Showing posts with label How to control your husband. Show all posts
Showing posts with label How to control your husband. Show all posts

Friday, July 4, 2014

7.02 Diary

Off at 0930, and home 1015.
We talked, I fed the cats, and ate, and lay down around 1130.
Up 1250 for P&S
Up to stay, 135, shower, dry, dress...
And in the car for our 1400 interview at Co's.
This guy seems okay, but She thought he was too hyper or nervous...or...
And there was some altercation in the past between him and Lady K, so She put an end to the interview.
We went home... and after toilet and whatever, I got in the car 1540 to go get Stitch at work.
Home, Emptied the dishwasher, and washed pots, and got my laundry out of the dryer, put my laundry from washer into dryer, and started a load of her laundry in the wash.
In my room, I cleared off the top of the bed.  She went out...
And I took a nap from 6 to 7.
Up, laundry in, sheets on bed, laundry away.
Figured out some crap in my room.
Dinner...sloppy joes ... was served.
Afterwards, She and I spent about an hour in the hot tub...
Then went in for showeres.
In my room,  we watched the Nurse Jackie finale.
And I was asleep, around  11:30.

HsLS  32
HsLO  95
HsLD  31
H UN  1259
Her DO ?  NO

from  One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He acknowledges her needs, that may need fulfilling, and such releases for her do not constitute release for him.

from How to Control Your Husband  (more humiliations)
22.  Forced bi-sexuality (make him suck another's cock)
23. Being cuckolded
24. Drinking your urine
25.  Doing just about anything sexual to himself while your or others watch.
The thing to remember is  that you don't have to make him actually do these things.  Just suggesting that you 'might' may be enough of a turn-on.  It's up to you to discover what works with your man, and what does not.                                                     εñδ

from Corporal Punishment Implements: The Ruler
The ruler is a symbol of school discipline in many countries.  It is also the first of the implements I am discussing <in this blog> that is more commonly used on the hands of the culprit than on the bottom. 



Wednesday, July 2, 2014

7.01 Diary

Hung around at work to clean up a few things, while making up the time that I got in late, the night before...so OUT  about 710, and home  0800.
Fed the critters, and scooped, stripped, and got in the shower, and joined Her in bed.
I did not ask first, to join Her in bed, which She pointed out.  And I'll point out, we are not currently operating under any type of D/s agreement, until such time as She finishes or we decide to not have a semi-formal document.
She was tired, having sleep ...not much... after being up most of the night, after taking along nap the previous day... so we just lay together, until I suggested I might as well get up, get somethin' to eat and get to bed early.
She agreed, but it still took another half hour before we actually did it.
Got up, got something to eat, read the newspaper, took my pills... and went to my bed around 1030, and she joined me.
I got up around 1330 for p&s, and while I was sitting at the table finishing a glass of iced tea, she came out of the bedroom,  and we started talking about this, that, and something else... so I didn't go back to my bedroom until 1445...  and She came in, around 1515,  and began stroking and sucking my penis... oh my.
This led to me asking Her if She wanted to go for a ride.
She did, but She was too dry in Her nethers for penetration when She straddled me, so She rolled onto Her back, so I could perform oral, until She was quite ready.
Then I slid up to get face to face with Her,  and encountered Sleepy Penis Syndrome...could not get it even remotely hard enough to manage penetration.   So I slid down to continue with some oral, then moved up, to lay alongside Her.
She pulled the pink waffle maker out of the dresser drawer next to Her.
"What do you think you are going to do with that," I asked.
"You owe me for not giving me penetration, and I'm not taking a 'no'. Get over my lap."
I got over Her lap, and She applied 44 smacks of the paddle to my buttocks, on alternating cheeks, as I counted them out,  then added another ten smacks of a leather paddle.
Then She asked for a bit more oral service, which I was happy to provide.
And my alarm was going off. Time to get up and ready.
I did, and was standing in the living room, stark naked, when Stitch came home (late... 17:15 or 1720).
I remembered a chore, and went to the bedroom to get the chamber pot, brought it back to the bathroom to empty it out, and clean it, and took it back to the bedroom.
Then I got in the shower....and lathered, rinsed, and dried, and dressed in socks and underwear, then went into the living room to get on my shirt and tights.
She had finally started a pitcher of tea (I'd been asking Her to, since 10 that morning).
It had not fully steeped yet, but no matter, I had to get going. I poured some into my mug, and added the contents of a can of Red Bull, and ice,   and kissed Her, good bye,and went out to my car.
In car 1800...
At work  1858.
My second least favorite co worker was still on duty,  but fortunately, told me, he had permission to leave early, as in, whenever I was settled in and comfortable with him leaving, which I did, as soon as I could.
My usual co-worker, the female had switched days, to be off today, and would be working Friday, so I had the guy on-duty who usually works the days that she does not work, and we never meet on our current schedule.
He's okay, just way too polite to suit me.

Other than getting yelled at by the most-despised client that my company has,  it was an easy night.

Here's hoping the morning is the same.

