7.11 Diary

0100 up,  P&S
0430 up, P&S
0830 up for "good"   T,  feeding, changed litter box...
Gathered trash  put some nails in the mantle over the fireplace in my bedroom, to hang bags from...
Sorted my tools..again..
AND went outside..and continued the fence-paint project...  and I finished painted the fence white on the outside, all along the south side of our property.
Went inside and cleaned up....then on into the garage, to continue comics counting....  
Then stripped off for a swim, and Merry joined me...  
Then we went in and took a shower.....
And I finally sat down, man, my feet hurt.
Tried out pencils...set up Pandora on my cell phone....
Updated calendars....  
Merry made dinner, stir fry, and announced it to be 'served'
Sitting down again, looking at EP and F/L.
Weekly reading from SOM
ANd bed...  2315.

HsLS  138
HSLO  311
HsLD  53
H LO 138
Her DO  No
from Corporal Punishment Implements: The Slipper
Most houlsehold slippers are not that harsh in effect as a real rubber-soled plimsoll, but they still deliver sound lessons.  A misbehaving child will not quickly forget a thorough dose of the slipper, delivered by an upset parent.
The slipper hurts most on the bare or knicker-covered posterior.  Thicker clothing removes much of the effect from the whacks.

from How to Get the Spanking You Want
Step 2: REassure your partner.
 AS freaked out as you might be, I can guarantee you that unless your partner is physically abusive (and if you're letting him/her spank you, he/she better not be) s/he is more freaked out than you are. As soon as you can get yourself under control, and in a reasonable space, reassure your partner that you are all right and that s/he is not a 'bad guy'.  Than her/him for spanking you, and remind him/her that learning how to do this together is a work in progress and that it is you that messed up, not her/him.
Even if this is not strictly true....even if you feel that your partner spanked you too hard or in a way that you did not want... now is not the time to bring this up, unless you want to seriously undermine your chances of getting spanked again......

from  SISSIFICATION DISCIPLINE

When disobedience requires that a submissive male be disciplined corporal punishment may not be enough. He should be punished in such a way that diminishes his masculine egotism.

Pre-spanking sissification may be a useful disciplinary technique. It will only be useful with men not routinely feminized. Use pink for best effect. Force the submale to dress up like a girl including a nice big bow for his hair.

After his spanking the submissive man should be required to wear his sissy outfit for at least an hour if not the rest of the day.