3.30 Monday Diary

0ff 06:30
Home 7:15.
Feed the d&c.
Hit the toilet.
Removed the device that had been bugging me all night, and reinforced in my head a decision about that...
Fixed my DM, and took it into the bedroom to eat, while watching Justified.
By which time She was awake, had gone into the packet I brought home from the office.
We talked about health insurance.
I sent a text to Kt to STOP TEXTING ALREADY, I AM SLEEPING, and to sleep nineish.
Up once to P, I think.
Up 1735
Toilet, shower, dress
And told Her, I'm doing no more bdsm-related stuff, until I can say I am "good".
Her husband? For sure.
Her slave/slub/submissive/play partner? Not now, not til I feel better.
Had a text from Office, saying Van Halen was doin a concert, jamming up Hollywd Blvd, so I got going.
Kiss Her GB
Rolling 1825
Good time, w 1915.
 My first evening working with TNKOTB, KW, and deadly slow, so no problem.

H s l S 726
H s l O 879
H s L F/me 727
H s L F/her 239
Her DO and hours since N/238
Hr L/unl. 18/16
Day s l C  124

3.29 Sunday Diary

M and Kt talked and played, for, I don't know how long.
She asked if I thought I would be playing, I thought not.
She asked if I wanted to go. I said yes.
We grabbed bags, got 4 of us in car, and headed home, sort of.
First dropped HLB off, then popped into a Spires.

Home 0345.
Cleanup the house a bit.
Bed 0415.
By noon She was offering me a pill and water.
I got up, sat in the living room a bit.
1415, toilet, shower, installed the new black CB 3000, dressed..
Sunshine wanted to see it, fine.
Packed, etc in car, 14:55.
Horrid traffic, at work 1600
Sunday 183 rides, 93 farm outs
Monday,  103 rides, 10 farm outs So Far

Yearly health insurance renewal: if I keep mine as is, it goes up $214 / month, effective May 1, not counting dental & vision.
My company is making across the board 10% salary cuts to every employee, effective pay period beginning April 6.

H s l S 702
H s l O 855
H s L F/me 703
H s L F/her 215
Her DO and hours since N/214
Hr un/l 69/10

Day s l C  123

3.28 Saturday diary

Inside 0030
Dinner, watched Scorpion.
She started watching Tammy, I was trying to sleep, 0230.

Up, P & S, 430.

Up, 1300

In chair, napping.
Discussed $ with Her, and paid minimum on two credit cards.
Out, fixed fence, again. Donna is quite the escape artist.
Cleaned out my car, transporting 4 to the party.
Changed work bag.
Finished chess game 
Packed party bag.
Dinner.
Shower, dressed.
Sunshine enjoyed dressing as a Black Powder Puff Girl.
We battened down the hatches in the house.
3 of us departed, around 9
We picked up HLB, headed for RSD.
Dropped him at the restaurant, went on to the BoD.
We checked in, and hung out.
My tummy was screaming.
Kt arrived 23:30 or so.
I suggested to Merry "give him a tour" and She said, "I'm going to talk to him first" and gave me a look that said, Don't give me your suggestions ever" and THAT ended any thoughts I had about playing that night.

H s l S 678
H s l O 831
H s L F/me 679
H s L F/her 191
Her DO and hours since N\190
Hr UN 55
Day s l C 122

3.27 Friday Diary

Home 2:00.
My take, $59.41
Dinner, til 3
Bed, 03.20
AwaKe 08:30
Pee and Pill
Fed all
In chair.
M up, 09.
Updated email
Water back on.
All dishes done.
Sat at table, going over bills, while M paid the utilities.
Sorted notebook, sorted bills, created a bill sheet.
M went to the market, I went back to bed, 14:30.
She came home, joined me, 1600.
Alarm off, 1630.
Dozed a bit, decided to not go out until sundown.
Up 19:00, got ready, 
Car 1945, got a ride in two minutes.
Thought it was gonna be a good night.

After sitting in one spot for 90 minutes, I headed home, and off duty 00:10 .
$33.07 for 4+ hours.

H s l S. 654
H s l O 807
H s L F/me 655
H s L F/her 167
Her DO and hours since n, 190
Hr un. 55
Day s l C 122

3.26 Thursday Diary

Awake 400 for peanut butter and cookies.
Awake 0500 with nasty acid reflux.
Alarm 0730, and I called the surgery center, told 'em I would not be there and why.
10 awake asleep
11 awake asleep
1300 up, moved to living room, sleeping in my chair.
1600 poop no. 1
Talking etc
Poop no. 2
Stitch home, I took his phone
Started getting ready
Poop no. 3
I showed Sunshine how worthless for security the pink silicone CD was, and took it off.
Packed bags, made iced coffee, headed out to the car.
Went straight to a 76 to fill up.
On duty 1817
First pick up 8626 Firestone .
I passed it twice following GPS, then figured out for myself, it was a Ralphs.
Picked up a guy, took him home, 4.10
A bit later, another pickup in Downey, a block north of Firestone. Took him to some recreation park, 6.10
A bit later, a pickup in a large shopping center in Southgate. Took her home to City Terrace. An adventure because Cesar Chavez off the 710 was c!osed. I got off at Valley, she did not know the way from there, Waze to the rescue... 21.75. I then drove back into Downey.
One more pickup for a young girl off work at a fast food restaurant, Downey, local.  4.05
A long dead spell spent catching up on blogs on the Tablet.
Headed home to pee and get an e-cig filter out of my car.....




