Thursday, July 31, 2014

7.31 Diary, Part ONE

She came to bed around 0100, and I don't remember much after that.... other than a movie She put in that stars "Mike Binder" and I really wanna know if he pronounces his last name "BIN der" or "BINEder".
In and out of sleep, and going to pee, quite often, as I ingested quite a bit of liquid.
Awakened by Her,  0915... asking if I wanted coffee, and what to eat.
I got up, fed the cats, took the lock off the back gate for the pool guy...scooped the litter box in the garage...and sat down...
Working on a defrag for LaptopII, up to the third try, as the power plug unplugged during the first one, and the power just ...shut off during the 2nd.
Went o/l to register for jury duty, and watched the orientation videos...
Went out to talk to the pool guy, about emptying completely the pool, then refilling it.
Went over the monthly calendar....
Online,  EP, FL,  STube....

Merry was looking of the MHA, and turned to me with a wicked grin, and said,
"Go, get undressed, and bring me the wooden spoon."
I did, and handing Her the spoon, I said, "For reason is this?"
"I am invoking MerryTwo," She said.
I went, over Her lap, from Her right to Left,and She whacked my left buttcheek eighty times in very nearly the Same Damn Spot.
She looked at the timer on Her phone, and noted THAT took about a minute and a half, and discussed the idea of revising the MHA, as 5 to 15 minutes of OTK would be WAY too long, and this kind of spanking should max out at 80 smacks a side.
She had me turn around, and smacked my right cheek... 50 times, then had me stand up, and bend over, for another 30 smacks of the spoon.
She took a couple pictures of the result on Her phone,  then asked me to procure alcohol, wipes, and bandaids, and She applied first aid to some messy spots on my bottom.
And we hugged, and jointly affirmed, "I Love you."
Back to our computers..
Stitch home....
I input my blog for the 30th, and started on the 31 ...up to THIS point.............................
which I did not intend to publish, but I did, so I call this "Part one"




from  Submale Spanked Until He Cries 
If a sub-male looks content or indifferent during a spanking it is a sure sign that he needs a very harsh and very prolonged punishment. The male needs to be spanked until he has shed many tears of repentance.

7.30 Diary

Done with work  9:29.
Low fuel light already on, in my car....so this was ...nerve wracking..
Home, 10:24.
Talking with Merry..
Then we signed the new, modified, revised, Marriage Household Agreement (MHA).
I had something to eat...
NO bread in the house, so I spread peanut butter on four peanut butter n chocolate pop tarts...
and read the newspaper.... today's and last Thursday's which was also on the porch...
and went into her room to take a nap (several degrees cooler than mine...)
Up 1545...   cleaned the kitchen a bit, scooped the backyard, picked up animal dishes... recorded mileages,  then S&D&D...
Waited for Stitch to take his shower...waited for Tallship to get home which he did at 1755... and he changed clothes...
and we all got into my car...
And I headed for a gas station on LBB at the 91.
There was no clicker on the pump handle, so I had to hold it myself...
And I did not notice when it overfilled.
So it took 18.47 gallons, the most I've ever put in, but I don't know how much of that was spillage.
And we were off, to a  Munch in BP at a Fuddrucker's.
Merry went to track down seats, while the three of us stood in line to order.
She returned, before we had gotten up to the head of the line to order... and said that She did not grab seats, as She got sidetracked socializing.
Anyway, we got our orders placed...  and headed for the back room.   Plenty of seating available , and Merry picked out some for us.
She wandered off to introduce Tallship to various people....and  Stitch spilled his drink right down the long table.
While I cleaned up, with the help of a restaurant worker who came along, Stitch went and refilled his drink.
Merry and Stitch and Tallship came and went, while I sat there.
And put in earplugs...the unorganized noise was getting to me.
Our beeper indicated our order was ready, and Stitch went with me to fetch it.
We returned, and we ate.
Merry took Tallship to a separate table, to explain the differences in leather and local riding groups, leaving me to sit there and stare at the two tvs up high on the wall, with closed captioning activated.
I was at the multi-option soda message, and Merry came up and poked me in the back, which caused me to jump, turn around, and say, "What the fu..."
Which SHE claimed, is an offense, a broken rule, based on our MHA,
But I still say, "No," as this was an result of my social anxieties.
It is not settled, but She has chosen to forgive it.
And we went home, arriving  2130.
Tallship and Merry sat down at their computer/laptops; Stitch surfed the web on his phone.
I read the Wall Street Journal and New York Times from Tuesday, which a chauffeur brought in to work, Tuesday night.
And I excused myself to bed, around 2230.

from WIVES: How to SPANK YOUR HUSBAND
If you choose to use your hand, then fifty to a hundred slaps should suffice.You will judge by the color of his skin. A light spanking will be pink, and a more thorough one will produce a deeper red.  If you use an implement, then perhaps only half of that many, depending on how surly his conduct was. It is a good idea to save the hardest smacks for the end.  It will leave a more lasting impression. Let the color be your guide initially. After you gain more experience, it will come naturally.

Men are traditionally taught that it's not cool to cry. However, the therapeutic thing about spanking is that people often allow themselves to age regress. The act of laying over my knee with his pants and underpants pulled down with his bottom upturned has the effect of making a grown man feel like a little boy. Once he feels younger, he may give himself permission to shed tears just as he would if he were laying over his mommy's lap.

When you have completed his punishment, you should have him remain in position. Usually, I rub some cool lotion into his bottom right after I am done. He must remain still for this. It will soothe, but also remind him that you are in control. His eyes should remain covered or closed  the whole time. At times, during the rub down, I give my husband a few sharp smacks, just to remind him that I am currently in charge, and that he must still submit.

I promise that you will see a marked improvement in his demeanor towards you. In time it may fade, and then you will need to have a little reminder session in order to help him get back on track. He will respect and love you for it. All this will be a great stress reliever for you, and will add a spark to your relationship.
        the end

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

7.29 Diary

Out 643.
But had to turn around and go back to the office for my crack pipe.
So left again,  0657.
1.9 miles from office to SST on ramp...home 0726.
Fed 3 dogs, fed 3 cats, scopped,  started up LaptopII, trying to run a full defrag, again....
Shower and dried, but not 'dressed' as I went to my bedroom, naked, and climbed in, next to Her.
..and She was 'dead' asleep, despite my efforts.
I mean, I did not shake Her or poke Her or prod Her,  but I was rubbing against Her with one of the hardest hard-ons I've had in a long time,  pulled Her kinky-pinkies down ..well, the left side... to about mid buttcheek, and tried gently touching Her crotch area...
She was not responding.
At 09:20, my erection had limped out, as I needed to pee...and I gave up, and got up, and went, and started on B-L-D.  
She came out of the bedroom, around 0955, after Her medication-alarm went off.
She sat down in Her desk chair, somewhat dazed...
Then moved on into Her bedroom.
 I brought in Her CPAP and a can of ginger ale..    took a few minutes to take care of what I was doing, then joined Her in that bed.
I got up around 1500 for P&S; She was already up, and at Her computer.
We talked,  She made some appointments, we talked....
I gave up the idea of going back to bed...
1715:  Showered, dried, dressed....
Car 1805,  rolling 1815.
SLOW traffic on northbound 5....
Off at Cahuenga (1.2 miles from offramp to office)..in at 19:15.

