7.28 Diary

Out 6:31.
  1.6 miles from Office to the Hwd onramp onto the 101.
Cruising along the 101, 5, onto the 710.
Somehow, slept through the 91 interchange ...followed by where I usually get off, on LBB....
Woke up at the 405 interchange.  
Got off at Willow, and back on north bound at Willow, and off at Del Amo,...then took LBB north, and home,  7:23.
I brought in the chair that was in my office's "we don't use this anymore but we're not quite ready to throw it away" pile....  and my other stuff.

She was out, having taken Stitch to work  and Dylan to an appointment at Kaiser.
So...fed the dogs and cats...started up the dishwasher...  started up LaptopII, still trying to run a complete defrag...
 Put together a concoction of a large bowl of rice, adding baked beans,  diced carrots, chopped broccoli, along with peanut butter on crackers...   and sat down with that and the morning newspaper...
Finished, and went to bed  0900.
 She came in later, and said, She had tried to call me.  
My phone showed a missed call at 10:20.   But when I'm sleeping hard, I just don't hear it.
Up 13:15.  Thermometer in my room showed 87°....
I got up,  used the toilet, sat down to some cookies and milk...
Tried to sleep in the chair I was sitting, but my skin was sticking to the vinyl-faux-leather.
She suggested, Her bedroom..She just had to tell Dylan to turn down the tv.
I went in there, lay down, and slept fairly well,  until She woke me around 1730.
Up....  S&D&D.  
Fed the cats.
Saw my laptop had reached 100% on the defrag... but still waiting on the next stage.
I left it on, will see where it's at,  Tuesday morning.
..Convinced Her to have a seat in the chair I brought home.
She liked it.  Good height for Her legs,   no back or arms to impede freedom of movement.
She smiled and said, "Do I get to try it on Wednesday?"
"Why Wednesday?"
"Just seemed like a good day..."
"We'll ... see."
I mixed Red Bull and ginger ale in one of my car mugs, and much iced tea in another,  and went on out to the car.
Rolling at 1845.
Exited SntaMonica,  just to be able to clock it...   2.9 miles to the office, arrived at 19:25.
There's a "Diva's Beauty Supply" at  SntaMonica and Vino!

After the  ... flurry of business over the last few weeks...   It was nice to have a lot of nothing going on at work.

HsLS  159
HsLO (ds) 371
HsLD  36
H UN  372
Her DO?  No


from WIVES: HOW TO SPANK YOUR HUSBAND
 First, you must be determined that you are going to follow through with the discipline. No wife ever gets it right the first time. But, it will be a first time for your husband as well, so don't worry about that. It is extremely essential to remain totally feminine throughout the process.
Here are a few extremely important pointers:
1. You must NEVER ask his permission to punish him! Ever.  It is your decision, make it and stand firm.
2. You must both be in a comfortable setting. For instance-he shouldn't be laying on a cold floor. You shouldn't be sitting on an uncomfortable chair. The room temperature should not be hot or cold, but very comfortable.
3. Make sure he takes a shower first. It will open his pores and make your work more effective.
4. If you have made up your mind, NEVER allow him to talk you out of or diminish a spanking. Don't let him hesitate.
5. The first times you spank him, don't be brutal. You don't want to scare him away from future spankings. You need to be very aware of his body language. Don't spank too fast. Let it sink in. He may even enjoy the first few spankings. That is acceptable for now. You will change that in due time.
6. It will be normal for him to become aroused when you are spanking him, at first. This is expected and acceptable.
7. It is best to initiate the "lesson" when he is "in the mood" for intimacy. When a man is aroused, he is much easier to control and deal with.
8. Start with a minor infraction-like leaving the toilet seat up, or not lifting the seat and dripping on it. The punishment should be in line with the offense.
9. The first several spankings should be with your hand only. You can graduate to an implement soon enough.
10. No need for the female to make any comments during the spanking. She may offer short replies to his pleas and begging, but stay firm.
11. When the spanking session is over, its OVER. His debt for poor behavior is paid in full. It isn'f fair or proper for you to hold a grudge after you're done. If you don't feel the slate is now clean, then you are at fault for being too lenient. Make a mental note for the next time.

(Just a hint from experience: When you think he has been punished enough, ADD another 10 to 20 smacks. Ladies ALWAYS go too lightly in the beginning, until their confidence grows.)
   to be continued