H s l s 630
H s l O 783
H s L F/me 631
H s L F/her 143
Her DO and hours since No, 146
H l-un 17-7
Day s l C 120

3.25 Wed Diary and Thought for the Day

Off work 859, and headed to Brbk.
Circled the block a couple times, found a great, free parking place.
Signed in ,0940, was shown in 5 min. later for EKG, which took ten minutes. Was given paperwork for a blood test.
Out the building, down the path, across the street, and into a first floor suite. Blood draw took ten minutes.
On the way out, I saw I had voicemail from a local number.
I listened to it, then called this Monica back, to confirm what I heard, this endoscopy required a $400 co-pay.
At her suggestion, I called patient services for my insurance company and got the same answer.
I called her back... And she offered to take post dated checks, two weeks apart.
I headed home, arriving at 1142.
Meal was peanut butter on cookies.
I slept in my chair a bit, then moved into the bedroom.
She wokebup around 4:30, saying the water was shut off.
I got up, started filling half gallon bottles with water from the trickle still coming from the kitchen sink.
Stitch arrived home, and I snagged his phone to finish registering on LYFT
Merry got scared, and Sunshine took over, and made dinner, taquitos and rice.
I ate, in my chair, and moved into the bedroom, in time to watch CSI - Cyber, then two eps of The
Following from DVR.
She then channel surfed, and had Pretty in Pink on when I went to sleep, 0130.

H s l S 606
H s l O 759
H s L F/me 607
H s L F/her 119
Her DO and hours since no/118
Hr L. 30
Day s l C 119

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3.24 Diary and Thought for the Day

.In car 6:48,  home 740.
I fed the cats and the dogs and filled and started the dishwasher.
In the bedroom, I was looking for something that would work as a 'stand' for my cell phone...
She woke up, and started talking to me.... 
And told me, 
  "..after your shower, whenever it is, I want you to put on a device..."
After a long hesitation,  enough so that She asked, "You have something to say...?"
And I said, "Why..?"
"Because... I like chastity, you like chastity,  you have not been wanting to have sex...so it seemed like a good time.."
After a minute, or two, I said something like,"Okay  ... maybe I will..."    
   I had a chat with myself on the way to work, and came to some understanding of my reaction, which I'll get into at the end of this..
  So, I went and prepped my Daily Meal, and came back into the bedroom...and started looking at what was on the DVR, thinking I'd watch something.
 But something was missing.... for reasons unclear, Scorpion had not recorded, though I did see that it was a new episode.  
All that took so much time, that there was no sense in trying to watch something else.  
Done with breakfast, to sleep 1015.
At some point She was up and out and off to meet with a friend.

Woke up 1400ish, to pee and have a snack (cookies) and saw a text from DB, saying  "Hey, TH is MIA (no show) ..can you come in at 1830..?"
I responded, "No, I don't think I  can be up and moving in time."

Alarm went off 1730, I sat up and sent Merry a text, saying "I'm up."
She replied that She had tried to call Stitch several times.
I went into the living room, found his phone...four missed calls from Merry within 20 minutes: he had the ringer all the way down.
SO, toilet... shower...  fit a chastity device on... dressed in sox and briefs... in the bedroom, took a selfie, showing the number on the plastic lock, and sent it to Her in a text... and dressed, made coffee...as She came walking in the door ....  chewing bubble gum!? Oh, it was Sunshine, who said that Bree had bought for her,  Hello Kitty bubble gum.
I kissed her, hello and goodbye and headed on out the door.
In car 1835...
At work 1930, and straight to the toilet.
I thought I was feeling constipated, but I was cured, for sure.

So TH, the guy with whom I had been discussing Lyft, was indeed MIA... no show to work and no call, and DB was there.
On my shift, TH finally checking in with DB by text, apologetically saying, he just screwed up.
I still don't understand how... he can NOT call for 7 hours after his scheduled start time,  but I think DB told him, this was the one and only time he would allow this to happen.
DB cut out, around 2100--2130, as he was coming back for his regular shift at 0900.