Whatever work related excitement there was, happened before my arrival.... including a busted water main, on a very busy part of Sunset near Westwood.
So...easy peasies at work.

HsLS  183
HsLO 395
HsLD  60
H un 396
EIGHT weeks without a cigarette!
Her DO:  No

from WIVES: HOW TO SPANK YOUR HUSBAND
You should have a quiet and soundproof room. You both want to keep this very private between the two of you. (We have a special room set up in the basement for exactly this purpose.)  It is also very important that you are both very comfortable during the spanking. Sometimes, I sit in a chair and have him  lay across my knee. Other times, I sit on the bed and have him lay across me. If he has his pants on, I will remove these and his underwear. After all, I intend to spank him, not his pants. More importantly, I can monitor my progress by seeing how red his bottom is getting. It has gotten to the point of where I really enjoy seeing his cheeks tighten up, quiver, and tremble. It is the best stress reliever I have ever found.

As soon as you detect that his behavior needs correction,  make a note of it and address it that same evening. It can't wait, he must be corrected promptly for the discipline to effective. After you get in bed, you should leave a light on  and tell him that "we"  need to discuss something- - his disrespectful behavior (or whatever) and proceed to let him know what specifically he has done or said that was out of line. You then TELL him that he acted childish and now he will be punished like a rude little boy. At this point, he will be shocked and probably scared. Next, this is very important: if he tries to apologize, you have already won !  This is when you have him in your complete control.   You must be strong, and tell him he may apologize AFTER he has been punished.

Now is the time for you to move to your chair, or sit up in bed. Next, in a soft but FIRM voice, tell him to lay across your lap. While you remove any pajamas that he is wearing, you should tell him your rules. He must not kick his feet, or attempt to cover his bottom with his hands. He must stay across your lap until you are satisfied that he has learned his lesson. If you have decided to spank with an implement like a ruler or spoon, you should have it ready, but hopefully not in plain sight. He should not be able to see what is coming. He should have his eyes closed, or better, have them covered. It will increase your control over the situation. Tell him that if his hands get in the way, or he kicks or moves, then you will have to add another spanking after you are done with his first one. (Usually three or four smacks with a belt will prevent that in the future.)  After you are both comfortable, it is time for you to begin. At first, he will beg for mercy and leniency.  I cant stress enough just how important it is for you to be firm, and follow your original intentions.   Trust me, he will respect you much more, afterwards,  if you are firm now.

  to be continued

Tuesday, July 29, 2014

7.29 Journal

On July 21st,  She wrapped up the revisions on our Household Agreement,  and I approved.
There's a printed copy by my bed, and I have two more copies in my fat binder, that I cart back and forth to work.
...  Yet, we have not discussed it at all.
...   Well, I was sick... food poisoning? Montezuma's Revenge?  Lots of diarrhea and intestinal cramping...  for  about 84 of my 100+ hours off time, last week.
  There's also this....



Ignore the blonde with the massive chest...
I DO wonder...   will I regret it  (it being, signing the agreement)?

Because...  I've been a 'free agent' for ..some months now.   (A free agent means,  unsigned to any contract.)
I'd have to go back to past blogs....   oh hell...   be back inna minit.

So...   looks like on May 25,  I blew up at Her in a verbal fashion that is mighty unlike me in general, and totally out of line for a submissive husband,  THEN when in the following minutes, She ordered me to come into Her room for a 'discussion' about it, I flat refused.
In the following few days, the chain around my neck that holds the collar...broke... and the replacement chain I found, broke within a couple days, and I have not worn it since.
..I found out on June 2, that She had ordered a new collar... intending to present it to me on June 1, which was the anniversary of our first play/date,  but June 1 was a Sunday, and it did not arrive in the mail until the next day.
Now, I know that back then, I was going through a bit of depression, and a lot of stress, over state and federal tax situations, that I have rectified since then.

I still consider that time, that day, as when our written agreement, in effect at the time, went up in smoke.
A follow up was under discussion, for some time.
She worked on it, then She didn't, then She did, then....
Well, She did, and She finished it.
At some point, I made a snarky comment about it being primarily "cut and paste" from prior documents,
for which I apologized to Her later, and I apologize again now;  there is significant original work in the document.
She calls it a 'contract'; I will not, as I refuse to consider it to have any legal status whatsoever.
Call it a covenant, call it an agreement, just not a contract.
We're calling it an agreement...  the title of it is  "Marriage/Household Agreement".
"MHA" works for me.
 The question hangs:  when will we sign it?
Actually, the question is, when will I sign it, as I'm sure She will sign it, whenever I say, "Here's a pen."
Come to think of it...what IS the big deal?  This version has a thirty day trial period.....
I must get 'on' this.
However...
The MHA has a limitations-on-masturbation clause...
Which says, I must acquire Her permission, before playing solitaire.
Mmm mmm mmm.
I'm just trying to imagine a conversation with Her that starts out, "Darling, is it okay with you if I go tug one off right now...?"
  I just don't say that chat going very well.

Of note... after we attended the Kinky Campout, and had a discussion during which She observed the possibility that my masturbation habits of the moment were possibly impairing our togetherness sex antics,
and more than likely impeding my ability to cum during intercourse,  She stated Her desire for me to cease in masturbation... and I pointed out that,  Her desire for me to cease would pair together well with my own fondness for being 'in chastity.'
So,  when we returned from the Campout, She suggested I 'lock it up', and I did.
A week later...  in the wee hours of Her birthday...and after we returned from a Fem Domme party, where I had gotten a severe beating from, well, a Fem Domme...   She told me to unlock it, take it off, and ...we had intercourse, and I 'came'.

Since then (July 13) to now (July 29):  we've 'had sex' four times (I did not cum) and I've masturbated five times (I did).
She admits to liking, having me in chastity, under Her control.
I admit to liking being in chastity, under Her control.
This device is non-metallic, ergo it is not a problem making a rapid transition from device-removal to in-out/in-out.
The benefits of keeping me locked up seem clear; and I'm having trouble coming up with any drawbacks.