HsLS  8
HsLO  71
HsLD 7
H UN 1235
Her DO?  Yes


from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
Once the medical condition has been remedied, he will re-secure the device and notify Her of the action.

from How to Control Your Husband  (more possible humiliations)
12.  Sexually servicing  several women
13.  Telling others about your lifestyle
14.  Prostate or other type of milking
15. Being naked around the house
16.  Anal penetration (dildo,  strap-on, etc.)
17.  Sex with an inflatable doll
18. Suck a realistic dildo
19. Being naked outdoors
20.  Being photographed (or video recorded)
21.  Post photos or videos to the web
         more 'humiliations'  tomorrow!

from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
Sensitivity to any sensations increases markedly, and in the words of Master Conrad Hodson "a feather can feel like a brush, a light spanking feels like a strap, a light strap or flogger blows their minds."  One bottom, inquiring if a nettling would effect a spanking and in answer receiving a few swats with just the fingertips, exclaimed 'a four year old could have me in agony!"
      ε

Monday, June 30, 2014

6.29 Diary

The movie ended...and She rolled on me, and slipped down, and began giving me a long, lingering, and delightful blowjob.
And I wanted to return the favor, and She got on Her back, and I took Her tighty pinkies down and off, and began licking between Her closed thighs, and She moaned,  and put a pillow over Her face in an attempt to muffle Her moans, until She pulled me up by my armpits, to mount Her....
And we fucked,  hard and slow, fast and shallow, and at speeds in between.
And  Glory Be.
I ... climaxed, inside Her.
After resting a minute, I slipped down between Her legs, and  begin licking and cleaning up.
And I crawled up, to lay next to Her.
"Now, is there ANYthing you want, that I can do?"
"Let me go to sleep."
"That's it, of anything I can do, that's what you want?"
"I don't want to be spanked, I don't want to be fisted or fucked with a strap-on, so no, I just want to go to sleep."
"I would have included, putting you in chastity, but since you said you don't want anything, doesn't matter."
"I do not want anything."
   To sleep,  0200 or so.

She was up earlier than me (as usual, it seems) making macaroni and shrimp salad (OH BOY!) for Her meeting later in the day.
I got up, and started on coffee, toast, and newspaper, as She was getting ready to go.
Actually, as "she" was getting ready, as little-s was in control.  (Toilet)
After she and Stitch left, I saw her phone, on the computer desk.
Then minutes later, she was calling my phone from Stitch's phone, asking about whatever it was she had left behind.  (Toilet)
I went to the pharmacy to get Her prescriptions...  a seventeen minute round trip, which includes the time it took to park, walk in, ask for and pay for them....
Toilet; Shower and dress and toilet,  and pour iced tea in my travel mug, and in car 13:40.
I went to the toilet, number 2, four times, from the time I got up to the time I left for work.
I still wonder where it all came from.
At work 14:30.
It's been the "BET Experience" all weekend, downtown, culminating in the BET Awards, tonight.
The organizers should be called the DISorganizers.   This is our worst event of the year, when it comes to working with people who simple haven't a clue....
Fortunately, I was just doing set up for the next day, for which we have a whopping 85 rides on the books so far, and did not have to move into the night's operation until the swing guy left, at 19:30.

While at work, She told me that Bee 'moved in'.
And the sub that we liked from Friday's interview messaged to say, that he was backing out.
Ah well.




from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
She will have one emergency key available for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and other situations where excessive bodily harm may be present.

from How to Control Your Husband
Men are all different.  Thus, different things turn them on and different thingshumiliate them.  Here is a list of things that humiliate many men.  This list is by no means complete, nor is every man be turned on by everything on the list.  It is up to ou to discover what works and what does not.  Sometimes, only the threat of these things is enough to turn him on.  Humiliation can be used as a punishment as well.  Find out what ones and you can control his behavior through the threat of it. 


from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
And here's what they do: 
Nettles cause intense burning sensations in the skin where applied, very similar to the sharp pain of a whip.  In fact, the family classification Urtica comes from the LAtion uro -- meaning 'to burn'.  But while a whipstroke comparatively fades rapidly (within an hour at least, with aching for a few more) the hot intense burn of a nettle can last of up to 24 hours.

Sunday, June 29, 2014

6.28 Diary

Up for p&s, 0500.
And up for real, 0930.
Shower, d&d, and in the car, off for our 11:00 interview.
Who was a no-show.
So, we had breakfast.
Stopped at a supermarket on the way home...
We 'had' a 1400 interview scheduled, but she was unable to get the guy to reconfirm it, and She said, we weren't going until She could.
I washed down my car and hers, and watered the fruit in the front yard, and started on a reorganization project in my room.
And she let me know that a high school ex-boyfriend was having all sorts of personal issues,and was coming over to talk.
Towards the end of their talk, She asked me, how I felt about him, moving in with us for awhile, while he got his feet back on the ground.
Fine by me.
He left around 17:30.  
We got dressed, and headed for our 1830 interview.
The guy met us in the parking lot of the restaurant, saying he had a bad experience with meeting inside a restaurant... and all but refused to come into the restaurant with us.
We looked at each other, shook our heads 'no', and walked on into the restaurant, leaving him standing there.
After a few minutes inside, we walked out, having decided to go to a different restaurant, anyway.
Afterwards, we went to the pharmacy, to get Her prescriptions...but the pharmacy closed several hours earlier...  then we stopped for much needed gas in my car, and went on home.
I finished a couple minor projects, then lay down to watch "Nurse Jackie" and She came in to join me.
Then we talked about watching a movie.   And I went to my pile, and picked out a couple, and we decided on "Jersey Girl".
 No snickering, please; I happen to really like it.
I have not used the DVD player, since we moved into this house, so I had to find the remote, and remember how it worked.
While I was fiddling with it, She reached into the dresser drawer right next to Her and pulled out the pink waffle maker.
"I thought you said you lost this..."
"Yeah, I thought so, turned out that one and the other were under the false bottom of the toy bag we carry around."
"Oh...well, how about I spank you with this right now?"
"How about, you don't. I'm trying to get this to work."
Nothing else was said; I got the dvd to play, and we watched the movie.


