05.14 Diary

Finished with work, 909.
Walked across the street to CVS... had to get an anniversary card (eight months!).
And bought some spray-on hair remover.
Back in my car, arrived home 1045.... pulled in the driveway, just as She was getting into Hers, and yelled at me (by 'yelled' I mean, loud enough for me to hear Her, otherwise I couldn't) to shut down Her computer, as She could not...and She departed, and I went in.
I got Her laundry out of dryer, put some in wash, and took it in...folded it, it away.
Fed the residents of my room...
I glued this, glued that, glued another thing.....
Sat down, and had lunch, which was what She brought home for me, from the munch She attended the previous night,   and fell asleep in the chair.
I think...I moved to some bed, and She woke me up around 1730, to get up and get ready to go out, for dinner, Her surprise, and Her treat.
In the shower, I sprayed on the hair remover.
And I think, rubbed it in, against directions, on my belly...
Which resulted in quite a bit of burning, and a rash that still persists.
Dressed and in the car....
And She told me to put on a blindfold, to make the destination a total surprise.
Turned out to be a Sizzler, which was  wonderful.

Home about 22:00.
88º in the living room....

She had computer work to accomplish.
I went to my room, and watched Fargo from the DVR.
She came in, told me She had been on the computer, then talking to Stitch, getting some oral from Stitch... then she told me to get over Her lap.
I did, and She took down my briefs,  and smacked my bottom with the medium church paddle,  20 on my left cheek, then my right, then my left, then my right.

She told me to get up and off Her, and I did,
and I offered Her the Daily Orgasm, which She accepted.
I provided a few, orally, and She wanted me to come up and mount Her, but I told Her, my chest was still on fire from that idiotic depilation spray, and She said, "Well, okay."

And we went to sleep, around midnight.

HsLS  38 1/2
HsLO  38 1/2
HsLD  1
H UN  107
Her DO  Yes.

from A Dozen Rules for a Chastised Husband
I am responsible for keeping my housekeeping dresses and aprons cleaned and pressed.

from Seven Benefits a Man Gets with Enforced Chastity
The wife calls the shots...when it comes to sex, when it comes to Her pleasure, when it comes to His pleasure.   She is the boss. 

from What Wearing a Chastity Device Means to Me
I learn how to shave, very closely.

05.13 Diary

A helluva busy night...
During which, She met me in a chatroom, and told me to bring two implements when I come into the bedroom (once I get home).
So, great.
Trying to get through all this work, and thinking about THAT at the same time.
Finally done with work ...0700 in car, and home  0750.

Fed the animals,  took a shower....

and I wrote a blog entry on spanko for what happened next:

