DD vs S/M

There is quite a difference between S&M and Domestic Discipline.
Know what I'm sayin'?

I've got pix of dudes, naked, tied down, unable to move, with their backsides red, purple, bloodied, bruised.
Not entirely my thing, tho' I've experienced some part of it... and enjoyed it.

But my primal, my first, fantasies, my first fascination... with the spanko lifestyle as a bottom has been with Domestic / Maternal Discipline....
   Whether from 'Mom' or 'Grandma' or 'Aunt'  or 'Governess'...
   I think MAYBE because those scenarios eliminate a sexual aspect.

I STILL fantasize about ... first being milked by Auntie...  then being spanked....