HsLS  111
HsLO  1148
HsLD  171
H UN  1187
HER do?  No

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He will not attempt to defeat the device in any way, OR possess the keys.

from How to Control Your Husband
7. No matter what you are doing, or where you are, find ways to tease him.
1. Fond him through his pants, in public or private.
2. Whisper sexy or humiliating things in his ear.
3. Make him shop for lingerie with you.


from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
The article Organic S&M provides lots of useful info on nettles, including the history:
 Among the Druids, it is/was a sacred herb, while Roman soldiers were noted to carry bits of the plant with them into battle to give them courage.  The nettle was used by native Americans in the northwest to keep awake on long canoe voyages, by English herbwives to 'encourage' prize bulls during the mating season, and by english mistresses for much the same purpose. And stinging nettles were as common in Victorian era erotica as figging, birches, and caning. 

6.27 Diary

06:15 She picked me up at work, and we were home by 0700.
I fed the critters, and had a snack.
She suggested I get out the spanking bench and the video camera.
The thought in my head: "Are you FUCKING crazy?"
What actual came out, in conversation later, was, How much does She really care about me? This was so thoughtless.
I mean seriously,  I just worked an eight hour shift, which was unplanned, which meant I had maybe 90 minutes of sleep before going to work.
I was tired.
I went, and took a nap from 0745 to 0945.
Up shower, dry, dress....
We got in her car 1045, and went to Co's and met with Bob, and were there until 1300, and it was a very good meeting.
HOme... for a nap in my chair,
Then in her car 1400, to go to Ksr in HC for medications,  then from there to HB... a bank first, then to drop off medications and a check... then to a branch of my bank to make a deposit...
Then back to LB,  to the supermarket, then to CVS but her meds were not ready...
then home  about 1830.
We discussed going to a FemDom party this night, but by this time it was not happening.
Sat down, did some reading and writing, but no 'rithmetic...
She served dinner,
I went to the bedroom to watch a couple eps of Nurse Jackie...  and went to sleep, 2300.

HsLS  87
HsLO  1124
HsLD  147
Hr UN  1163


from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He will immediately resecure the device after cleaning, unless is ordered otherwise. 

from How to Control Your Husband
6. Punish him whenever he displeases you.
1. Don't let him get away with anything!
2. Spank, paddle, or whip him.
3. Humiliate him in some way.
4. Put Bengay or IcyHot on his cock, balls, or anus.
5. Make him do anything he hates.

from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
Someone wrote to sex columnist Dan Savage to say "I find applying stinging nettles to my body highly pleasurable."  Savage looked into the matter and wrote: 
 Tracy Mehlin at the Center for Urban Horticulture at the University of Washington wa kind enough not to slam the phone down when I read her your question, perhaps because she once knew a guy on a farm who occasionally lashed himself  with stinging nettles. 'I didn't ask him to go into details but there are some people who enjoy the effect.'
Dan also found out that there's a long history behind the practice:  As it turns out, you're not the first person to expose his 'delicate areas' to stinging nettles.  The Romans thrashed men 'below the navel' according to Rodale's Encyclopedia of Herbs, to improve virility.

Friday, June 27, 2014

6.26 Diary

Her first attempt to wake me up was around 0900; I finally got up, about 10:30.
Coffee, snack, newpaper.
We thought She was going for a blood draw: but found out, the time limit on that is 09:30.
We thought we had a 13:00 Interview...but he backed out.
We thought we might be going to Ksr for a prescription...but found it, it won't be ready til the next day.
She told me She was getting a subliminal message:  "Cotton candy 4 o'clock..."
I told Her, "That's coming from little-s, and I told little-s,  cotton candy will be a reward, after I get those buttons sewed on that shirt."
I took the dining room table out back, and hosed it down and washed it in three kinds of cleaners, then brought it back in.
I put yesterdays' laundry away.
I sorted papers on Her desk, and created a box of chronological bills, for Her.
She was having gastric distress, and adjourned to Her room, to lie down.
I went in my room, and began a couple projects, beginning with sorting through a large box of old bills and mail, taking up space near a dresser.
Little-s emerged, saying her tummy was feeling better, and was amenable to doing some sewing, so I brought in the shirt,  found her a sewing kit, then went back to my room, to begin a pen reorganization project.
She came to me, showing me the shirt, with buttons intact.
Around 3:30 we showered together, and dressed,  and got in her car, and headed out to CoI, to the buffet rest't that offers cotton candy.
Arrived 5:15...  and pigged out.   Oh mi gosh.
For just under fifteen bucks a person, waaaay better than Hometown Buffet.
Before leaving, she went to the restroom, and I sat in the lobby, looked at my phone.
The boss sent a text, saying the other overnight guy had called off for tonight, and did I 'feel like' coming to work?
She came back, and we went to the car and discussed it.
It seemed like a reasonable idea, and I sent him a text, saying, I'd be there between 10 and 11, and work til 0600.
He sent back a joy filled response.
We went home.
I went almost straight to my bedroom, and napped from 2000 to 2130.
Got up and dressed, and three of us got in Her car, and She drove, bringing me to work.
The boss went outside to talk to Her, and She referred to Him as a "C...B...r".
When he came in, he said, he actually knew what that meant.
We were talking about a client we're picking up Friday morning, one Snoop Dogg, and I mentioned to him, that She told me about a party She was once at, and was introduced to one Calvin B   (hey, CB initials, again)and after awhile, She said, "Do I know you from somewhere?"
Anyway,
He asked, "What was SHE doing at a party with S Dogg?"
I said, "She's had an interesting and varied life."
At work  22:15 or so.