But I won't lock it up until She says so/suggests it/ or in some way initiates the idea.














7.28 Diary

Out 6:31.
  1.6 miles from Office to the Hwd onramp onto the 101.
Cruising along the 101, 5, onto the 710.
Somehow, slept through the 91 interchange ...followed by where I usually get off, on LBB....
Woke up at the 405 interchange.  
Got off at Willow, and back on north bound at Willow, and off at Del Amo,...then took LBB north, and home,  7:23.
I brought in the chair that was in my office's "we don't use this anymore but we're not quite ready to throw it away" pile....  and my other stuff.

She was out, having taken Stitch to work  and Dylan to an appointment at Kaiser.
So...fed the dogs and cats...started up the dishwasher...  started up LaptopII, still trying to run a complete defrag...
 Put together a concoction of a large bowl of rice, adding baked beans,  diced carrots, chopped broccoli, along with peanut butter on crackers...   and sat down with that and the morning newspaper...
Finished, and went to bed  0900.
 She came in later, and said, She had tried to call me.  
My phone showed a missed call at 10:20.   But when I'm sleeping hard, I just don't hear it.
Up 13:15.  Thermometer in my room showed 87°....
I got up,  used the toilet, sat down to some cookies and milk...
Tried to sleep in the chair I was sitting, but my skin was sticking to the vinyl-faux-leather.
She suggested, Her bedroom..She just had to tell Dylan to turn down the tv.
I went in there, lay down, and slept fairly well,  until She woke me around 1730.
Up....  S&D&D.  
Fed the cats.
Saw my laptop had reached 100% on the defrag... but still waiting on the next stage.
I left it on, will see where it's at,  Tuesday morning.
..Convinced Her to have a seat in the chair I brought home.
She liked it.  Good height for Her legs,   no back or arms to impede freedom of movement.
She smiled and said, "Do I get to try it on Wednesday?"
"Why Wednesday?"
"Just seemed like a good day..."
"We'll ... see."
I mixed Red Bull and ginger ale in one of my car mugs, and much iced tea in another,  and went on out to the car.
Rolling at 1845.
Exited SntaMonica,  just to be able to clock it...   2.9 miles to the office, arrived at 19:25.
There's a "Diva's Beauty Supply" at  SntaMonica and Vino!

After the  ... flurry of business over the last few weeks...   It was nice to have a lot of nothing going on at work.

HsLS  159
HsLO (ds) 371
HsLD  36
H UN  372
Her DO?  No


from WIVES: HOW TO SPANK YOUR HUSBAND
 First, you must be determined that you are going to follow through with the discipline. No wife ever gets it right the first time. But, it will be a first time for your husband as well, so don't worry about that. It is extremely essential to remain totally feminine throughout the process.
Here are a few extremely important pointers:
1. You must NEVER ask his permission to punish him! Ever.  It is your decision, make it and stand firm.
2. You must both be in a comfortable setting. For instance-he shouldn't be laying on a cold floor. You shouldn't be sitting on an uncomfortable chair. The room temperature should not be hot or cold, but very comfortable.
3. Make sure he takes a shower first. It will open his pores and make your work more effective.
4. If you have made up your mind, NEVER allow him to talk you out of or diminish a spanking. Don't let him hesitate.
5. The first times you spank him, don't be brutal. You don't want to scare him away from future spankings. You need to be very aware of his body language. Don't spank too fast. Let it sink in. He may even enjoy the first few spankings. That is acceptable for now. You will change that in due time.
6. It will be normal for him to become aroused when you are spanking him, at first. This is expected and acceptable.
7. It is best to initiate the "lesson" when he is "in the mood" for intimacy. When a man is aroused, he is much easier to control and deal with.
8. Start with a minor infraction-like leaving the toilet seat up, or not lifting the seat and dripping on it. The punishment should be in line with the offense.
9. The first several spankings should be with your hand only. You can graduate to an implement soon enough.
10. No need for the female to make any comments during the spanking. She may offer short replies to his pleas and begging, but stay firm.
11. When the spanking session is over, its OVER. His debt for poor behavior is paid in full. It isn'f fair or proper for you to hold a grudge after you're done. If you don't feel the slate is now clean, then you are at fault for being too lenient. Make a mental note for the next time.

(Just a hint from experience: When you think he has been punished enough, ADD another 10 to 20 smacks. Ladies ALWAYS go too lightly in the beginning, until their confidence grows.)
   to be continued

Monday, July 28, 2014

07.27 Diary

..Sherman came home, as it was ending, which was enough to wake Her up, and start looking for something else to fall asleep to, and I found "Armageddon" and She watched the first ten minutes, and I watched it all the way through, for about the 997th time.                                                 asleep 0300ish

Awake 11:00.

She was sitting on the edge of the bed close to me.
"Roll over on your stomach."
I did.
She pulled my briefs down, to mid thigh.
She looked at the thermometer, hanging from the edge of the bed.
"It's 86 degrees in here. How do you expect me to get close to you when it's 86 degrees in here?  .."
She paused to grab a mid length skinny paddle out of the drawer, on Her side of the bed.
"This is punishment.  86 smacks. Start counting."
The paddle landed just about square in the middle of my cheeks, as I counted to forty three, then She paused.... "..switching sides..." and continued smacking, until I counted 86.
She said, "You're going to have to clean this one..."
"Struck blood again?"
"Yep, around number twenty five.... whatcha want for breakfast...?"
"Oh, toast, I guess..."
"Okay... " and She got up, and headed for the kitchen.
I got up, and went to the bathroom... for the first of many bowel movements I had, before going to work.
I fed the cats in my room...   put away laundry, while figuring out what to wear to work
Went into the living room, for toast and coffee and reading the newspaper, and bitching that She didn't offer ME any of the sausage She had fried for the other guys...   whereupon She immediately gave me Her plate, with sausage still on it...
Then a bit of a nap in the chair...
Up and moving 1330... and S&D&D along with 4 more bowel movements.
Gave Her a kiss good-bye,  and in my car 14:05.
At work..in the office , 15:00.

At work, just wrapping up the tail end of Comi-Con,  which meant 1/5 of our working drivers are IN or on the way back from San Diego...
And for Monday,  setting up for a huge "Sales" event involving  the four new Teslas we just acquired, and one new Escalade, and all six of the new Caddies or Lexi, plus three besides....  
The dead heat of summer is supposed to be our really slow time of year.
Ha.

HsLS  135
HsLO  347
HsLD  12
H UN 348
Her DO?  no



7.26 Diary

09.00 Up for pancakes and coffee..
 In my chair, running clean up programs on both laptops..
While re arranging my bags...and my pens....
And updating calendars....
And it's now 17:30, and that's about all I've done............

