Nov 22 Chastity Contract

A prescheduled post during my hiatus:

•  a possibility:   

  
  

  CHASTITY CONTRACT

  
  

  This is a contract for enforced male chastity between a Wife and her husband. 

  Purpose:

  1.      To train the husband to not disrespect his Wife by masturbating

  2.      To train the husband quality over quantity with his sexual releases

  3.      To affirm the husbands submissive nature to his Wife and satisfy his desire to be kept chaste while learning to get his pleasure only from Her pleasure

  Definitions:

  1.      Chastity Device – A tool which locks in place and uses confinement or discomfort to prevent a male from engaging in sexual intercourse, masturbation, or having erections

  Duration:

  1.      This contract will be in effect for (1) year

  2.      At any time the contract may become permanent if agreed to by Wife and husband

  3.      The contract may be cancelled at any time, but only at the sole discretion of the Wife

  4.      This contract and its option for a permanent extension remain in effect regardless of the status of the marriage

  Responsibilities of the husband:

  1.      To provide honest and complete information to his Wife on the most effective chastity devices available, both now and in the future

  2.      To assist in measuring and fitting of the devices to ensure proper fit and security

  3.      To have his genitals pierced as needed for any devices selected by his Wife

  4.      To submit full control of his sexual organs to his Wife for the length of this agreement

  5.      To keep the chastity device clean and in proper working order and immediately report any problem with the device to his Wife

  6.      To immediately report any unauthorized ejaculation to his Wife

  7.      To provide pleasure to his Wife on a regular basis without expecting any reciprocation

  8.      To never expect he will be unlocked only because his Wife wishes to be intimate

  9.      To never expect an orgasm only because his Wife wishes to unlock his chastity device

  10.  To never hesitate or complain if he is relocked in his chastity device without any relief

  11.  To acknowledge that there are no guaranteed orgasms and his Wife may choose to not remove the chastity device for the duration of this agreement

  12.  To always thank his Wife for any opportunity to provide her sexual gratification because his sole focus should be to provide his Wife pleasure and happiness

  13.  To understand his genitals are no longer his property or his concern, and that his Wife may do with him sexually as she sees fit, whenever she sees fit- or nothing at all

  14.  To always remember “This is what you asked for”

  Responsibilities of the Wife:

  1.      To select one or more chastity devices for Her husband

  2.      To assist in measuring and fitting of the devices to ensure proper fit and security

  3.      Establish a “Training Period” to get Her husband accustomed to wearing chastity devices of increasing security for increasing amounts of time to experiment with work, exercise, sleep, comfort, etc.  This training does not count toward the (1) year chastity period

  4.      To inform Her husband of his chastity “Start Date” and decide on his initial confinement period, making sure it is long enough to “break” Her husband of his masturbation habit

  5.      To be the sole decision maker on when and if Her husband is ever allowed to be unlocked from the chastity device and/or have an orgasm

  6.      To be strict and vigilant in her efforts to keep Her husband in chastity by watching for signs of his cheating and keeping all keys to the chastity device secure and well hidden

  7.      To tease Her husband often to maximize his excitement level between possible releases

  8.      To not be manipulated by Her husband in any way- and only remove the chastity device for Her own pleasure, enjoyment, or amusement

  9.      To never feel obligated to grant Her husband an orgasm even if She wishes to remove the device for activities and then lock him back up when those activities are done

  10.  To use prolonged chastity to improve any aspect of Her husband’s behavior she sees fit

  11.  To use prolonged chastity and teasing to assist in negotiating any modifications to and/or the permanent extension of this agreement

  12.  To never disclose when or how She intends to grant husband an orgasm

  13.  To never under any circumstances allow him to masturbate or stimulate his own penis

  14.  To always keep husband guessing even if it means telling him he is going to have an orgasm and stimulating him to almost-orgasm or ruined-orgasm and then locking him back up

  15.  To always remember he is in a chastity device for his own good

  16.  To allow the device to be removed for certain medical visits, which She may accompany

  17.  To not impose any requirements that could negatively impact the husband’s work status

  18.  To not use the chastity device to manipulate any ordinary household joint decisions

  19.  To adhere to and strictly enforce all Mandatory Penalties listed below (All minimums)

  20.  To always remember “This is what he asked for”

  Mandatory Penalties:

  1.      Nagging or otherwise being a pest about initiating intimacy by the husband will result in an automatic 10 Day Minimum confinement (Polite and respectful offers for a massage or something similar are always fine)

  2.      Whining, complaining or asking questions about when is the next removal from the chastity device by the husband will result in an automatic 30 Day Minimum confinement

  3.      Refusing to perform or receive any intimate act directed by the Wife, while locked in chastity or not, will result in an automatic confinement period equal to the length of time it takes for the Wife to enjoy 50 orgasms of her own, however long that may be

  4.      An unsuccessful attempting to tamper with or defeat the chastity device by the husband will result in an automatic 60 Day Minimum confinement

  5.      A successful attempting to tamper with or defeat the chastity device by the husband will result in reassessment of the device security and an automatic 90 Day Minimum confinement once reestablished

  Modifications:

  1.      This agreement may be modified from time to time as the Wife sees fit and as the husband agrees to.

  
  

  Acceptance of Initial (1) Year Period:

  ___________________          _____              _______________________              _____

  Wife                                        Date                husband                                               Date

  
  

  Acceptance of permanent extension:

  ___________________          _____              _______________________              _____

  Wife                                        Date                husband                                               Date

Mixed emotions

 I love this, I hate it.  I am terrified by it, I am fascinated by it.