HsLS  63
HsLO  1100
HsLD  123
H UN  1139
Her DO no
Did I offer   No


from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He agrees that during release for cleaning, he will shave accordingly, to keep his genitalia free for her.

from How to Control Your Husband
Make him do something humiliating  (a list will follow, soon enough)...
1. Make him wear a butt plug, for a time
2. Make him be naked when you are not
3. Make him masturbate for you.
4. Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum, no matter where it is deposited.

from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
 Nettles may be applied in various ways.  Some lie the stems down and press the hairs into the skin; others hold them in a cluster and tap it against the chosen area, or put them into a bottoms' underwear.  Men who wear condoms have found that briefly applying nettles to the penis before putting on a condom can compensate for the sensation lost by the latex barrier.

6.25 Diary

Off work  0930, and home  10ish
She was just getting up, and had fed the critters.
I stripped my bed, and started some laundry, and She wanted to talk.
..about Her depression, and what I could do to help.
By getting Her on some kind of schedule.
Then I had somethin' to eat, and went to sleep on Her bed.
Well,  both beds are Hers...so, I mean, I went to sleep on the bed that still had sheets on it, the one She sleeps on when I'm not home..
Up, around 18:00.
I was told, laundry was in dryer, should be ready soon.
I put together a bill chronological list, to help Her keep track.
I went through accumulated mail.
Dinner was ready.
She asked, like three times, for one of us to clear the table. I got up and did it.
We sat down to a family discussion, when was Her saying, that when She called us for dinner, we should make an effort to come to the kitchen or table right away, rather than procrastinate.
We ate.    Boneless pork, baked in orange sauce and soy and candied ginger,  with rice on the side.
Scrumptious!
After clearing the table, with Stitch starting on the dishes,
I excused myself  to go get the sheets on the bed, and watch the "Fargo" finale.
Once it ended, I told Her I was going to sleep, and She said She would join me, soon.
..... 00:00.

HsLS  39
HsLO  1076
HsLD  99
H UN 1115
Her DO?  No
I offer?  No

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He agrees to all terms of release, set forth by her, including use of restraints, if necessary. 

from How to Control Your Husband
You must keep him sexually aroused, as much as possible.
1. Talk sexy to him.
2. Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
3. Fondle him, let him fondle you.
4. Send him text messages, with orders to do something sexual.
5. Make him give you frequent orgasms.

from Urtication: Sex and Nettles
Skin exposed to nettles will redden and in a short time, produce small bumps.  The person will feel a hot sting that fades to a warm tingling glow which may last several hours. 

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

06.24 Diary

In car, 0653.  Home  0720.
Fed the critters....  showered ...
Entered Her room, naked, as She got out of bed to go pee, and got into the bed, and She joined me.
We talked for a few minutes, then I said, "It's Tuesday, shall we get on with it?"
We began prelimaries of sex, and She interrupted me long enough to fetch a plastic sheet, and three towels, to put underneath Her bottom, in order to avoid washing the sheets, again.
Sex ensued.
Once She was satisfied, we got up, and went into the kitchen to get something to eat.
And I read the newpaper, and played with my pens..and went to bed, around 10:45
Awake 12:45, for p&s. She was at Her computer, and begin telling me about recent developments..and I went back to bed, 1400.
And was awake, needing to pee, again 1645.  My alarm was set for half an hour later, so I just stayed up, and began a project of shift stuff from drawers on one side of my room, to the other side.
In the process, I determined, once and for all, that I have NINE chastity devices in my possession.
I haven't been altogether too sure of the exact number, until now.
Shower, and dressed, and kissed Her good bye...
In car 1800, and at work 1900.

And, slow and easy and drama free at work.

HsLS  15
HsLO  1052
HslD  75
H UN  1091

AND
Days since last cigarette :   21   !