Then
Talked to Mom & Dad...
Started reading the "Anal" book....
On line, here and there...
Dinner...
Fussed with the dvd player in my bedroom, until I finally got it to play the dvd I wanted to watch...even though I couldn't get the remote to work...

and She came in, and we watched "Chasing Amy" together.
Sort of.
As, She was sleeping through half of it.
I woke Her for the important parts.

HsLS  111
HrLO  323
HsLD  325
H UN  324
Her DO  no





Saturday, July 26, 2014

07.25 Diary

up 07.45
Feed all, S&D&D.
Toast and coffee.
In car with Merry and 2nd-youngest.
I got dropped at my workplace, to pick up my car, left there on Wednesday.
They went on to a dr appointment at Kyser, down the street.
Home 1115, and piddled around with this and that...
Sat down in my chair for a nap.
She arrived home,  1245.
Kind of awake...
And I went with Her to Market,  Bank, 2nd Market, MickeyDee's.....
Home, more piddling round.
We had discussed...in previous days, going to a Femme Domme Party in No Ho, tonight...
No mention of it was made during this day at all.
She went for a long nap on my bed...
I read SoM for about an hour.
I began doing clean ups on my laptops....
Little-s and I watched "Chasing Amy" via DVD on my laptop...;
And headed into the bedroom around midnight...
Whereupon She started watching "Bad Grampa" on cable.
I gave up after 45 minutes, and went to sleep, more or less.

HsLS  87
HsLO  299
HsLD  301
H UN 300
Her DO  no


07.24 Diary

10:00  Awake enough to move to the other bedroom, where it was somewhat cooler....

18:00  up, moving into the living room...
18:50  back into my room....

2100 Up for dinner...
21:30  back to bed.

HsLS  63
HsLO  275
HsLd  277
H UN  276
Her DO  No

07.23 Diary

She arrived to get me, and I left work 0905....
We went up to the NHDiner for breakfast....
Stopped at a RiteAid so She could get cash for the doctor...
Then to the doctor...just a quarterly followup for Her various things going on....
He gave Her referrals for a mammogram and eye exam....
We left, went back to RiteAid for ice cream.
Received such horrible service, that I went online via the survey offered on the receipt, and complained about the service.
Then we went to Harbor Freight, a place I've been trying to get to for two weeks, what with freebie coupons, and wanting a battery tester.
Then we headed home.
I conked out asleep,  somewhere on the 5, to getting off the 7, almost home.
Home...I hurried to the toilet, and showed the first symptoms of  Montezuma's revenge or food poisoning, or I don't know what....
Sleep from 1500 to 2200...
Up, when She called, dinner time.
Back to bed with stomach pains, 2245.

HsLS  39
HsLO 251
HsLD  253
H Un 252
Her DO  no


Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Word.


Actually, I'm VERY sure....


7.23 When Harry met sally part 2, update 7/23

They spent the evening,  with her trying out different paddles across his buttocks,  then falling into bed for more sex... until they fell asleep.

She got up first, to get ready for work, and made sure his bottom was quite red and sore before sending him home.

They made arrangements for another date, a few days' hence.
The morning of, she sent to him the following email:
 Be here at 7, as we prearranged. I have a late meeting, so I might not be home yet. If my car is not in the driveway, then I'm not.  I'll bring home dinner, you may bring a bottle of red wine.  There'll be a key under the mat.  Let yourself in, take a shower.  You may open the bottle and pour yourself half a glass, no more, don't dilly dally with it,  then bend over the back of the chair in the living room, on your tiptoes, hands on the seat of the chair.  My hidden nanny cam will be on, so I will know if you got into position when you were supposed to, or waited til you heard me arrive.  This evening will be all about 'the cane'.  I have quite a few that I've been wanting to try out. 

He was done with work earlier than her, and went home first... then headed out again, stopping at TJ's  for wine, then went to her house, arriving at 6:55. She was not home yet, and he went up to the door, and let himself in.  He undressed in the entryway,  and put his clothes in the basket, took the two bottles of wine to the kitchen,  opened one, and poured two thirds of a glass, passed through the living room on the way to the bathroom, where he took note of the solid armless chair,  positioned in the center of the room, and in the bathroom, turned on the water, stepped in,  got wet, soaped himself down with body wash,  rinsed off, turned off the water, and stepped out as he grabbed a towel, and dried off.  Still in the bathroom, he took a long swig from the glass, then another, and another, and it was empty.  He went into the living room, placed the glass on the coffee table, went to the chair, bent over the back, put his hands on the seat, then lifted himself on his tiptoes, and waited.
While trying to get the image out of his head, of the neat group of canes, long and short, bamboo, hard wood, and Delrin, that he saw on the coffee table.


She was parked down the street, and had been for quite a few minutes, and was using her phone to watch the proceedings in the living room, via connection to the nanny-cam.
Satisfied that he was obeying instructions,  She started the car, and headed home, arriving in about a minute, and pulled into her driveway, got out of her car, and walked up the sidewalk, and let herself in.
Without saying a word to him, she walked by, and on into the kitchen, where she put down the large bag of Chinese food she had picked up,  found the wine bottles that he had brought, and poured herself a tall glass, then went on back through the living room to the bedroom.
She slowly and deliberately stripped down, trying not to hurry despite her growing sense of anticipation. She pulled a jet black slip over her naked body, then stepped into and pulled up a pair of fishnet stay-up stockings, checked herself out in the mirror, grinned at herself,  picked up the wine glass, and headed for the living room.
She stopped, directly behind him, and said, "I hope I haven't kept you waiting too terribly long....."
"Not at all," he replied, quietly.  "Once I became accustomed to all the blood in my head, this is kind of relaxing.  I hope to remember this as a meditation position."
"Oh...I think this being a meditation position is going to become a very distant memory."  She put her wine glass down on the table, and selected a long white hickory senior cane, and swished it around in the air. Then she slowly walked around, until she was behind him, to his left.  She held the cane out so that it just touched his buttocks in a horizontal line across them.
"Count each stroke, followed by the word 'Miss'.  After you say 'Miss', I will do a silent three-count, then deliver the next stroke.  If either hand leaves the chair seat, I apply additional strokes. If either foot leaves the ground, I apply additional strokes.  If your knees buckle, I will say 'UP!' and you must rise immediately, or I apply additional strokes.  If you rise, putting either or both hands to your bottom, you'll get a moment to compose yourself, then we start ALL over.  AND, if this simply becomes more than you can tolerate, you can simply stand up and walk away.  Do you understand?"
"Yuh...ulp  Yes, Muh..Miss."
She took her stance,  aimed with the cane along his buttocks, pulled it back, and swung.
"Aaaach.... Wu..One..Miss."  1, 2, 3.  "Aaaahhh...Tuh..Two..Miss."  1, 2, 3.  "OWWWHhh... Thuh..Three...Miss..."   1, 2, 3..........
Ten strokes she delivered, and ten angry lines and welts appeared across his buttocks.
She put down the cane, and said, "Join me in the kitchen....bring your wineglass."
He joined her, and quickly filled his glass, drinking half of it in one long swig.
They opened the bags of Chinese food she brought home, and got out plates and silverware, then moving to the table.
He started to sit down, then looked at her cautiously, and she smiled slightly, and said, "Go ahead, sit down."
He did, slowly and carefully, with a grimace on his face.