Male Chastity & Orgasm Control/Denial Agreement
For mutual consideration, the parties to this agreement, Domme and slave, wife and husband, respectively, do hereby agree as follows:
1. Purpose.
  This agreement shall be interpreted according to its purpose.
  The purpose of this agreement is to adopt measures designed to make slave a more caring, attentive, helpful, and obedient husband. The parties recognize that the more sexually satisfied a man, the less likely he is to exhibit these traits. Therefore, to make slave a better husband, rarely, if ever again, is he to be permitted an orgasm, and he is to be kept in a nearly constant state of extreme sexual frustration. To this end, slave surrenders control of his genitals to Domme, who, subject to clause 2.a., below, shall have complete discretion as to the frequency of his orgasms. Nothing in this agreement shall be interpreted as in any way limiting Domme’s right to sexual satisfaction, and slave shall do everything possible to ensure that she is totally satisfied sexually.
2. Denial of Sexual Satisfaction.
a. Frequency of orgasms.
      slave is to be permitted an orgasm no more often than ( ..............)
Domme shall have the sole discretion to determine when or if slave is permitted to come.
 Slave shall not ask for an orgasm, nor hint that he wants one (e.g., by saying that he is very frustrated). Slave shall not cum without Domme’s express permission, which she may withhold until the last possible moment. Slave (even while gagged) shall alert Domme any time he is about to come, before he reaches the point of no return.
b. Quality of orgasms:
      Domme shall ruin or minimize all of slave’s orgasms by ceasing all stimulation the instant she senses that he is about to come.
3. Maximizing Sexual Frustration.
   a. Tease/edging/denial torture sessions.
     At least twice a week, slave shall undergo edging/teasing and denial torture by being bound hand and foot and repeatedly stimulated (by any means chosen by Domme, including by random choice) to the point just short of orgasm, over an extended period of time.
      b. Other teasing.
  Domme may tease slave at any time in any way she chooses, including by means designed to give him an erection while he is wearing a male chastity device ( see clause 4, below).
4. Chastity Device:
   To secure Domme’s control of slave’s genitals, he shall wear a male chastity device at all times, except in the circumstances noted below. Domme shall have the key(s) to this device.
Removal of the chastity device shall be limited to the following circumstances:
     when Domme desires sexual intercourse
      an edging/tease/denial torture session
      personal hygiene (including shaving submissive’s genitals)
      medical necessity.
5. Milking
     Domme may milk slave’s semen from time to time by prostate massage while he is restrained. This is not intended to sexually satisfy him, but to drain his semen while leaving him frustrated.
6. Punishment for Noncompliance.
    a. In general. slave’s failure to comply with any part of this agreement, or his violation of its spirit ( e.g., by asking for permission (or begging) to have an orgasm, by asking for removal of the male chastity device (in circumstances other than those described in clause 4, above), by resisting at any time Domme’s teasing of him by whatever means she chooses, or by resisting at any time her request to be sexually satisfied by whatever means she chooses) shall be punishable by any means chosen by Domme, in her sole discretion.        
     Punishments may include:
          extending the time between submissive’s permitted orgasms,
          increasing the length or frequency of edging/tease/denial torture sessions,
          use of the most extreme forms of stimulus during such sessions
         (e.g., sustained penis whipping,
           sustained hitting of his balls with a riding crop,
          overloading his genitals with clothes pins,
              use of a Kali’s Teeth Bracelet,
             punishment enemas,
            forced consumption of his own urine).
b. Serious violations.
      slave’s repeated violations of this agreement or his other serious violations (e.g., by coming without permission, by removing the chastity device without permission) are punishable by any form of his extreme sexual humiliation chosen by Domme, in her sole discretion, including:
          by having him expose his chastity-device-restrained genitals in public,
          by having him fellate another man in public,
           by having him be penetrated anally by a woman or another man in public
           by making him swallow his own or another man’s semen in public,
           by publicly distributing pictures of him in such a compromised state (e.g., on the internet).
7. Other Matters.
      a. Disposal of semen.
      slave shall ingest and swallow any semen he produces by orgasm, whether authorized or unauthorized, or milking. If he comes during sexual intercourse with Domme, he shall lick her clean.
      b. Maximizing sensitivity.
     slave shall keep his genitals, anus, underarms, and nipples free of hair to maximize their sensitivity to Domme’s teasing touches.
c. Inventory of sex toys.
      When this agreement is signed, slavve will furnish to Domme a complete, updated inventory of their sex toys that may be used to torture him or satisfy her.
8. Disclosure of Agreement.
           Domme may disclose this agreement to anyone she chooses at any time without requesting submissive’s consent. Submissive, however, may only disclose this agreement with her consent.

Date Signed: _________________________

Domme: ________________________________

slave: _____________________________