One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations:
She will supervise at least one removal of the device in a seven day period for cleaning and shaving.

from How to Control Your Husband
You must get into his head!
1. Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
2. Tease him with your words, whenever possible.
3 Find out what humiliates him.
4. Use his humiliation whenever possible.

from Urtication:  Sex and Nettles
What is Urtication:  refers to those who use stinging nettles to stimulate the skin for sex games, such as spanking and BDSM practices.  The active ingredients in the stinging nettle do not spread to other areas but are restricted to the site at which the plant comes into contact.  The skin becomes sensitized without the injury that certain types of flagellation can produce. 


Tuesday, June 24, 2014

6.23 Diary

Off work..in car  0655.  Home 0730.
Fed critters, took care of other business.
Got on the phone with DMI, to get that necessary phone call done.
Done...0830, in time to start calling the IRS.
Tried the local number that my voicemail system provided, but the number evidently was not meant to take incoming calls, so I called the 800 #  that the agent had provided me with.  
And DONE, a mere hour ro so later.
Exhausted.  
Something to eat, while reading Sunday's paper, and to bed around 1045.

Awake around 1600 for p&s  (pee and snack).  Noticed that She was asleep on Her bed, with mask on.
Back to bed.
Alarm off 1740.  She checked on me.  "Not yet," I said.
Up  oh  1830.
Shower, dress.. Kissed her goodbye  and in car 1905.
Fortunately, Monday traffic.... easy peasy.
Except for the turn next to the In & Out trying to get up the side street to my workplace.
That added 8 minutes...and in,  1940.

Easy night.  All night.  No 'outside' calls that took more than a minute.

I recommend that a certain someone:
  .....  looks at the most recent additions I've put into the Ω section of the white binder   and
 .....   looks at a recent confession I've added, on 'EP'.

HsLS  42
HsLO   1028
HsLD 51
H UN  1067
Her DO?  No



from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
  He will notify Her immediately of any concerns of functionality or cleanliness of the device.

from One Scenario of Mandatory Male Orgasm Denial
 Thank Her, daily, for denying you, your sexual self-expression.  Tell Her, you glory in Her authority, and appreciate that She bothers with you at all.              επδ

from  How to Control Your Husband
>Control your own feelings of guilt
 1.  He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
 2. If you feel he deserves an orgasm,  ruin it!
  3.  Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day,  but he can only have one full one.
 4.  Full orgasms should be only allowed on very special occasions, and no more than 3 or 4 a year.


Monday, June 23, 2014

06.22 Diary

Up 0200, for snack.
Up 0400,awakened by Her...which led to Sex...
back to sleep 0600,  awake 0845.
Shower and dressed then asked Her to get up, and She did, and showered and dressed.
In Her car 0945, and at SPW  1015.
I really wanted to make this service, as Rev A was guest speaking.
I saw Shy there for the first time in a long time; after service, we went downstairs for coffee, and She had a long chat with James, while I listened...
1215, headed home.
Home: toilet,  changed clothes.... toilet.
Packed up, fiddled around, kissed Her goodbye....
   (before She would 'let me' drive myself, instead of Her taking me to work, I had to 'promise' to come home, barring unforeseen acts of God... and I had to surrender to Her, my ATM card.      Wow.)
And departed, 1347.
Now, Sunday, shouldn't be so bad, one would think...
Stalled car,  number 2 lane,  101 freeway,  just above downtown.
Took freaking forever.
As did the turn I make, trying to get past the In'n'Out.
At work  1445.
 Doing set up, not a bad night, not a tough night.
Then came the morning...    
Stupid shit in Saskatchewan, stupider shit in Venice (ITALY).


Epiphanies:
1.  She did not take 'after' pix, after Saturday's punishment.... AND... I  realized, later,  I don't care.
Now, I don't consider it a 'necessity' or even a 'want' or 'desire'.
  No pix, no video.
  I won't refuse having pix taken, or having a videocamera running,  but I won't request it, either. I have quite a library of pix and videos of myself;    I see no  reason to further put myself on display.

2.  Posting on open forums... I've decided, is a waste of time.  I have plenty of other ways to ... waste time.  No need for me to go on FL, and post my answers to questions that I think are posted there,  just because somebody has no real life to attend to.  I'll continue reading, to keep up on events, but don't expect to see my name on a post, anytime soon.



from One Scenario for Mandatory Male Orgasm Denial
 Showing your CD in public will entertain her.  She and other dominant women can compare devices and penile inadequacies. 

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He is responsible for daily cleaning of the device.

from How to Control Your Husband
6.   Punish him whenever he displeases you.
1.   Don't let him get away with anything!
2.   Spank, paddle, or whip him.
3.   Humiliate him in some way.
4.   Put Bengay or Icy-Hot on his cock, balls, or anus.