A low whistle came out as air escaped between his clenched teeth as he sat.
He wiggled in his chair, then was able to keep still as he became accustomed to the stinging.
He was eating, and enjoying it, until she said, "After we get the table cleared,  expect at least ten more strokes..."
He paused in mid bite, with his mouth open, fork in hand hovering near his mouth, then his hand continued, the fork and its contents reaching his mouth.
Not that he could taste anything, anymore.  
He started eating markedly slower. 
Which she observed, with the slightest of smiles.
And looked at the watch on her wrist, and said, "You have three minutes from my mark to finish eating whatever you're going to finish...starting  NOW."
He realized ... he just wasn't all that hungry anyway, and pushed his plate away.
"Very well," she said, "Let's get the table cleared."
He stood up, as she did, and they had the table cleared and wiped down within minutes.
She turned and looked at him, steadily, and asked, "Are you ready willing and able to take more strokes of the cane?"

He gulped, and asked, quietly, "What if ...I say, no?"
She frowned.  "This is not some kind of negotiation.  I'm asking you to test yourself, find your own limits. Are you afraid of a little more hurting, or can you push through it?"
He smiled, very slightly, then let it drop, at the thought of a 'little more hurting', then said, "I am ready for more."
She stared at him, and a smile almost formed on her lips, "In the middle of the floor,  spread your legs, bend over,  hands at your ankles head up, look straight ahead."
She picked up the heavy senior cane, and stood behind him and to his left.  Holding the cane in her right hand, she reached out with it, and tapped the middle of his buttocks with the tip. 
She pulled the cane back, and swung SWEEEEEEESH   WHAP!   and he let out an agonized AHHHHHHHHCHchhhhh.

Space about four seconds apart,  eleven more strokes landed across his buttocks, accompanied by his loud moans, and long welts appeared in horizontal red lines across his cheeks.  
She put the cane down on the table with the others, and sat down, in the middle of the couch.
"Now, stand up...and come join me, here on the couch."

Very gingerly, he sat down, next to her.  
She put her right arm around his shoulder, leaned in with her face close to his, while taking his penis in her left hand, and stroking it, from flaccidity to fullness.
Her head went down to his lap, and her mouth slid over his cock, as she sucked it in, and licked and slurped it, until he jerked and gasped, and shot his seed into her mouth, which she hungrily gulped down.
She sat upright, wiping her mouth, then flashed an evil grin,  reached out onto the coffee table, picked up a short, skinny cane,  and reached out, ad pulled him down, his torso over her lap, and positioned him with his chest stretched out on the couch to her left, his knees on the ground to her right., his bottom almost squarely over her lap.  
Her left hand roamed over the cane welts on his bottom. 
She stopped, and held the short cane in her right hand, and started landed quick, rapid strokes of it across his buttocks. 

Stroke after stroke landed across his buttocks and upper thighs,  as he wiggled and gasped...and began sobbing, softly at first, then loudly.
She stopped, and allowed his sobs to die down as she put down the cane and rubbed her right hand over his red and welt-covered buttocks.
Once his breathing was regular, she asked quietly, "So... ready to join me in the bedroom?"
He pushed himself upright, then extended a hand to help her up, and they walked off, into her bedroom.
She pulled up and off the black slip, and lay down on her back on the bed,  with legs open wide.
"Start here..." she said.
















    

7.23 No more, Mommy, Please (update 7/23)

Miriam was sitting in her easy chair in the living room, watching Bonanza, when the doorbell sounded.
She got up, and went to it, and opened it.
"Jane! What brings you by?"
"I was in the neighborhood...no, I wasn't, I was out on errands, and decided to drive by, see how you're doing."
"Come in, I'm fine, come in.."   They went into the living room, and sat.
"So, what are you up to today?" asked Jane.
"Oh, same old same old in this busy retiree's life. You know....and, OH! I'm giving a spanking in a couple of hours."
"Still doing that, are you?"
"As long as there are naughty boys who know they should have their bottoms spanked and come to me to do it, I'll be doing it."
Jane giggles.  "So is today's a first-timer, a once-in-a-while-er, or a regular?"
"I met this one, when I lived in the SuperDuper Apartments. He was a regular then.  Then his career keep him very busy, for along time.  Then it eased up on him, and he's been a regular for nearly a year now, twice a week."
"Twice a week? Wow.  Now, I know you love slapping male bottoms, but considering you're on a fixed income, I can't help thinking you should charge something for a service that these men obvious want."
"Well, I'd feel badly actually taking money,  but I do get groceries."
"Oh? How's that?"
"This one.. has made it a habit to call me the morning of his appointment, just to confirm the appointment, he says, but he always asks if he can stop at the supermarket for anything for me.  Once I figured out that he enjoys doing it for me, I've had no problem creating a list for him."
"I see.  Well, there have certainly been times, that I've wished I was a fly on the wall, so I could watch the Mistress in action."
"Oh, you want to watch? By all means, stay and do so."
"Um, won't he mind?"
"It doesn't matter if HE minds.   Furthermore, it's a fantasy of his, to have someone watch."
"He has told you that?"
"Not in so many words...  but I could tell, by his reaction when I have suggested having someone watch. His mouth protests 'oh no' but his body language says, 'oh yes please'."
"Well, then, I'll make a phone call to check in at home, but then, I'd love to stay and watch."
"Okay...."

