Through the course of my bloggings, I've indicated that She and I have had sex/had intercourse/did the nasty/WinKed many ..many times...
Possibly more times, already than I ever did with ...my first g/f, or my first wife, or my third g/f....
But to be clear, not every time we 'did it' did I have a ...happy ending, even though She did, as She is multi-orgasmic, and in all probability, came multiple times during each encounter.
I, on the other "hand", have spent so many years, pleasuring myself, and cumming via masturbation, that learning how to cum during intercourse has not 'cum' easily to me.
SO, out of curiosity, and as a way to avoid doing a number of things that I should have done,
I compiled numbers, dating back to July 1 (REALLY early in the morning) when we came to the mutual conclusion that we both wanted to ...start getting 'friendly'.
For the month of July, we were not living together, so we got together as my job and the rest of our lives allowed....
I'm noting the number of days we got together... of those days, the number of days we, um... had sex... the number of times I had an orgasm (not for awhile) or number of days locked in chastity.
JULY
Together, 17 days
Sex 10 (bear in mind, on the days I've noted ."having sex" , there might have been more than one session)
Me, cum? No
Me, in chastity 17
AUGUST
not living together so
Together, 26
Sex 13
What, me cum? no
Me, in chastity 7 1/2
Me Punished 1 (for talking stupid shit)
September
Still not living together yet....
Together, 22
Sex 5
Me, cum ONCE in Chicago, the week after we got married...
Another observation.... sex on 9/9 and not again until 9/21 .... even though we spent Sept 13, 14, 15 in Las Vegas and got married....
And after 9/21, did not have sex again until Oct 7.
October
As of October 1, we were living in the same house together...
Sex, 15
Uncollared, 6 days
Me, cum FIVE
Me, in chastity 6
Me, Punished 1 (for offering myself to another Mistress without permission)
November up to/including 11/14
Sex 8
Me, cum 3 (plus one unauthorized O via masturbation.....)
Me, Punished twice (for smoking , then lying about it; for unauthorized masturbation)
Me, in chastity 4 1/2
I'll continue to update this for myself.
Maybe I'll continue to post updates.
I love your stats, but let's go over some things for clarification. The punishment in August was your very first physical punishment, and it was well-deserved. We did not have sex on our wedding night (September 14th) or early the next morning because you drank too much and was unable to perform. Also of note: You finally relaxed enough to cum in Chicago. I also believe the stress of moving pretty much prevented any sex from happening, and I don't recall ever refusing you sex just for the sake of refusing.
ReplyDeleteThe collar was removed because of insubordination, and we both needed to reorganize. During that time, we had sex nearly every day, and if memory serves me, you had no problem cumming during that time. The only "punishment" when you did what you did in October was the knowledge that you did something without consulting with me.
The second physical punishment was for lying about smoking. This latest one, (if you want to call it punishment, I prefer to call it discipline) is only because masturbation is prohibited per your slave contract. We discussed how to handle this,and chastity is the agreed-upon solution. Do you really feel punished by it? If so, then we need to talk about it. (notice I didn't say "I need to talk")
No argument with your first paragraph... but I will say that I did not ever write that you did (or did not) refuse me sex.
DeleteYour second paragraph: true.
Third paragraph: also true.
I feel punished by the chastity. I do not feel the need to talk about it.