5.   Make him do anything he hates.

6.20 Diary

Up 0430 for milk and cookies.
UP 0700, because Stitch came in, needing a ride to work, and for all intents and purposes, SHE pushed ME out of bed to go do it.
Fiiiiiine.
Done.
Home, toilet,  fed critters,  emptied the chamber pot, and scooped, an sat in my chair for a nap, while expecting a call from a federal lady.
I think I blew the call, as my phone rang with a restricted number, and I sleepily may have hit "dismiss".
Awake 1015,  She brought me coffee.  I was online a bit,  then showered, dressed, and we were in my car 1250, went a few blocks, turned around and came back for forgotten paperwork....then continued on, to me a prospective sub at a Fizzler.
Lunch was good enough.
We left at 1440, came home.
Started looking for the keys to the shrine, gave up.
She called ahead to get the gate unlocked.
I got in my car, went to pick up Stitch.  Arrived 15:45, got a twenty minute nap before he came out.
Drove to the temple. Gate was unlocked. We scouted around to see what supplies we might need.
I sent a text to Her, and drove home.
She wasn't home.  Didn't expect,as She had to go to market, and pickup May.
I found Her phone on her bed, so I figure, She did not get the text.
Caught up on some blogs....
She came home with May.
Got around to packing my car, and headed to the temple.
Had dinner there, such as it was (for me, and my picky tastes.)
I found a quiet place, and caught up on Science of Mind reading.
And updated my notebook.
And we left....   took May home, then went home ourselves.
Unpacked the car.
Fed the critters.
Got somethin to eat, and read the papers.
And to bed, around 23:00.

HsLS  31
HsLO  936
HsLD  126
H UN  995
Her DO ?   No


from  One Scenario for Mandatory Male Orgasm Denial
When asked, share freely with her, your feelings about the enforced chastity.  Your frustration will provide her some amusement. 

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He is not allowed to touch his penis without permission, except to shave,  under her supervision. He must keep his genitals hair free, always.

from How to Control Your Husband
4.             You must keep him sexually aroused as much as possible.
1.             Talk sexy to him.
2.             Tell him you are going to make him do something humiliating.
3.             Fondle him, or let him fondle you.
4.             Send him text messages with orders to do something sexual.
5.             Make him give you orgasms frequently.





Friday, June 20, 2014

6.19

U 0730...fed critters... alka seltzer,shower,  pack up, kiss Her goodbye ...
Which was amusing, when I kissed Her, She woke up and said, "You're back already...?"
Anyway, out, and in my car 0808.
At the Fed. Bdldg 0835.
In the Upstairs lobby at 0900 with number 508, while #500 was being served.
My number called, 10:00.   Finished, as far as we could go 11:30.
Went to the cafeteria for a coffee and called Her, with update.
IN my car 11:55, and paid seventeen dollars for parking.
In Santa Ana, at the state office, 13:00.
Called to a window 13:35.
Business done 14:15.
At the door, preparing to leave, and She called me.
Fucking amazing how She knew to call just then.
In car 14:40. Home 1520.
Took care of coins and bags, and dishwasher,
In Her bedroom, for pre-munch sex....
Then showered, and dressed,
In car 1730, and at the Munch rest't  1825.
She sat next to Her newest fan, I sat across from both of them.

The subject was "BDSM and The Law" which was quite interesting.

Munch done and out, 2100.

Home 2145.
Me to bed 2215.

HsLS  7
HsLO  912
HsLD  102
H un  971
Her DO  Yes

from  One Scenario for Mandatory Male Orgasm Denial
The CD will forestall attempts by your penis to erect.  Do not complain or make noises when this causes pain.

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He is not allowed to ask for sexual favors such as penis rubbing or insertion into animate or inanimate objects, licking or sucking,  unless directed by her.  

from How to Control Your Husband
3.             You must get into his head!
1.             Learn his fantasies and what turns him on.
2.             Tease him with your words whenever possible.
3.             Find out what humiliates him.

4.             Use his humiliation whenever possible.


6.18 Diary

Off work 0915, with Her there to pick me up at work, and we headed home.
I fed the critters,  She showed me some email from an admirer, then we went to Her bedroom, and engaged in WMS.
After the second go-round, She jumped up, as did I, to strip the sheets off the bed,  get them in the wash,  then I had something to eat, and went to bed, around 1430.

Up around 20:00,  for a shower, and dressed, and dinner, and sheets in the dryer, then a nap in my chair,

Then up again, and working on my calendars, and filling in tax forms,
And putting sheets on my bed...
and laundry away, and waking Her up, from where She slept in Her chair..

and Bed around 0200.

HsLS  11
HsLO  888
HSld 78
H UN  947
Her DO ?  Yes

from One Scenario for Mandatory Male Orgasm Denial
 When she decides to milk you and drain you of your sperm, assume the position immediately.

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
She will decide the method used to cause the penis to ejaculate,  whether masturbation or some other.\

from from How to Control Your Husband
2.             Control your own feelings of guilt.
1.             He should never be permitted to have any kind of orgasm without your permission.
2.             If you feel he deserves an orgasm... Ruin it!
3.             Remember, you can ruin several orgasms a day, but he can only have one full one.