I was told, in a chat room here, by Her, to bring two implements with me.
I work graveyard, and what She said is shorthand for ,  once I get home in the morning, to take a shower, and come into the bedroom, naked, bringing two implements of my choice.
After the shower, I picked out a plastic rubbermaid paint stirrer, under a foot long, with three holes along the length, great for paint stirring...or spanking; and a wooden paddle,  roughly 4" by 6" on the spanking surface, multiples holes bored into it.
I entered the bedroom, and waited instructions.
She told me to get into bed with Her, next to Her.
I did, and we pillow talked.
She told me about Her sexual activity with the other guy, some hours prior,  who had left for work a couple hours before,  which kind of aroused me,  and I started getting frisky, and She asked, "Now or later?"
"Um, which and what?" I asked.
"Your spanking, now or later."
"Later," I said, smiling, getting down to business.
Her breasts are extremely sensitive and erogenous, and She was laughing and shrieking as I squeezed and fondled them, trying to protect them from me,  then yelled, "Now!"
I pulled down Her panties, the only thing She wore in bed,  and was about to begin oral service,and She said, 'Not necessary, get up here."
I did, and Her right hand guided my hard penis into Her warm nethers.
We did the ol in-out for quite some minutes.
She came, numerous times....  and I finally came!
This is a rarity. I've noted on my personal blog, that it's been 832 hours, since my last orgasm.
Prior to Her, I had gone over ten years without having intercourse, and knew how to pleasure myself through masturbation.
I met Her, and She forbid me to masturbate,  telling me I can only cum during intercourse.
It's been a whole different issue with sensitivity, so my orgasms during intercourse have been infrequent.  But it happened this time.
I was not wearing a condom.  She gives me a choice, with or without.  I go without,  as my sensitivity is even lower, with one.
But, because of surgery She's had, the back of Her vagina is closed off.  There's no place for my output to go, but out the way it went in.
So, I am required to clean Her out.
Which, I actually enjoy!
Once that was done, the sheets were quite wet, between Her juices and mine,  and we got up and She stripped the bed, and took the sheets to the washing machine.
I have long hair, down to my shoulder blades,  and it was hanging loose this whole time, rather than tied back in a pony tail; and I have a medium length goatee and beard.... and She said I had cum dripping off my beard, and in my hair, and it was time for another shower.
We showered together, then dried off, and returned to the bedroom.
She told me to get on the bed, Face Down and Ass Up.
Actually, all She said is, "FDAU."   I knew what to do.
On the bed, close enough to the edge that my feet were just hanging off, on my knees, bent over, face on the mattress,  ass pushed up, legs spread.
She began with warm ups, with the plastic stirrer,  really just trying it out, to see how it felt in Her hand, see what kind of impact it made on my flesh.
Then She said, "Now getting serious...."
She applied the wooden paddle,  ten to my right cheek, ten to my left, ten to my right cheek, ten to my left.
She told me to relax, so that my torso was pressed down against my thighs.
She applied the plastic stirrer to front of my thighs, ten on each side.
'Stay there," She said, leaving the room.
She returned, with another new implement, a yard long plastic stirring stick, with a flapper at the end, similar in shape and design to a spatula, but smaller.
She whacked me buttocks ten times a cheek with that.
Then had me stand up, straight, and applied it ten times to the front of each of my thighs.
Just to test it, She whacked my chest with it, once just above each of my breasts,  then a few easy whacks on my pubic mound, then had me turn around, and gave my upper back a number of hard whacks with it.
Then She tossed it on the bed, had me turn around, gave me a hug and a kiss, and said, "Ready for breakfast?"
First, I took a half dozen selfies with my cell phone,  then we started making breakfast.

Continuing 'live'.... breakfast, newpaper, and sleep at 1145, in a bedroom with a warm 84 degree temperature.
Awake 1615 for pee, drink, snack,  back to sleep...
Up 1730...
Shower  dressed
in car 1823
At work 1920
and felt like I was wading through an alligator-filled swamp.
(The company finished with slightly over 200 rides on Tuesday, and started Wednesday, with 170 on the books).
Errgh.

HsLS  14 1/2
HsLO  14 1/2
HsLD   13 1/2
Hr UN  83
Her DO?  Oh yeah

A Dozen Rules for a Chastised Husband
Each week, I will wash and clean my everyday housekeeping dress for chores.

Seven Benefits a Man gets from Enforced Chastity
I experience heightened and greater sexual intimacy with Her.

Wearing a Chastity Device Means
Feeling and hearing the lock tap-tap-tap as I walk.

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05.12 Diary

Off work 0630.
Stopped for gas,  home 0730.
Little-s was up and awake and sitting at her computer.
I told her, I just wanted to take care of business and go to bed.
She told me an interesting tidbit about what transpired between Merry and Stitch, the previous night.
 Which Merry has yet to mention, herself.....
I fed the animals....
Then She came along, offered to make breakfast, and I accepted.
We ate,  while I read the newpaper.
She asked if I wanted to sleep in Her room, as it would be a lot cooler during the day, and I accepted.
In bed about 0915.
Up around 1300 for snack and a drink and a pee.
She said She had been napping and reading and napping in an easy chair, and came to join me when I went back to bed.
Awake again, 1500.
She began stroking my penis, then sucking on it.... then She got on top of me, female superior,  then got off, as She said She doesn't have the muscle tone to stay on top, like that, very long.
She rolled off me, and I rolled onto Her.
We did the ol in-out a few minutes, and I stopped, and rolled off, and She said I should try to go back to sleep.
She got up to get dressed to go run errands.
I got up for some water....and realized that was the end of my sleeping.
I piddled around for awhile.
She came home from the market, etc, and I went out and assisted with the loose items, as She did not have any bags.
Then I showered and dressed, and bid all a good night.
In the car 1840,  realized I left my phone on the charger, went back in for it, and on my way 1844.
Gosh, I love Monday lack-of-traffic. Arrived at work 1915.
With all hell breaking loose.
Too fukkin busy for the newish guy and gal working on shift, to handle it all.
Busy night.... and Tuesday looks even more so.
Ugh.