Tuesday  111 rides,  38 farmed out
Wednesday  152 so far!  24 farmed out, so far!   Oy.

So, what was going through my head, this morning, when She said, "I want you to lock it up..."  ?
I was tired ..hungry... and caught by surprise.  I'm usually not very good in handling spontaneous... anythings.  
Some warning would perhaps assuage my hurt butt?
By 'some warning', I mean ... a couple days or more. 
Such as:  On a Wed or Thurs or Fri, if She were to announce, "On Sunday, I want you locked up before you go to work."
  I think that would work well for me.
  Doesn't have to start on a Sunday, that just works as it leads into my 'work week'.  
  Another example: On a Tuesday morning, She could announce, "Thursday, at noon, I want you locked up."
The exact days don't matter, those were examples to say:  gimme two days notice, more or less.  Exactly 48 hours not so important, as  one full day in between.  IE, call me at work Monday night (or send a text), stating:  "When you get home Wednesday.." or  "When you go to bed Wednesday night..."
No need to announce a duration time.  I suspect we'll both know when we're ready to get it off, then get it on.
Of note on this pink one:  no security.  None. It's too flexible, and allows easy pullout from the back, by lifting it up.  It only works symbolically by me knowing, I'm wearing this because She wants me to wear it, that I am chaste because She wants me to be chaste.  
So, note to Her and me:  remove this one, try the other one.

H s l S  582
H s l O  735
H s L F/me  583
H s L F/her  95
Her DO and hours since:  No, 94 hrs
Day UN  120 d, 18 h; L 6 h
Day s l C 118

3.23 monday Diary and Thought for the Day

...
Off work  0650.
HOme 735.
Took out some trash bags of yard clippings.
Inside, fed Cookie, then three cats, then Bobo and Donna.
Emptied the dishwasher.
Thought about having Merry BAN Stitch altogether from EVER doing dishes...he just doesn't get it.
Cleaned the pots and pans around the sink.
Changed yet again one of my carry all bags...
Put together Meal.
In the bedroom, starting watching Shameless.
Merry woke up, towards the end of it.
She stayed awake with me, while I watched Comic Book Men, featuring the cast going to a KISS concert.
Turns out this was not the season finale, there was another half hour ep that I did not record, but it's coming up again Friday morning, so I'll catch it then.
Sleep, around 10...

Awake around 1400, to P ... take a Pill, say Good Bye to Her as She was off to run some WS business.
Back to bed..

And awake with a start 1830.  When I shoulda been up 1745.
My phone showed several missed calls from Her... I had the volume ALL the way down.
I hurried dressed and prepared to leave, as She came in the door.  She gave me a quick run down of Her travels, and we kissed a Good bye.
I was in my car, rolling 1850.
Arrived at work 1923.
Wow.
...   
Monday.... 123 rides, we farmed 54.
Tuesday ... 97 to start,  13 already farmed.
  The fun is non stop.

Spoke to TH a bit about the whole Lyft thing.  
No new information to speak of, while I'm waiting on final approval, after a background check, to go to work.

Which came by way of email, at 2:00 Tuesday morning.
I can't log into Lyft and update my profile or anything, because I need Stitch's phone, because if I try to log in, a text with a verification code is sent to his phone.
 It'll wait, because it has to.

H s l S  558
H s l O  711
H s L F/me 559
H s L F/her  71
Her DO and hours since  No/70
Day UN 120
Day s l C  117

3.22 Diary and Thought for the Day

We watched Red Dragon.
Red Dragon is the 2002 movie based on the book. Manhunter is the 1986 movie.
She fell  asleep.
I then watched the last ten minutes of Sin City, then all of Our Man Flint.
Asleep 04:30.
Both of us aroused by Donna, yapping at 06:30.
Merry had words to say to Stitch about letting her out, that early in the morning.
She said goodbye to me as She was leaving, around ten, I think
I was awake at 11:30 long enough to take a Pill.
She called at 13:30,  to make sure I was up, and by then I was.
Up and dressed, and said hello and goodbye to No.2Son,
In my car 14:30, with the low fuel light on, so had to stop for gas.
Traffic jammed on the 202, 
At work 15:55.
Did set up for Monday.
Out of 125 rides Sunday, we farmed 62.
I farmed 18 just to get work covered to about 11 in the morning.
I played chess-by-text with my new best friend, who was bored at his job as security guard.
I found out it would cost out of pocket, $1017 to keep my health insurance, if I leave this job.

H s l S 534
H s l O 687
H s my l F 535
H s Her l F 45
D in 119
D s l C. 116
H s H l DO 46

3.21 Saturday Diary and THought for the Day

We continued watching two EPs of Rizzoli and Isles (finale until June) then She whipped out the leather slapper, and said, "Give me fifty". I pulled down Her panties and obliged.
We discussed Her idea of a c4s studio with role reversal, an idea that needs much more discussion, then She tuned the TV to The Princess Bride, so I could see the first 15 minutes, and I watched the whole movie...
And bedtime 03:00.

Up 10:00ish, and She started on Crepes and pancakes.
I decided I could not go working for Uber using a tablet device with no phone capability,
And with Stitch's permission, borrowed his phone and downloaded the Lyft app.
And applied.
Then I prepped to go outside for lawncare.
My mentor to be called, to set an appointment.
We settled on 18:00.
I continued with the yard until I ran out of string, then packed up, and enlisted Stitch's help to clean and wash Merry's car.
Then I showered and dressed and shoved off.
I arrived in Irvine about 8 min past 6 which irked me to no end.
Until he told me he had no show recruits on Friday and Saturday morning.
The rest of the inspection and interview went off without a hitch.
I headed home, and spent the entire ride from Irvine to Long Beach figuring out how to send a text to Merry from my new phone.
Home, lasagna for dinner, while texting my new best friend Ktk about the jobs, and and ongoing chess game.
Then we headed to the bedroom as She has an early up on Sunday.
I updated Friday, and input Saturday, as She went to sleep with Red Dragon on TV.

H s l S 510
H s l O 639
H s l F4her 21
H s l F4me 511
D in 118
D s l C. 115
Her DO yes

3.20 Friday Diary and Thought for the Day

Up late morning, She provided my first Pill.
Up and in my chair and playing with the new devices.
She departed to pick up Babyman to bring him home until Monday.
I began the process of registering with Lyft and quickly discovered, my devices are incompatible with the Lyft app.
So I started the registration process with Uber.
That's an incomplete.
More on that tomorrow when I go in person.
Merry came home with Babyman from a market and started dinner.
I started watching the Glee finale.
Dinner was served during.
I cried a lot, towards the end.
Not sadness, but happy endings.
Started watching Agents of Shield, while Merry was waiting for #2 to arrive at our house with a car on a tow truck.......(22:50)

I watched Archer, then joined me for Comic Book Men....


H s l s 486
H s l O 639
H s l F 487
D un 117
D s l C. 114
D s HLDO. 1

3.19 Thursday Diary and Thought for the Day

7:30 Up to take care of dogs and take a Pill, back to bed.
Merry got up....pulled the leather flapper, got on the bed over me, bared Her bottom, and asked for a warm up.
Well gee what else could I do?
Once the middle of Her cheeks were a Rosy red, I thought She took that so well, she deserved a reward, and I put Her on Her back and gave Her  DO orally.  Usually this would be enough to interest other parts of my body into action, but my gut has just been aching so much lately.
Up and moving, 13:00
We showered together, then dressed, and got in my car and headed off to a VZW where I had pre ordered an HTC phone.
Some hours later, we headed home with a new HTC Windows phone for me, along with a VZ tablet, and a Moto Droid for HerWe both had a lot of set up to do.
And we were leaving for the LICK munch in an hour.
We got out of the house at 6, and arrived at 6:30.
We took seats at a table directly across from KtK and subM.
KtK wanted to talk about User and Lyft and chess and dungeon play.
I have no idea what subM talked about, I can never understand him.
Then we listened to an engaging speaker, f-J talking about service,
And around 2100 it was time to go.
We arrived home where some idiot had locked the wooden front door, much delaying Merry's egress, but She made it to the toilet without incident.
Almost straight to bed, and we watched The Following.
I think we were both ready to sleep, yet we spent time tinkering with our devices.
Sleep 02ish

H s l s 462
H s l O 615
H s l F463
D un 116
D l ci. 113

3.18 Wednesday Diary and Thought for the day

Off  9:11, home  9:35.
Animals fed.  Found out She had stayed up to 8:30 fed the animals THEN went to bed.
I took a Pill, went to bed 1015.
UP 1115, to P and see WTF the dogs were barking about...  had a peanut butter n graham cracker snack... and went back to bed.
Up around 1430 to P.
UP to stay,  1800.
She was out to the market with Stitch.
I took a P,  caught up on Fetmail...  
She and he came home,  She started dinner...
I started laundry....  
She left to go get marshmellows....  sigh....
I input blogs for Monday, Tuesday, half of Wednesday.......  
   .....   03.18.15  20:20....
Continued 3/20Into the bedroom, watched CSI-Cyber.
Dinner served around 10.
Then watched Episodes finale, and Shameless, and Justified.

3,.17 Tues Diary and Thought for the day

Off work  636, and home  723.

Fed 'em all, and to bed 745.
Up around 10 for P & S, and back to bed.

Up 1245 ...very hot again...  and changed bedrooms.

UP 1745.
Merry had gone with Stitch to the market.
I moved my car from the street to the driveway....
And changed one bag from medium to large to accommodate the four newspapers I was taking.  
Then toilet, shower, dry, dress....
She arrived home..
I kissed Her Goodbye..and departed 1830.
Arrived 1925.

What a fuckin' night.
Farming my ASS off to cover rides for the night, then doing the same for the next days' work....     

Managed to speak a few more words with T about Lyft-driving but not very many.

Merry told me that She got notification the MistressIvey was buying Her story submissions from, oh,  four weeks ago, which kinda pissed me off.
What about MY submissions?

Before I'm ready to go Lyfting, I gotta upgrade my phone before I download the app. I've been long eligible for the upgrade, I just haven't gotten around to it.
SO, now it's time: I selected one on line....   had to contact Merry for a credit card number....took hours for Her to get back to me, because She had gone to sleep...
But She did call back, and I got it done.   
Now I can go pick it up in Courson, anytime.  
(Looks like, Thursday).

Spent the rest of the night at work avoiding porn sites  by reading newpapers, researching  Lyft vs Uber,  and so on.

H s l S  414
H s l O  567
H s L D  415
D UN  114
Days since Her DO  7
D s l C  111

3.16 Monday Diary and THought for the Day

Off work  611, and home  646.
Fed the animals, took a Pill, and was in bed 07:30.
Awake 0900 to P, and get somethin' to eat (Fudge covered graham cookies, and peanut butter).
Back to bed...
Starting to get HOT, and got up to move to the other bedroom.
The other bed kinda forces me to lay flat, which was inconvenient for my stomach, and I moved into the living room, to sit/recline in my chair. 
And up,  1640.  
Toilet, and shower, and dress...
Said Goodbye, and in car 1735, as I had a scheduled meeting with the Ops Manager at 1830.
I arrived 1825.
He was waiting in the small office adjacent to the Dispatch room.
I went in and sat down, and he gave me a brief overview of "the state of the company"
That was all well and good.
Then he said, "And on a personal matter.... all companies have filters....  it is known that you have accessed adult sites on the computer.... just clean it up and stop it, and nothing else will be said."

OH.

Then, to work.

Not a bad shift at work.
And somehow, in came out that my co worker at the time, T, was a driver for Lyft in the hours he wasn't working here.
I had been thinking about Uber, but this opened a new window to this thought.  We had several hours for him to tell me about it.
My research discovered that my car wouldnot qualify (out of state plates) so to do this, I would have to use Merry's.  
So, I would need Merry's permission.  
I spoke to Her about it.... and after T left for the night, continued research into Lyft-vs-Uber.  
 Turns out, She was doing the same thing....was up all night, reading every word on the Lyft website..... and ultimately, gave me Her approval to get on with it.

3.15 Sunday Diary and Thought for the Day

8:45  Awake for Pee and pill.
 Back to sleep, off and on and off and on.
12:00 up for toilet.
13:50 UP and toilet and showered and dressed, and toilet...
  Put together a big drink of Mtn Dew and RdBull and ice and water...    got my bags together, took 'em out to Her car, got my phone charger and other bag out of my car, put 'em into Hers, came back in and said, "Good bye..."
  Thermometers showed 82 degrees in the living room...

 In car, 1435.
At work  1525.

For Sunday, we had 142 rides, and farmed 76.
For Monday, starting with 118, and I farmed 26 just to get through the morning.  

H s l S   365
H s LO   519
H s l F   366
Days UN  112
Her Do  NO
Another day of intense abdominal pain?  Yes
Day s l C  109

3.14 Saturday Diary and Thought for the Day

7:00 up for P & I
She got up around 0900...
  and later told me, "Score one for Rob".
She brought me coffee..
I got up, 11:15
Hit the toilet, showered, dressed...
Got myself ready, She got ready...
We got into Her car, me driving...1230.
First off to K-HC for Babyman's various meds.
I found a text on my phone from my work supervisor, asking if I can come in Monday at 1830 (instead of 1930) for a meeting with the Ops Manager.
This had both of us in a small panic, 
 So I called the Supervisor on the phone, while She went into the pharmacy, so see if he could talk about what was going on.... he said, the OM is meeting with everybody one on one like this, as a 'state-of-the-company one-on-one.'
Well, okay.
I went inside, to wait with Her.
She was at the check out line, had gathered rx's and we were leaving. She checked the receipt, and turned around and went back to see why She had been charged for something that She should not have been.
She got the charge returned.
She realized She did not have Her important ATM card with Her, so we had to go back home.  She called Stitch, at home, a dozen times, until he answered, to have him find the card...he did...and meet us out front when we arrived, to give it to us.
He didn't answer the phone when we arrived, and She had to go to the front door to get it.
At 1345, we were rolling to go to the PSC Munch that was 75 miles away, and started at 15:00.
We made pretty good time for awhile.... then hit a fustercluck on the EB 91, that took a good long time to get through, and included additional custerflucking on the SB 15, that eventually cleared up, and we arrived at the restaurant at 1530.  She had been texting back and forth with Her newest friend on FL, as it was this person's first munch, and was very nervous about it.
Of the twelve people there, two were the new couple Merry just met,  and Merry knew five others.   
I sat at a corner of a long rectangular table, with Merry to my left, so I couldn't hear anything, as usual, but I guess we had a good time.
After this particular munch, there is invariably a pay-to-play party at one person's private residence, but we didn't have the money, and had other ideas.
We left there around 1515, and headed for Pechanga.
We parked, and wandered around, and Merry dabbled in penny slots ... and once we had an appetite again, we dined at the buffet..
Sunshine joined me,  as we worked through the choices and plenty of chocolate.
Sunshine wanted to play some more before we left, and we wandered around the slot machines until she decided she had enough, and we headed out.
Some twenty miles up the NB 15, she decided she had enough, and leaned back to take a nap.
Somewhere along the 91, Merry woke up.
We continued, heading down the 55,  and saw closure signs for the 405.
Alertly, Merry told me to get into the carpool lane...and make sure, I got in for NB 405, not SB.
I did so, and we zipped past the accident that had closed the regular lanes of the 405.
Off at Beach, and I drove on down to the PBS's house, and Merry got out, and placed the sack of Rx's in the back yard, and sent the PBS a text, saying She had done so.
We continued towards home.
Somewhere in LB, we stopped for gas, and She got out to pump, as I was afraid if I got out and stood up, I'd have an accident in my pants.
We continued on home, arriving at 00:30.
So, I missed 'Steak and BJ Day'.  I had steak, for sure,  and She offered a BJ, but I said, it's too late, that would be like celebrating New Year's Day on the 2nd.
After trips to the toilet, we fell into bed..
And watched 'The Following.'
Still not exhausted, we also watched 'Elementary'. 
Then, to sleep,  0300.
H s l S  341
H s l O  495
H s l F   342
D un   111
Her DO  no
Still sick/stomach pain?  Yes
Days no CI  108

3.13 Friday Diary and Thought for the day

0900 ish  awake... 
   She got up and took care of the animals...
  Stomach still one big pain....
Up noonish, and in my chair...
Dressed, and both of us out in my car,  1430.
To 'my' bank for a withdrawal, which She deposited in 'our' bank,while I went to the other bank to make the house payment.
Then, at my suggestion, to Von's since we were out anyway...
Then Sunshine was with me, and suggested getting ice cream at Rite-Aid...  which we did...then stopped at a 99c store on the way home... 
And home, and unloaded, and unpacked...
And I picked up some trash in the bedroom,  and scooped the litter box..
And sat in my chair for a nap...
then up to fix the screen flap on the dog door...
And made a first attempt at fixing the slightly broken other easy chair in the living room..
Updated blogs......and waiting for dinner,  2045..... 

Continuing while at work, Sunday night....
Dinner served 2200..
In the bedroom, watched  Archer and Rizzoli and Isles.
Sleep 2330.  

H s l S  317
H s l O  471
H s l F   318
D un  118
Consecutive days with a big pain in my gut  .. no less than 7
D s l C  107

Her DO  No

3.12 Thursday Diary and Thought for the Day

4:00 up P & S
8:00 UP  P only...
  Stomach really hurting....

UP and out of bed 14:00.
Just to sit in my living room chair.
UP, and sorted dishes, loaded dishwasher...
Went through newspapers, and my clippings.
Boiled water for iced tea...
Showered and dressed..
And in car 1830, headed for 2nd Thursday Scrabble.
Arrived 1900.
She was supposed to go to a WSoJ meeting...and called me during my first game,to say, Her car had been broken into.
Actually, no, She had left it unlocked, so it had been  .... rummaged through.  She had called the police who said, they don't come out for car break-ins.'
Well,Her night was messed up.
I continued....
I placed 2nd of 3 on my first game, and moved to the winners' table, where the first two of the other game waited for myself and the winner of my game.
We played one game rather quickly, I placed 3rd out of four, and had time for another, and I placed 2nd of four...
And I was on my way and home 9:40.
I took a flashlight and peered into Her car...then went inside...
And began putting together dinner....  cutting up leftover chicken, and heating it with rice.   
Then in the bedroom, I watched Agents of Shield, Justified, and Scorpion, then She came in and together we watched The Big Bang Theory.
To sleep, 0230.

H s l S  293
H s L O  457
H s L F  294
DAYS un 109
HER Do  NO
Days since last c 106

3.11 Wednesday Diary and Thought for the Day

Off work and in car 0832.
Home 9:19.
She had already been up and around to feed the animals...
So I did dishes...loading the dishwasher, and prepared my Daily Meal,  and went in to the bedroom, to watch "Rizzoli And Isles" while eating.
Then to sleep.... 1030.
Up 15:00, P & I 
Back to sleep, and up 19:20. 
Caught up on email chess moves.
Dinner was served...
and watched "Shameless", "Criminal Minds", and then She joined me for  "Csi Cyber". and to sleep 23:15.

H s l S  269
H s l O  423
H s L F   270
Days UN  108
Her DO   No
Days s l CIG  105

310 Diary and Thought for the day

6:38 on my way home.
7:28 arrived home.

Feed the animals....
Figured out my Daily Meal...
Headed into the bedroom, and ate while watching Episodes. 
Asleep  08:30
12:00 Up for p & s.
15:00 Up again for p & s.
and Took a 'pill' and talked with Her awhile.
 And provided Her with a DO.
Got up and toilet, shower, dress...
Kissed Her goodbye...
1820 Car.
1925 at Work.

Minimal drama at work through out the night.

H s l S  245
H s l O  399
H s l D  246
D un 107
Her DO  Yes
D s l CI 104 

309 Monday, Diary and Thought for the Day

Off  0630 and in car...  
Home  0714.
Fed the animals...
Filled the dishwasher.
Went in to wake Her up, as She requested.
Went back to the kitchen to figure out my Daily Meal.  
In the bedroom, eating and watching Comic Book Men.
To sleep  0830.

Awake 13:00 P & S

Awake on and off through out the afternoon, as it was a bit warm in the bedroom.

UP 17:45.
She was out/gone, apparently taking Babyman home.
I had brought in laundry yesterday, was not putting it away.
She arrived home...
We talked a minnit...
Showered and dressed...
Kissed Her goodbye.
In car 1838.
Was making great time, then came up behind a multi car accident which closed two of four lanes, 200 yards before my off ramp.
Got around and past it, and off the 101.
At work 19:25.

Work for the night was tagged out.
I had to tweak it a bit, but otherwise was quiet enough.
I did some research on The Equinox, which has always been a subject of  my interest.
Then I did some research, at Her request, into chastity devices of a non-metallic substance, as She said She wants to 'lock me up' but still wants to be able to be spontaneous in removing the lock and getting friendly, which is not very easy to do with metal devices due to Her sensitivity.

H s l S  221
H s l O  3754
H s l D  222
Days UN  106
Her DO  NO
Days s l Cig  103

had to share this one:

3 08 SUNDAY Thought for the Day

UP 10:00  P & pill.
 My stomach or belly was just off.
 We talked for awhile.
 She suggested sex, suggested a spanking; I was in no mood for either.
  I wasn't sure about going to work, later on.
  I got up, long enough to move to my chair in the living room, and dozed, off and on.   
 She brought me an extremely doped cup of coffee (lots of cream and sugar)...I continued to doze.
And checked in with work, texting that I was moving ... very slowly...'
 By 15:00, I thought I could be mobile.
I showered and dressed, and packed... and kissed Her goodbye.

IN car 1536,  first stop, the 76 Gas,  about a mile due east of us.
THEN north to the 91-west on ramp, which was also the 710-north on ramp... and I was rolling.
Very slow going through the 5-101 interchange.
Arrived at work 1650.
With MT 'gone', DB was filling in Her previous Sunday shift, and by the time I arrived, he had already done the Monday set up.
Which left me, not much to do, other than watch the progress of the night's work, which still involved a huge amount of farming.
Sunday break down...  122 rides on the day, we farmed 62.

Hrs s l S  197
Hrs s l O  349
Hrs s l Fun 198
Days UN  105
Days s L c 102
Her DO  No
Days since Her last DO   8

307 Saturday Thought for the Day

UP 01:00, P & S
Up  05:00, P & S

UP 08:30.  Stitch had fed the animals.
So, some coffee...and dressed...and outside,
Cleaning up the mess of a yard.
 With Stitch's and Babyman's help... raking and sweeping and picking up branches, it did not seem like it took too terribly long.
Merry made orange, and cinnamon, rolls... I had a few while reading the paper.
And I took a nap.
Awake 1330... toilet, shower, dressed, 
 And in the bedroom.
Watched one ep of Rizzoli & Isles,  then She came in to join me for The Big Bang Theory and Elementary, then She started getting ready and I watched a 2nd ep of Rizzoli & Isles.  
Then we both got dressed, and headed out to Her car.
I drove, up to Brb, and visited my long time friend GG,  then we went to a Polyamory Group meeting at the Fuddruckers in B DT B.  We left there ...oh 2230, and arrived home 23:15.
We went nearly straight to bed.
Sunshine turned on the t.v. and tuned it to 'Kill Bill Volume 2',  and promptly fell asleep.
I watched the whole thing, and accounting for the DST spring-ahead time change, I went to sleep around 3 a.m.