4.             Full orgasms should be for very special occasions (no more than 3 or 4 per year).


Wednesday, June 18, 2014

6.17 Diary

Off 06:58, and rolling home  0701, and home  07:49.
Fed the critters, got my whites out of the dryer, and put 'em away,  resorted underwear in drawers,  stripped, and headed for the shower.  
Soaped, rinsed, dried,   put on white undershirt and briefs, went to Her bedroom, and climbed in.
We lay together, dozing, for awhile.
By 0930, hunger pains had set in, and I got up to get somethin' to eat, and left Her still sleeping.
I ate, took some pills, read the paper.
And went to my bed, and felt the onset of the stomach tightness that accompanies the Chantix.
Up around 1345,  and She was at the computer, and She started telling me about the response She was getting to an ad She posted on CS, and the appointments She was making.
I went back to bed.
She went out to the bank, around 1630, I got up around 1700.
I showered,  and dressed, and Stitch showered and dressed,  then we all got into Her car, and She drove me to work, and I arrived about 1900.
The only downside to the whole night, was the first ninety minutes of having our newest hire in dispatch, sitting to my right, as he does not know when to shut up about anything.
Otherwise, it was just a  q u i e t night.

HsLS  183
HsLO  864
HsLD  54
H UN  923
Her DO  No.
Did I offer?  No


from One Scenario for Mandatory Male Orgasm Denial
Do not attempt to manipulate, thwart or bypass the your CD.

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
She may hint at or promise relief, and may change her mind for any reason. 

from How to Control Your Husband
1.             You must absolutely take total control of his orgasms!
1.             You must get him to wear a chastity device of some kind.
2.             You should put it on him yourself and only you should hold the key.
3.             Let him out at your discretion only and only for teasing or release.


6.21 Diary

Up  0930 ish.
Morning sex.
Up for coffee, newspaper, pills.
Went out back, went to work on the washing machine problem, and fixed it.
Inside...shower and dressed....
Off with Her for a 1400 interview with a domestic sub prospect at Co's.
We both knew in the first ten minutes,  'no', but we were there until 1515.
Then returned home, where Her second oldest son was using our driveway to work on his car, so we stopped by to say hello.....
Then made the 27 mile trip to my workplace to get my paycheck...
And 29 miles back to the bank/supermarket.
The bank had some idiotic new rule about cashing and depositing a non 'bank' check,  so I had to cash my check, then go to the ATM, five feet away, to deposit the cash back into our account.  We were both manipulating it at the same time, and we were not working well together.
We went on inside the market,  just browsing.... She looked at the price on some special, came up to me, right in my face, or that's the way I felt, and said in a loud voice,  "Seven for six dollars."  And I said, "You're getting in my space, back off."
Well.
She turned around and walked out of the market.
After a second, I followed, found Her standing outside.  
She said I embarrassed Her, that people were staring at us.....

We went back in, and continued shopping.
During which She said, "You will be punished when we get home. whether my son is still there or not."

We finished up, checked out,  went to the car, loaded up, stopped at the PO mailbox across the street, and on the way home, She said I was to unload the car, put the groceries away, then undress, completely, and stand in the corner.    So, we went home.... I unloaded the car.
Stitch came out and helped, yet I still managed to get it all in without incident, and put the groceries away.
She was sitting at Her computer in the living room.
I grabbed my carry bag and keys from the dining room table...walked into my room, and out the sliding glass door that led to the back yard, on out the garage door, down the driveway  (where I twisted my ankle, a frequent occurrence for me)  and into my car, and I drove away, and found some place to sit and think for awhile.
Not unexpectedly, She called me... and I said something like, I'll come home if and when I'm ready.
So..what was my problem?
Anger.  I could feel it rising in me, like lava rises in a volcano, until it just erupts.
Why?
Because we have been so far away from a M/s or D/s or FLR-DD dynamic for the past few weeks... a month?  that it just pissed me off that She was invoking it, or TRYING to invoke it, right now.
Especially over something that I could not control.  When She came up that close to me in the supermarket, I felt invaded, almost felt a claustrophobic panic attack coming on.  
Still, this is the stuff of (some of) my fantasies.  Real discipline coming from a Dominant wife... not just make-believe or roleplay...  
But I was still pissed off by the timing.
It's one thing to have the agreement, the understanding, in place.
But without the agreement, this was totally WTF?!

I started the car and went home.... gone about 30 minutes.
She did not say a word when I came in, nor did I.
I went to my bedroom, and stripped down, to black socks, came out, glanced at the clock  (19:25) and stood in the usual corner.
After a few minutes, She told me to sing  "Twinkle twinkle little bat...'
Which I did, any number of verses.
She told me to stop.
Then She said, "Say the prime numbers."
I started citing prime numbers, and got up to 253, when She said, "Stop."
She came up behind me, and started talking.
I embarrassed Her in public, and I could expect this and more, anytime I do that.
She walked away.
She told me to sing...something.
I sang, "I release and I let go..'  a number of times.
She told me to stop.
She asked if I wanted some water.   Yes,
She brought it , and told me to turn around. I did.
Clock  8:25.
I was sweaty, from the hot corner.
She told me to go take a shower, and I did, and after I dried, She said, to go lay on ..the half of her bed that did not have  debris all over it...and I did.
She came in, and started 'lecturing' a bit more.  
And said, She hadn't decided whether to finish the punishment now...or wait....
Then She told me, "FDAU."
I got FDAU, and She pulled out a flapper, I guess.... a metal cane-like stick, with a leather flapper piece on the end.
And She started smacking my buttocks and thighs with it... 85 times across, then 85 concentrated on my left thigh and sit spot.... with two smacks on my scrotum  that made me wince and move a bit.
Then She told me to get on my back... legs up...and applied another 25 or so, between my thighs, aiming for my taint.
She stopped, told me to put my legs down.
I asked her to move over, and jumped up to go to the toilet, and tried to throw up, but gave up dry heaves only.... and my long untied hair fell into the toilet.
So She had me... kneel over the edge of the tub and washed my hair  (third time today).
And I got up, and dressed in some underwear....   started my journals while She started dinner....
Dinner was served... and I finished journaling, and was in bed  00:15.