HsLS  9
HsLO  832
HsLD 36
H UN  59
Her DO   Yes


from A Dozen Rules for  a Chastised Husband
I only wear my formal housekeeping dress with Her approval.

from Seven Benefits a Man Gets from Enforced Chastity
I learn and train to be a devoted husband.

from Wearing a Chastity Device Means:
Never wondering if the other guy's is bigger.

05.11 Diary

Awake 0930...
We started with me, giving Her oral,  then intercourse, and a break, then me, using a vibrator, and oral, and intercourse, and more oral for Her....
And during another break, I called Mom for Mother's Day.
Then we got up and headed into the living room, and She said, "Get the spanking bench out."
I did...and took off the briefs that I had just put on, and got on it.
She went into the bedroom for implements, and returned.
And told me to count as She applied:
 25 of the medium church paddle to each of my buttocks;
10 of the foot long black Delrin cane across my buttocks from left to right.
Then 10 of the same, from right to left.
Then 25 of the same, on my left cheek,then my right.
Then 10 of the same, from left to right, on my sit spot and upper thighs...
Then 10 of the same, from right to left.
Then She had me stand up straight, cover my package with my hand, and landed 10 strokes of it, first on my front and inner thigh, then my left one.
Then She told me to go stand in the corner in the entry way.
I did, with feet close enough together for the ankle bones to touch, my nose in the corner as far as my forehead would allow.
And She told me to start singing... anything.
I sang "I release and I let go" and number of times, then She told me to sing "Twinkle Twinkle Little Bat", which I did, several times.
Then She said, "Come to the table, breakfast is ready,"
And I joined Her at the table.
We ate, while reading the Sunday paper....
And She said, She wanted to go into Her room, and watch mindless t.v., just kinda vegetate.
Which She did, while I went about minor chores:   scooping the litter box in my room, emptying the porta-potty,  fixing the ramp, collecting newspapers for pick up day,  taking Her stuff from my room to Hers...
When I went in to Her room, She had shifted to little-s, and was watching "Mrs Doubtfire" on t.v.
In my room, I lay down for a few minutes.
Stitch came in around 1320, to remind me of the time.
I got up, and took a shower...and dressed, and packed,  said good bye to her and Stitch, and went to my car, departing around 1350, and at work  1435.
 Much more volume at work than I expected for both Sunday and Monday, but nothing stress-inducing.
I did not hear one word or text or message from Her,  the whole night....

HsLS  13
HsLO  808
HsLD  12
H UN  35
Her DO?  Many

from  A Dozen Rules for a Chastised Husband
I comply to all requests She makes, not matter how humiliating I may find them to be. 

from Seven Benefits a Man gets from Enforced Chastity
Without my own sexual desires to consider, I focus on Hers.

from Wearing a Chastity Device means
Waiting for an empty cubicle or stall,  rather than a urinal, in order to pee.

05.10 Diary

We woke up, around 10.
She told me to get up, come around to Her side of the bed, and take down my briefs, so She could inspect my bottom.
Then She said, "If you need to pee, go do it."
I did...and returned.
"Get over my lap," She said,  as She sat on the bed, Her back propped up, against the back of it, legs stretched out.
I took down and off my briefs, and stretched out over Her lap.
She reached over to pick up one of the implements She had picked out while I was in the bathroom, knocking two out of three to the floor, under the bed.
She applied a small wooden hairbrush to my buttocks for awhile, then told me to get up, and pick out something else.
I grabbed the bath brush, handed it to Her, and got over Her lap.
She smacked my bottom with it, until it broke.
I think that makes Seven bath brushes that She has broken over my buttocks.
She told me to get one more, and I grabbed the small church paddle, and resumed position, and She smacked my bottom, until She decided She was done.
Then it was time for Her DailyOrgasm, and I gave it to Her, orally.
Then we got up, for coffee and a snack...
And a nap...
Then She told me to head for the shower.
I stripped off, and went into the bathroom.
She followed, with a knife in hand, and cut the plastic lock on my CD,  and took it off.
We showered together.
She got out first, and went to my bedroom.
Then I got out, and followed Her, found Her laying on the bed, only wearing the towel around Her.
All kinds of sex ensued, oral and intercourse.
And, another nap....
Up around 1700, and we discussed dinner plans,  deciding to leave around 1945.
We piddled around with reading and what not, until it was time to get dressed, and we did, and we went off to SP.
We stopped on the way home for a bottle of whiskey for our sick roommate....
And arrived home, and I went to 'El' around 2200, and half dozed, until She came in around 2300, then we watched a couple eps of TBBT,  and went to sleep around midnight.