They sat on Miriam's couch, talking.
At 1 o'clock, the doorbell rang.
"Always right on time," said Miriam, standing up.
She went to the door, out of view of the living room, opened it.
"Come on in, you can bring those straight to the kitchen.  Was there anything perishable that needs to be put in the icebox....oh yes...."
"Now to the living room,"  she said, and she entered, with tall, middle-aged man following her.
She said, "Floyd, this is my very good friend Jane."
Floyd and Jane shook hands, and Miriam continued, "Jane will be a witness for this afternoon."
A deep blush passed over Floyd's face, then he stammered, "Ohh okay."
Miriam sat down in the chair reserved for these occasions and said,  "SOOOO, how do we always start?"
"I...get undressed."
"Well?"
He gulped, and began undressing, removing shoes, shirt, pants...  pausing while in tighty whities and white socks to glance at her, as if hoping that she would say 'stop'... then continuing with removing his socks, and finally, with a deep breath, tugged the briefs down and off, and stood up straight, in front of her, naked, hands straight down at his sides.
The hint of a smile appeared on Jane's lip, and Floyd blushed again, and Miriam said, "Come closer, turn around, inspection."
Obediently, he stepped closer to her, turned around, spread his legs, and bent over,
She reached out, and pinched a buttock in each hand, and pulled them apart, and peered in between them.
"Not bad," she said, "You're starting to learn how to keep it clean....  now then," and from the table next to her where she kept her supplies, she produced a rectal thermometer, and KY.  She dipped the business end of the the thermometer in the KY, then slipped it into his anus, and let go of his cheeks, and leaned back, and started chatting with Jane.
"The BEST way to take a boy's temperature, bar none."
"Oh, I agree," said Jane.
She leaned forward, and withdrew the thermometer, and looked at it. "Normal..." then she wiped it in alcohol, and put it away, and picked up a latex glove, and slipped it on her right hand, then dipped her index finger in KY, and reached out to part his cheeks, then moved her hand forward, sliding her lubed finger into his anus and rectum, as he grunted.
She wiggled the finger around for a bit, and most certainly, for longer than necessary,  then withdrew it, saying, "Prostate feels normal." She took the glove off her hand and discarded it. "Stand up, and get over my lap."
He stood up straight, turned around, and bent to get over her lap, with his toes pointed and on the ground on her right side, his forearms on the ground, cradling his head, on her left.

She produced a square-head bamboo-handle hairbrush from the table,  and a timer, set the timer for some minutes, and began... smacking his buttocks, one cheek then the other, squarely in the center, back and forth, then changing to three smacks on one cheek,then three on the other,  as his breathing deepening, he began moaning audibly.  She switched back to one smack a side, but a very hard smack,  enough to elicit an "OHHHHh"  from him with each one.
The alarm buzzed.
She stopped,  and he was gasping and panting.

She rubbed her hand over his reddish cheeks, then reset the timer,  and began spanking again, hard alternating smacks, each one,  in the 'same dam spot' in the center of each cheek, as he moaned, and his breathing grew shallower,  he was gasping...  and he finally let loose with sobs, muffled at first, then louder,  and tears were flowing down his eyes when the alarm buzzed, and she stopped.

She put down the hair brush, and let him sob, while rubbing one hand through his hair, the other hand around his buttocks.  
His sniffling stopped.  The room grew quiet.   In her hand appeared the long handled bath brush. 
She set the timer, once again, and began smacking his lower buttcheeks, one smack to each one, back and forth,  producing more tears from him within 10 smacks,  and he was crying loudly when the alarm buzzed, and she stopped. 

She waited for the sobbing..then sniffling, to stop, and said, "Get up, and go, get on the day bed."
He stood up, and went into an adjacent room, the den,  and laid himself down, face down prone, alone the length of a long ottoman.  
And he looked up, at the wall, from which hung a leather double-tailed strap,  a butcher's strap, a split-finger tawse, and a nine-tailed martinet, and he wondered which he would receive, this time.

After a few minutes, she came into the room, went to the wall, and took down the butcher's strap.
She stood back, to his left side, and said, "Count them out."
She swung,  SPLAAAT...."Ohhhh...one..."   
She continued from that side, landing ten smacks, and he was choking as he called, "TEN!"
She walked around to the other side, and said, "Count  'em."
Ten swats of the strap, and he was sobbing as he counted.
She stopped, and hung the strap back up on the wall, then picked up a kitchen timer and set it.
"You may compose yourself until this alarm goes off, then come into the living room, and take the position over the chair.  Don't let me catch you doing any rubbing."
And she left the room. 

The alarm charmed.
He got up, off the bed, and walked into the living room,  and up to the back of the chair. From there, he could see hanging on the wall, a long bamboo paddle, a wooden Spencer paddle, a Lexan paddle.  He bent over the back of the chair, with his hands flat on the seat.
After a few minutes, she went to the wall, and took down the Spencer paddle, then stood behind him to his left. She tapped his buttocks lightly with the paddle and said, "Count!"
He groaned with each hard WHAP and counted.  After 10, she paused to switch sides, and hands.
The WHAPS landed harder than before, and he was sobbing as he counted up to ten.
"In the corner, there, hands on your head, while I decide whether or not to apply cane strokes."
He went to the corner, and stood.
She went, to sit down with Jane.  
Jane asked quietly,"You're deciding whether or not...?"
"It's part of this role play.  All I'm going to do is flip a coin.  Meanwhile he is left there wondering if he's going to get it or not."  












                                                                                                                                                                                                               

I've been thinking about it, every day...


7.22 Diary

Off work  6:33, home 07:15

Fed the animals... She was just waking up and She showered with me.

Got semi-dressed (A-shirt, briefs, quarter-socks) and went to Her bedroom, and got on bed.
She came in, and said, "You didn't ask to get in bed first..."
"I'm also not naked...and we haven't signed the contract yet..."
"Well, it's the way it's always been..."
I shrugged, She shrugged, and She got in bed.
We cuddled and talked.
I began kissing:  Her lips, Her neck, Her ..boobies...  as She giggled and groaned....
I took down and off Her slinky-pinkies, and She closed Her thighs, and I began licking the top of Her mound, as far down as my tongue would go, while She moaned.... then moaned, 'please..please...'  and I tugged down my briefs, and She opened Her legs, and I got on top of Her, and She guided my rigid cock in between Her legs, and .....
  we had sex, as She likes to say.
Judging by Her volume, She enjoyed it tremendously.  I stopped, short of cumming myself.
We got up, put our briefs/panties back on, and went into the kitchen... time to eat.
No newspaper again...second day missing...
I ate BLD while reading the TV Guide that came in the mail.
Just before ten, I kissed Her 'good night or good day' and went to bed.
Up around 1545 for P&S.
We try to keep the bedroom and bathroom doors closed, to keep the big pit bull from going into them and generally tearing things apart,  and when I opened the bathroom door, I saw Sherman's dog sleeping in there, somewhat happy to be let out.
Back to sleep 1615.
Alarm 1715. Ignored it.
Up 17:40.
S&D&D.
Put some stuff back in the dryer which everybody else had been ignoring.
Fed the cats....
She was supposed to take me to work...then come get me in the morning, then go on to an 11:00 doctor appointment... but, She said, She just got home from "six hours on the freeway" and was very tired...
so did I mind driving myself to work, and She would come up in the morning, and leave my car here for awhile, etc?
Fine with me.
She went to Her bedroom to take a nap.
I headed out, in car 1823.
At work 1920.

Easy night  (so far...)

HsLS  15
HsLO 227
HsLD  229
H UN  228
Her DO  Yes.


Tuesday, July 22, 2014

07.21 Diary

Off 06:30.
Dropped off a co-worker at the 11/Oly offramp, got back on the 11, and went on home, arriving 0722.
She was still out,  taking Dy back home.
I showered, and She had arrived home by the time I got out.
I put together BLD, and sat down with a paper from July 11, and ate, and took pills, which were making me nauseated, so I sat in my chair with my eyes closed a bit,  then went on into my bedroom around 0945.

11:45  up for P&S.

Around 14:00, She came in...sat down next to where I lay, flat on my back, and She took down my briefs, stroked my penis, then sucked my penis, until it was quite hard.... then She took down, off, Her Slinky Pinkies, and straddle me, and mounted me, female superior.   She groaned a couple times,  then got off,  licked my penis a couple times, pulled up my briefs, and put on Her own, and departed.
I pointed out, perhaps there should be mention in the new agreement, that I should not be disturbed, when sleeping on my work days before my alarm goes off, and She agreed.

She woke me up 1740...my alarm was set for 1800, but I got up anyway.
...looked at the print of the new newest Marital Household Agreement...   seems very good....
.. Went on in to the bathroom.... toilet... S&d&d...
Went outside to bring in the trash cans...    AFTER She had asked Stitch to do it, and all he was doing was sitting in my chair with his eyes closed.
He came out to 'help' after I was finishing with bringing in the 2nd can.
I fed the cats in my room....
Poured tea in my travel mugs..
Talked to little-S about matters financial....  
Kissed her goodbye...
and departed.
In car, 1850.
Monday traffic has been very light.....    note, the past tense.
7 North, fine, into the 5 North, ok  but the 101 was ... horrid.
As was traffic around the office,  due to  a broken water main around SMon and Hyland, and a concert at the Bowl, and some Star ceremony on the Blvd.  ..
At work 1959.
Very quiet... up to midnight, so far, anyway.

HsLS  10
HsLo 203
HsLD  205
H UN  204

Her DO  yes

Monday, July 21, 2014

7.20 Diary

She entered the bedroom, getting ready to get into bed.
I said, "I'm letting you know, I'm going to sleep now."
She said, "I got my answer.." and She packed up Her CPAP and walked out, to the other bedroom.
After a few minutes, She returned...and we talked.
About problems we've been having... mostly caused by me...  
I asked Her to ... come back and sleep with me.
She went back, and brought back the CPAP, and got in bed. 
And ..She turned on the t.v. and started watching a movie.  \
GRRRR
My problem is, SHE puts these movies on tv to fall asleep to, and I wind up watching them all the way through.
  I think we got to sleep around 0130. 

My alarm went off at 0900... 
and Stitch came in around 0930, showing Merry her phone... with a text message saying that Dy was going to the hospital ....after a major seizure.

And since his aunt, that he lives with, had to go to work, this meant that Merry would have to go to the hospital, some 20 miles away, and ... probably bring him back to our house, to basically watch him, for the day.

Today was the monthly  Hwd Spanking Group Party in North Hollywood.
We did not go LAST month because.... She let me sleep through it.  I simply never got out of bed that Sunday..until I had to get ready to go to work.
The month before, we did not go because... we had to go to the hospital because Dy had a seizure....

So we got up. Merry made breakfast. I stripped the bed, and got sheets in the washer, and brought in my stuff from the dryer to put away.
I wrote up some notes for Merry to add to the document-in-progress, worked on my notebook, then we got dressed, and headed to the hospital in HB, picked up Dy, then went to his house,  where he piddled around forever, packing to come to our house overnight... and we returned home.  
I got the sheets on the bed, and spent some time tidying my room.
She came in for a nap, and I lay down to join Her, around 15:20.
I woke up 1620...and again at 1653.
I was 'supposed' to be at work 1800,  oh well.
Up, and S&D&D.
And packed up, and woke Her up for a gas card and a goodbye kiss...
In car 1740,  stopped for gas...
at work  1840

And OMG.   Over 300 rides  for the Fox TCA's and other crap.

HsLS  56
HslO  179
HsLD  181
H UN  180
Her DO  No


Spank Your Submissive Man When Friends Visit
Disciplining and spanking your submissive man should be considered whenever understanding female friends come for a visit. The shame and humiliation of being observed while he is whimpering and sobbing is perfect for keeping an malesub humble. The visiting women may shout out encouragement to the Domme and even laugh at the remorseful and sobbing submale.



7.19 Diary

Merry came into the bedroom, two ish, and started playing with the remote...until I said, "Whenever you're done there, we can pick up where we left off, earlier in the afternoon...."
She stopped, leaned back,  and....  we had sex.
She put on her mask, rolled onto Her right side, and fell asleep,, and I got hung up watching the movie She had selected, until I just decided to turn it off... 0430.
Awake 0930....
She asked me to roll onto my belly, and She pulled down my panties, and said, "Is it okay if I warm up your bottom?"
"Sure...
She did so, which a number of whacks of this and that, until  some absess opened and She squeezed it and claimed blood came squirting out.   I don't think  it was that bad, but it ended the fun.

We got up...
Sherman made breakfast...
I ate,drank coffee, took a Chantix...  
Worked on my photo album...
Recorded mail... 
Updated this blog up to now...12:45
Took my other pills
Went through mail
Laundry in wash, laundry in dryer...
S&D&D
Four of us in my car 1315, heading for the LdS, arrived 1425.
Attended a BDSM class (part 4) from 14:30 to 15:30
Then a Polyamory class started ...
and lasted til 1800.
Fuck.
Merry's 2nd oldest was in a play... in  a town 60 miles away...and it started...doors closed...at 1930.
I wanted to stop at Harbor Freight which was 5 blocks from where we were, but...not happening.
We arrived in the turnabout of the playhouse at 1923... not time for me to park, and all of us go in,  so Merry and Stitch jumped out..and went in, and Sherman and I went on.
I went on a snipe hunt looking for the Register,  gave up,  and we went to a Subway for sandwiches.
Then I found a close place to park, and we both took a nap in the car.
Merry called (him) ready to go, around 2140; and I pulled in and picked them up.
She was famished, and we drove through a J-in-B for Her and Stitch, and headed home.
Where.... I fed the cats... sorted my manpurses...   started yet another new notebook...
While I was laying ON bed doing this, She said, "You will tell me if you go to sleep, young man?"
Which kinda pissed me off.  I got hot buttons with being called 'young man'  OR  'sir'.
I haven't a clue what I said..
But She sent me a text, saying "Are you looking for an argument?"
And I replied...  "Do you know where I can find one..."
   the rest happened after midnight, so ..to be continued...

