I think I feel asleep 22 times on the way home... only for a micro second, woken up by the bumps embedded in the freeway surface.
Home 07:34.
Fed the critters...
Went into Her bedroom, and lay down next to Her long enough to tell Her I was too tired to do anything but eat, then go to bed.
Which I proceeded to do.
...Eat, finished Sunday's paper, and read Monday's, while talking to Her...
and to bed, 10:00.
Awake at 1100 P&S
Sleeping from 1200 to 1615, and wide awake.
Around 1815, SD&D.
Sidetracked with talking, didn't get in my car until 1900.... a bit later than I like, even on Monday.
At work 19:40.
Fairly easy night...
Relatively speaking....
15 cars on yet another Fox event, at Paramount...
And I don't know what the FUCK was going on at LAX....but I had to delay with 8 to 10 delayed flights, coming in between 0130 and 0330, and explaining to chauffeurs why I need them to stay awake to do the pickups.
HsLS 45
HsLO 45
HsLD 47
Hr Lk /un 164/46
Her DO No
from How to Get the Spanking You Want
Instead, you’re better of sticking to the facts and leaving
the analysis of why things went wrong until later. For instance, you might
simply explain that it hurt more than you were prepared for or that you were
having trouble breathing or that you momentarily got emotionally overwhelmed.
Focusing on just the facts will help diffuse the tension of
the situation and create a safe space where you and your partner can talk about
what went wrong and work together to help it not happen again. Sticking to the
facts will also help to reassure your partner and give him a sense of control
and safety – as we’ve discussed, men tend to be most comfortable dealing with
facts rather than emotions.
Step 6: Take your spanking.
If you want to establish a positive spanking relationship,
you are probably better off finishing the spanking instead of just abandoning
it entirely. This is similar to the classic advice about getting back on a
horse if you fall off, so that you’re not afraid to ride horses for the rest of
your life.
You may feel able to get back on the horse, so to speak,
within a few minutes after things went wrong. Or it might take an hour or a day
before you feel safe enough to take the rest of the spanking. But whatever you
do, you’d be wise not to leave things the way they are.
Why?
Because you are much more likely to feel more anxiety when
the next spanking rolls around if you haven’t stepped up and taken the one you
didn’t finish. And this anxiety might, in turn, make it even harder to take the
next spanking and so on and so on, until you’re in a such tangled mess of
anxiety that it becomes difficult or even impossible to get yourself back out
of it.
In addition, if you don’t step up and finish your spanking,
you are probably going to feel lousy about yourself. You may, for example, feel
like a coward, a fool, or even a hypocrite – spanking was your idea, and you
couldn’t even go through with it!
You may also feel restless and incomplete, like you heard
the first seven notes of the musical scale, but not the eighth one, or watched
all but the last 15 minutes of a really good movie. Or like there was something
really important that you had to, but can’t remember what it is.
So when you feel ready to do so – but ideally no later than
the next day – go to your partner and ask him, respectfully and with great
humility, if you could please have the rest of your spanking, (sir)?
And this time, stay in position and take your spanking like
a good girl (or boy)… ?! The End
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