HsLS  10
H s LO  784
H sLD  13
Locked  7 D, 4 1/2 H
Unlocked  11 Hr
Her DO    Yes, many



from A Dozen Rules for a Chastized Husband
 At home, I must eat out of my trough unless She says otherwise.

from One Woman's Rules for Establishing My Submission
Money and financial matters are Hers and Hers only.  She controls all the money in the household, determines how it is spent, without question.

from Seven Benefits a Man gets with Enforced Chastity
 I cannot masturbate.  All my sexual energy remains focused on Her. 

5.09 Diary ".... holds the key..."

Then I converted the videos into a smaller size WMV format,  uploaded NumberOne to Fet and Spanko, then got something to eat...  and to sleep, 0200.

UP 0645, for real.   Fed the furries, scooped, added litter to the box,  stripped the bed, got sheets and all in the wash....  showered  dried, dressed....  made coffee,
Car 0800.....
She called me enroute....  Due to a flight delay getting from Sp to Ch, she was rebooked from Ch to home, and instead of an eta of 1700, it was now 2140.
At work, and clocked in, 0859.
Besides the regular daytime lead guy, we're training a new guy in dispatch, so there were three of us , made for an uneventful shift.
Out, and headed home  1620.
In delightful Friday evening traffic, home  1750.
Did a little of this and that, kind of killing time.
Up and moving for a shower, around 20:00
In my car 2100....  eta of Her flight, 2145.
I entered the airport loop around 2125, in a jumble of traffic.
Slowly worked my way around to terminal seven parking, and inside, and walked across, and so on the board, Her flight had landed but not yet at gate.
I grabbed a luggage cart and waited.
I assumed the two of them would come down the elevator in wheelchairs, and I parked myself nearby, and happened to be looking at the escalators, and saw Her zip down, followed by Her traveling mate.  They walked around the end of the baggage carousel opposite of where I was sitting, so I grabbed the cart, and wheeled it around, directly behind them.
Their bags were nearly the first ones off, and I came up behind them, as She was pulling Her bag off, and in time to get a hug and kiss from Her, but it was 'her' as Little-S,  before I grabbed M's bag, also.
Luggage cart loaded, we headed out, and across the streets to the parking lot to my car.
And off we went to El'wood, to drop M off...and I took her bag upstairs for her.
Then, finally, heading home, and we discussed getting something fast to eat on the way....
Along the way, little-s said she wanted to 'go away'.
Along the way, I also noticed,  that even tho' I was on the 105, I thought I was on the 91...and so I exited LBB, which made sense from the 91, but made for a long drive from the 105... oh well.
So, Merry came to...   and I explained to Her, what fine navigation I did this time...   and I pulled through a Jacque de Bocks, and then went on home.
I brought Her bags in.... we sat at the table and ate...
I got the sheets out of the dryer and on the bed.
We went to bed.....  midnight or so.

HslS 206 1/2
HsLO  784
HsLD  27
H&D L  15 1/2 + 6
Her DO   No
Her OOT  6 1/2 D




from "A Dozen Rules for a Chastized Partner"
 She is entitled to orchestrate Other sex partners for Herself, or for me.

from "Her Five Rules for Establishing My Submission to Her"
I am to 'enthusiastically' accept any new ideas She has, to improve my submission.
She will be trying out new ideas on a daily basis.
I am expected to :
 show genuine enthusiasm for the ideas
 submit to and satisfactorily complete new ideas
 beg for new ideas,  and any old ones worth repeating, via the blog.
Her goal is to improve my submission to the level that I am happy to be tested with ideas new and old, and positively embraces each one.
Her goal is then to NOT be able to tell which idea I like the best, or do not like, because my level of submission is such that I am happy to do anything I am asked to do, with enthusiasm, and I beg for every idea to be used and tried, again and again.
Any idea which She decides is proven to increase my level of submission can be added to "Her Rules.." at any time.

from "Seven Benefits the Man gets with Enforced Chastity"

 I honor Her, by allowing Her to say when I will be released, and moreover, when I may cum.

5.08 Diary "Mistress Merry holds the key..."

Woke up from the nap... midnight.
Had a snack, read the paper... back to sleep  01.20

First wake up around 0800.
Awake again, and up 0900.
Fed every furry body, tried to shake the cobwebs in my head, and started on a house project.
Painting... REpainting the ceiling in Her bedroom.
I left my phone in the living room while I was in the bedroom, and was interrupted like more than a dozen times ...voicemails from Her because I didn't get to it in time, or emails from my work manager, or emails from a wannabe who has been haranguing me to set him up on a spanking date with my wife.
And I went back and forth, doing a couple loads of laundry.
Finished around 15:00.   Too late to start the next painting project.
Online,  paid bills, caught up on email....
In the shower,  1715 or so.
In my car, 1815 or so.
I had no desire to be on any freeway at this time,
so I planned on LBB south to DA, west, to VT south, to Torr west to Anz north, and I'm there.
.. On DA, got stuck behind a train...and a block later, a monster accident between a sedan and an SUV,  bottlenecking three lanes into one.
I sent BDL a text, saying "looks like 1915 ..or worse."
I actually arrived 1920.
Somebody going into the complex opened the gate, so he did not have to come out.
Then I felt like I was in a labyrinth, until I found their (BDL and SC) unit.
They left the door open for me while they were occupied in the bedroom, getting dressed, I surmised.
We said, Hello, howareya,  small talk...
BDL prepped the spanking bench (taking a bunch off stuff off of it, centering it in the living room), and I handed SC, who was sitting on the couch, my video camera, and I stripped off, and mounted the bench.
SC got up and ...did the warm up on my bottom, then sat down on the couch, while BDL took over.
Well...
  OW  and FUCKING OWW.
His new strap was um interesting....
But he used several canes, and always aimed for the fold where the lowest curves of my cheek turn into my thighs...   Owwwch.

Paddles...straps.. canes...dragontails...
What fun!
Pictures at the end of this
There were five videos in all.
My laptop that has them on the drive, gives me a blue screen, after I've uploaded two videos to anywhere, so they will appear on this blog, eventually.

Left there, 2130.
SC strongly suggested I stop using alcohol ONLY, as it takes moisture out of the skin....
and I use a moisturizer daily.
She recommended Udderly Smooth or  Vitamin E oil.
I went to a CVS on the way, as it was about time for me to get a Mother's Day Card...
I got one; this CVS did not have Vit E oil, but did have Udderly Smooth, and I got it.
Then another stop, for gas,.....    then back in LB, a stop at the PO, to mail the card...
And home 23:00.
Where I plugged the camera into the laptop, and starting uploading.

HsLS  182 1.2
HsLO   736
HsLB   3
H&D Lock  15 1/2 + 5
Her DO?  No ....
Her, OOT  5 1/2

from A Dozen Rules for A Chastized Husband
I am not allowed to ask for ... an orgasm ... sex ... or intercourse, ever. 
Violations of this rule are punishable by time extensions , corporal punishment, or both.

from Her (another woman's) Five Rules for Establishing My Submission to Her
I am required to provide a full domestic service for the house.
I am expected to:
Do all the clothes washing, drying, and putting them away;
All washing up and tidying up;
Cleaning of all services everywhere;
When required by Her, perform a supervised full scrubbing of all floors and surfaces in the house, on hands and knees, while naked,  with my buttocks always facing Her,  and expect to be disciplined as it suits Her, via whip or other implements, depending on performance, or Her whims.

From "Seven Benefits the Man Gets with Enforced Chastity"
I give Her honor by allowing Her to lock me up and hold the key.