HsLS  32
HsLO  155
HsLD  157
H UN  156
Her DO  NO



Humiliating Spanking

Being spanked in front of a woman who does not understand male submission and female led relationships can be very humiliating. And possibly the sight of your punishment will convert her into a dominant wife.


Saturday, July 19, 2014

7.18 DIARY

UP  00:30 for P&S.
Sherman was just getting home while I was up.
Back to sleep...
Awake  1015 up, Feed critters, pills and snack,  
Sitting down...updating password list, moving around files on my laptop,  
Emptied a physical photo album
Contacted AOL to cancel billing...
Read Her blog entry..
Read the latest document version...and approved..
Input my diary for the 16th and 17th.
Grabbed Her and said, "Wanna have sex?"
She did.
Finished,1545....up and getting dressed.
In my car, off to Von's for shopping.
Couldn't get enough fried chicken for tonight's meeting, went to a second Von's.
Not there either, went to a Foods 4 Less.
Not there either,  rolled on, to pick up May.
Returned home,  picked up Stitch, and went down to the LB Temple.
Had to wait for S, who had the key, since Stitch lost Merry's after the last meeting...
But S did not have the key to get inside the shrine itself...
So S went on home, and the three of us went to HTB for dinner. 
AFterwards, dropped May at home, and we returned home.
I excused myself to the bedroom, to ice my foot, and figured out the problem is in the back of the heel.
Completely updated my photo albums..
Popped in and out of the living room when Merry asked me to look over the agreement She was writing for Sherman....
Read two newspapers... and said, I was turning off the light....  0100 or so.

HsLS  8
HsLO  131
HsLD 133
H UN 132
Her DO  YES

Spanking Men: Delay & Shame

Delay and shame are easy means for enhancing the discipline and correction of a misbehaving male. The lessons of a spanking will be more deeply implanted into the man’s mind without effort to yourself.
Have him show up early for his spanking. Make him wait.

 He’ll stand there for as much as an hour miserable. If he fidgets tell him each motion will cost him extra strokes when you spank him.
Having him drop his pants and underwear will increase his sense of awkward shame.
When the male spanking finally begins it will almost be a relief.

Friday, July 18, 2014

7.17 Diary

Up 845...right foot hurting like hell, cant fully straighten it to walk without intense pain....
Feed animals... sat down for coffee and pills...
Fixed my laptop folders,  the bill box, read through The Document,  fixed the towel rack in the bathroom,  went through my coupon file, sorted through all my old manila folders.....
S&D&D   around 1700...
Both of us in car 1740 heading for the Munch in HB.
Arrived 1825.
Her newest  boitoi came in and sat down to Her right,  and his buddy, heretofore known as "The Bane of My Existence" or BOME, sat across from us, and did a lot of talking and even more alcohol-drinking, but did not direct his attention my way.
The speaker's topic was sissification ...and I couldn't hear Her.  Oh well.
She finished and the room was open to 'general chatting' ....and the noise level was too much for me, and I excuses myself to leave, while She waited on the return of Her credit card from the waiter.
After a bit, She came along, and we left.
First we had to go to the house of Her psychotic sister, a couple miles down the street, then we headed home, arriving 2145.  
I headed to bed  2200 or so.

HsLS 63
HsLO  117
HsLD  95
H UN  118
HER DO  no



Pre-Strap-On Sex Spanking

A woman doesn’t really need to use lubricant before having strap-on sex with her sub-male.

 A harsh, tear filled spanking will break down his resistance and he will accept the penetration of her strap-on dildo with comparative ease.





7.16 Diary

Our computer system...the part the relays the information from the chauffeurs back to our computer monitor was not working all night ... which meant, every code, every time a chauffeur was ... confirmed, or on location, or POB or clear.... they called on the phone or radio.  SOO much traffic back and forth that way...and it continued, all through the morning, after the morning guy arrived and so on.
Merry arrived to get me around 8:35. After the morning guy came in just before 900, I was out the door, and in the car with Her.
Home 945 or so... and feed the animals, had a bite to eat myself, and went to get some sleep around 1130.
Stitch woke me up around 1515, and Merry, again at 1516. I got up, S&D&D.
Four of us got in my car.....   stopped at a Shell, on the way and filled up.
Arrived at the GC around 1720.
A great dinner and dessert, all around....
And home 20:00.
I feed the critters...
Fell asleep in my chair...
Woke up long enough to argue with Merry about the specifications of the Spencer Plan.
Went to my room to lay down...
She came in and said, "I left you alone all day..."
I said, "Yeah, so I could sleep... so when you're done patting yourself on the back for that..."
She got mad and left.
I went to sleep  22:00.
She woke me up around 01:00 when She was going to bed, saying, "I am not going to bed mad. I don't like the way you have been treating me or talking to me   etc etc..."
Then She went to the other room, to sleep with Stitch.

HsLS  39
HsLO 93
HsLD 71
H UN  94
Her DO  No

from Corporal Punishment Implements: The Cane
 Corporal punishment always comes in various forms. Be it a motherly handspanking, administered knickers-down over her knees while she sits on the side of your bed, a primary-school slippering or one's father really teaching you a lesson with the hazel, knickers down and bent over his cherry-wood desk. This is part one of a series I want to write about the rituals and legends associated with some implements commonly used for corporal punishment. We will begin, of course, with the cane.
The cane, being a very traditional and once very common implement for correction, of course comes with a load of special punishment rituals attached. Standing at attention in front of the headmaster's desk, being told to bend over or to “touch your toes”. Or holding out your palms for the stinging vicious rattan, while the whole class is watching. To receive a genuine “six of the best” across a tightly stretched pair of uniform knickers. Perhaps having to count out loud the number of strokes, or having to thank the disciplinarian for your much deserved punishment.
The word “cane” alone (or “Rohrstock”, as it is called in my native German language) evokes a lot of pictures and fantasies. It is almost a synonym for “school corporal punishment”.
I did not get caned growing up, but my brother did. My sister had one taste of it, too, and some friends of mine also did, some even quite regularly.
When I use the cane today, and I only use it for the gravest offences, I relish in the thought of using such a time-proven device of correction. Even those who have only one single time tasted the bite of the rattan will not ever forget it, nor will they forget the lessons taught with its help.

The cane, even with its current demise in most parts of Europe and the UK, does still see widespread use in Asia and Africa, both in parental and school discipline.