HsLS  14
HsLO  960
HsLD   3
H UN 1019
Her DO   Yes


from One Scenario for Mandatory Male Orgasm Denial
 SHe will play, tease and arouse you.  THis is to ensure that you experience maximum erotic desperation.

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
He will wear the CD when ordered as doing so symbolizes her dominance and control.

from How to Control Your Husband
5.     Make him do something humiliating (see list below).
1.     Make him wear a butt-plug for a time.
2.     Make him be naked when you are not.
3.     Make him masturbate for you.
                               4. Always, ALWAYS make him eat his own cum no matter where it is deposited



Wednesday, June 11, 2014

6.10 Diary

Left work 06.30
Home 710.
Cookie, out. Unlocked gate.  Fed Cookie. Fed the cats. Let Donna out of her crate.  Fed her.
Gathered fresh underwear, stripped off, got into the shower.
Dried and dressed.
Went into Her bedroom, got in bed next to Her.
She started talking.
She had read my journal.
She said that ...henceforth, frontal impact play would only be used for Punishment, or if we pre-negotiate that it is 'okay'.
She said that, if'n'when I am ready to get back into the bdsm-lifestyle 24-7, She was thinking about a contract, and would work up something to send me for approval.
And She mentioned a weekly treat, for good behavior, a box, is how She described it.  More on that in a separate journal.
And, I was just ...in the mood, and said, "I think I would like ... to have you use the zombie killer on my bottom."
"And... what are you going to do for me, FIRST?"
I rolled on top of Her, began with kissing and nibbling Her neck,  then down, squeezing and nibbling Her nipples, then on down, pulled down Her panties (REAL panties, not tighty pinkies), and licked the top of Her slit, between Her closed thighs, until She pulled me up, to Her, while I hastened to get my skimp skamp panties down.  I was not erect, but it took a little manipulation of the head of my cock into the wetness between Her legs, and I was soon enough ready, and began thrusting....
She moaned Her pleasure, as I thrust in and pulled out, while nibbling on Her right breast, and squeezing and teasing Her left breast.
In time, She said, "My pussy is spent...are you gonna come in my pussy...?"
"I ...don't think so..."
"Then get up, and go get the zombie killer."
I got up, I went, and returned with it, as She was sitting up.
I handed it to Her, and She stood up, and said, "FDAU."
I was still only wearing socks, and knelt on the bed, FDAU.
When I suggested this to Her, I was thinking.... eh, twenty.
She had me count, as always.
To One hundred and one.
And after I collapsed, prone, face down, She said, "I was planning to continue until you called 'mercy' but at a hundred, I could tell, you weren't going to, that's why I stopped."
"Ummm...."
She took a couple pictures.
"You want me to do another hundred from the other side?"
"Sure....'
So, from my right side, as I lay prone and flat,  I counted out Seventy, when She stopped, because some pimple or somesuch on my left buttock had opened up, started bleeding, and She began tending to it.
Then it was time for Her to start getting ready for work, and told me to lay there as long as I needed.
Eventually, I got up, put on my panties and a-shirt, and went into the kitchen, and started making my daily meal.
I ate, while reading the paper.
She left for work, around 10:40.
I took a few selfie pix, and went to bed.

She woke me up... around 15:00,  to tell me the pool guy was here (Yes, I knew that, I heard him), and that She had been fired. (Oh?)
"Now, I can spank you every morning!"
"Is that right?"

I got up to pee, and chow down on some chocolate.
Back to sleep.
Alarm off 1745, up 1800.
Stitch was home, already showered...She was getting in the shower, I was right behind Her.
They left to go to a munch, just before me.
I left last, and locked up.
In car 18:48,  at work  1933.

HsLS  15
HsLO  696
HsLD   14
Hr UN  755
Her DO?  Yes

from One Scenario of Mandatory Male Orgasm Denial
 Never ask why you are denied orgasm; accept Her will.

from One Possible Set of Enforced Male Chastity Regulations
She will decide if and when the penis may ejaculate; she may deny giving permission for any reason.

from How to Control Your Husband
 I have done my research over the years and have been trying to find a way to sum it all up in a simple form. 
Well, here it is.  If you want to control your husband, here is a guide that should be of some help. It is by no means a complete, in-depth discourse, but should be enough to get you started.
Also, if you, yourself, feel a bit timid or guilty about doing or saying some of the things your partner wants or needs to hear, then you have to remember, you are doing it because you love him and he does it because he loves you.  Don't push him harder than he can stand, but always push to find his limits. Once you find them, respect them, but keep on pushing them.
The following is a list of things you should be doing. Not everything will apply in every case, and there my be things not on the list that work for you. 
Here we go:  

Her pic, right after 101

Her pic, right after 101
My selfie pix, not more than an hour later: