry bits of the plant with them into battle to give them courage.  The nettle was used by native Americans in the northwest to keep awake on long canoe voyages, by English herbwives to 'encourage' prize bulls during the mating season, and by english mistresses for much the same purpose. And stinging nettles were as common in Victorian era erotica as figging, birches, and caning. 

6.27 Diary

06:15 She picked me up at work, and we were home by 0700.
I fed the critters, and had a snack.
She suggested I get out the spanking bench and the video camera.
The thought in my head: "Are you FUCKING crazy?"
What actual came out, in conversation later, was, How much does She really care about me? This was so thoughtless.
I mean seriously,  I just worked an eight hour shift, which was unplanned, which meant I had maybe 90 minutes of sleep before going to work.
I was tired.
I went, and took a nap from 0745 to 0945.
Up shower, dry, dress....
We got in her car 1045, and went to Co's and met with Bob, and were there until 1300, and it was a very good meeting.
HOme... for a nap in my chair,
Then in her car 1400, to go to Ksr in HC for medications,  then from there to HB... a bank first, then to drop off medications and a check... then to a branch of my bank to make a deposit...
Then back to LB,  to the supermarket, then to CVS but her meds were not ready...
then home  about 1830.
We discussed going to a FemDom party this night, but by this time it was not happening.
Sat down, did some reading and writing, but no 'rithmetic...
She served dinner,
I went to the bedroom to watch a couple eps of Nurse Jackie...  and went to sleep, 2300.

HsLS  87
HsLO  1124
HsLD  147
Hr UN  1163


from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He will immediately resecure the device after cleaning, unless is ordered otherwise. 

from How to Control Your Husband
6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.
1. Don't let him get away with anything!
2. Spank, paddle, or whip him.
3. Humiliate him in some way.
4. Put Bengay or IcyHot on his cock, balls, or anus.
5. Make him do anything he hates.

from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
Someone wrote to sex columnist Dan Savage to say "I find applying stinging nettles to my body highly pleasurable."  Savage looked into the matter and wrote: 
 Tracy Mehlin at the Center for Urban Horticulture at the University of Washington wa kind enough not to slam the phone down when I read her your question, perhaps because she once knew a guy on a farm who occasionally lashed himself  with stinging nettles. 'I didn't ask him to go into details but there are some people who enjoy the effect.'
Dan also found out that there's a long history behind the practice:  As it turns out, you're not the first person to expose his 'delicate areas' to stinging nettles.  The Romans thrashed men 'below the navel' according to Rodale's Encyclopedia of Herbs, to improve virility.

Friday, June 27, 2014

6.26 Diary

Her first attempt to wake me up was around 0900; I finally got up, about 10:30.
Coffee, snack, newpaper.
We thought She was going for a blood draw: but found out, the time limit on that is 09:30.
We thought we had a 13:00 Interview...but he backed out.
We thought we might be going to Ksr for a prescription...but found it, it won't be ready til the next day.
She told me She was getting a subliminal message:  "Cotton candy 4 o'clock..."
I told Her, "That's coming from little-s, and I told little-s,  cotton candy will be a reward, after I get those buttons sewed on that shirt."
I took the dining room table out back, and hosed it down and washed it in three kinds of cleaners, then brought it back in.
I put yesterdays' laundry away.
I sorted papers on Her desk, and created a box of chronological bills, for Her.
She was having gastric distress, and adjourned to Her room, to lie down.
I went in my room, and began a couple projects, beginning with sorting through a large box of old bills and mail, taking up space near a dresser.
Little-s emerged, saying her tummy was feeling better, and was amenable to doing some sewing, so I brought in the shirt,  found her a sewing kit, then went back to my room, to begin a pen reorganization project.
She came to me, showing me the shirt, with buttons intact.
Around 3:30 we showered together, and dressed,  and got in her car, and headed out to CoI, to the buffet rest't that offers cotton candy.
Arrived 5:15...  and pigged out.   Oh mi gosh.
For just under fifteen bucks a person, waaaay better than Hometown Buffet.
Before leaving, she went to the restroom, and I sat in the lobby, looked at my phone.
The boss sent a text, saying the other overnight guy had called off for tonight, and did I 'feel like' coming to work?
She came back, and we went to the car and discussed it.
It seemed like a reasonable idea, and I sent him a text, saying, I'd be there between 10 and 11, and work til 0600.
He sent back a joy filled response.
We went home.
I went almost straight to my bedroom, and napped from 2000 to 2130.
Got up and dressed, and three of us got in Her car, and She drove, bringing me to work.
The boss went outside to talk to Her, and She referred to Him as a "C...B...r".
When he came in, he said, he actually knew what that meant.
We were talking about a client we're picking up Friday morning, one Snoop Dogg, and I mentioned to him, that She told me about a party She was once at, and was introduced to one Calvin B   (hey, CB initials, again)and after awhile, She said, "Do I know you from somewhere?"
Anyway,
He asked, "What was SHE doing at a party with S Dogg?"
I said, "She's had an interesting and varied life."
At work  22:15 or so.

HsLS  63
HsLO  1100
HsLD  123
H UN  1139
Her DO no
Did I offer   No


from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He agrees that during release for cleaning, he will shave accordingly, to keep his genitalia free for her.

from How to Control Your Husband
Make him do something humiliating  (a list will follow, soon enough)...
1. Make him wear a butt plug, for a time
2. Make him be naked when you are not
3. Make him masturbate for you.
4. Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum, no matter where it is deposited.

from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
 Nettles may be applied in various ways.  Some lie the stems down and press the hairs into the skin; others hold them in a cluster and tap it against the chosen area, or put them into a bottoms' underwear.  Men who wear condoms have found that briefly applying nettles to the penis before putting on a condom can compensate for the sensation lost by the latex barrier.

6.25 Diary

Off work  0930, and home  10ish
She was just getting up, and had fed the critters.
I stripped my bed, and started some laundry, and She wanted to talk.
..about Her depression, and what I could do to help.
By getting Her on some kind of schedule.
Then I had somethin' to eat, and went to sleep on Her bed.
Well,  both beds are Hers...so, I mean, I went to sleep on the bed that still had sheets on it, the one She sleeps on when I'm not home..
Up, around 18:00.
I was told, laundry was in dryer, should be ready soon.
I put together a bill chronological list, to help Her keep track.
I went through accumulated mail.
Dinner was ready.
She asked, like three times, for one of us to clear the table. I got up and did it.
We sat down to a family discussion, when was Her saying, that when She called us for dinner, we should make an effort to come to the kitchen or table right away, rather than procrastinate.
We ate.    Boneless pork, baked in orange sauce and soy and candied ginger,  with rice on the side.
Scrumptious!
After clearing the table, with Stitch starting on the dishes,
I excused myself  to go get the sheets on the bed, and watch the "Fargo" finale.
Once it ended, I told Her I was going to sleep, and She said She would join me, soon.
..... 00:00.

HsLS  39
HsLO  1076
HsLD  99
H UN 1115
Her DO?  No
I offer?  No

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He agrees to all terms of release, set forth by her, including use of restraints, if necessary. 

from How to Control Your Husband
You must keep him sexually aroused, as much as possible.
1. Talk sexy to him.
2. Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
3. Fondle him, let him fondle you.
4. Send him text messages, with orders to do something sexual.
5. Make him give you frequent orgasms.

from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
Skin exposed to nettles will redden and in a short time, produce small bumps.  The person will feel a hot sting that fades to a warm tingling glow which may last several hours. 

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

06.24 Diary

In car, 0653.  Home  0720.
Fed the critters....  showered ...
Entered Her room, naked, as She got out of bed to go pee, and got into the bed, and She joined me.
We talked for a few minutes, then I said, "It's Tuesday, shall we get on with it?"
We began prelimaries of sex, and She interrupted me long enough to fetch a plastic sheet, and three towels, to put underneath Her bottom, in order to avoid washing the sheets, again.
Sex ensued.
Once She was satisfied, we got up, and went into the kitchen to get something to eat.
And I read the newpaper, and played with my pens..and went to bed, around 10:45
Awake 12:45, for p&s. She was at Her computer, and begin telling me about recent developments..and I went back to bed, 1400.
And was awake, needing to pee, again 1645.  My alarm was set for half an hour later, so I just stayed up, and began a project of shift stuff from drawers on one side of my room, to the other side.
In the process, I determined, once and for all, that I have NINE chastity devices in my possession.
I haven't been altogether too sure of the exact number, until now.
Shower, and dressed, and kissed Her good bye...
In car 1800, and at work 1900.

And, slow and easy and drama free at work.

HsLS  15
HsLO  1052
HslD  75
H UN  1091

AND
Days since last cigarette :   21   !





One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations:
She will supervise at least one removal of the device in a seven day period for cleaning and shaving.

from How to Control Your Husband
You must get into his head!
1. Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
2. Tease him with your words, whenever possible.
3 Find out what humiliates him.
4. Use his humiliation whenever possible.

from Urtication:  Sex and Nettles
What is Urtication:  refers to those who use stinging nettles to stimulate the skin for sex games, such as spanking and BDSM practices.  The active ingredients in the stinging nettle do not spread to other areas but are restricted to the site at which the plant comes into contact.  The skin becomes sensitized without the injury that certain types of flagellation can produce.