3.06 Friday Diary thought for the day

01:00 UP for P & S
05:00 UP again for P & S
09:30  UP ..  fed the critters.
Toilet.
Chatted via text with MT.
On Merry's computer a bit.
Dressed in outside clothes.
Went out and moved/whipped the strip outside the fence on both sides of the house,  and the triangle strip on the southeast corner of the house.
I fixed the fence, while continuously having Donna test it.
Then I began whacking down the thorn bushes that were growing over the sidewalk.
Then I began to clean up, and went inside.
Merry took Babyman with Her to the market.
I got into the hot tub to soak for an hour.
I got out... 
 and read some papers.
And showered/dried/dressed.. as they returned.
I sorted my tool boxes...and went into the bedroom.
I watched Agents of Shield.  
Dinner was served.
I watched Justified.
ANd went to sleep around 2200.

305 Thursday Diary/Thought for the DaY

01:30, up for P & S
0520 , up for P & S ...and the bathroom was occupied.
 0915...Merry got up and fed the animals. 
 I took my stomach med.
Together we watched CSI-Cyber and The Following.

We stripped the bed, got all the bedclothes in the washer.
I scooped, we moved into the living room.
I did my notebook thing,  studied some chess moves from my correspondence-by-email partner, read from The Science of Mind,  then we dressed, I went out and cleaned the windshield of my car, then we got in Her car,  stopped at a 7-11 for some e-cig filters for me, then continued on to HuBch to pick up Babyman...and headed back, stopping at the Vons 2.5 miles from us, where I had a misadventure trying to find the bathroom inside the store.
Then we went back home.
And Merry inspected the receipt, and saw we had been charged twice for one pork roast, and we got back in Her car and returned to Von's, got a cash refund, then went back home.  
I fixed the chest of drawers in the other bedroom, again,  dealt with some chess game moves, went to my bedroom until dinner was served, and watched Suits and fell asleep around 22:00.

HslS  125
HsLO 277
HslD  126
Days UN  102
Days sl C  99

3.04 Wednesday Diary

Off work and in car:  8;37
Home:  9:40.
...fed all the animals...  emptied the dishwasher..boiled water for another pitcher of iced tea...  put together my daily meal, and skimmed three newspapers... put together yet another daily notebook.
In the bedroom, as Merry was awakening, we talked about PBS and having  Babyman come to our house for the weekend ...
And to sleep, I went  1130
Up, 15:40, for P & S.
And in the bedroom, watching Comic Book Men.
Back to sleep, 1715.  and up, 1945. 
Watched Gotham.
And Criminal Minds.
Dinner was served, 2130.   
Watched CSI Cyber.
and to sleep, 2330.

3.03 Tuesday Diary and Amusement for the day

Off work and in car 6:43... home 7:32.
Fed the critters.
Sunshine was just awake, and I asked her if there was any dinner for me.
She referred me to the small fridge, and a small pork chop therein.
I had a bit of a tantrum about how I eat one meal a day, and how did anyone expect THIS to suffice as enough.
...totally unnecessary on my part, I could have, and did, add to it...
Anyway, I heated it up, with the leftover rice'n'beans, along with bread, and returned to the bedroom with it on a tv tray, and watched "Episodes" while eating.
After a further discussion, I went to sleep around 8:30.
UP 1300 or so for P&S, and She was still next to me, watching a movie.
At one point I felt Her hand brush over my belly as I lay on my back, and I barked at Her for waking me up.
Not that I cared that much about that incident, I was still aggravated about the earlier incident.
UP 1745, and She was still in bed, watching a movie.
I hit the toilet, took a shower,  dressed, talked to Stitch who was adamant about NOT bringing in the Donna-food from the garage because, he claimed, SHE had told him not to....  kissed Her goodbye, and was in my own car 1830.
Arrived at work 19:29.

My last night at work with MT,  who has one more shift Wednesday night, but I'll be home.
Other than one flight into Burbank at 2200, that I had serious doubts about my driver making it to on time  (he did, he said he was standing inside waiting for all of 15 seconds when the passenger came out, apologizing and hoping he didn't have to wait long because the flight was delayed)
and delayed flights from NY, that came in at 01:30, 02:30, and 03:20 respectively, resulting in some chauffeurs staying out a bit longer than they are accustomed ...
It was an easy night.
Spent some time on FL, chatting with Her, while She composed Her newest "Things about Me" list....
And otherwise not too exciting.

H s l S  77
H s l O  229
H s l F  78
D UN  100
D s l C  97
Her DO  No



AMUSEMENT for the day:

February Statistics Blah Blah

1  Stitch scores
4   We get friendly
 3   My happy endings
 1  Party attended
 6  FUNishment sessions
 2  Videos recorded (one session, two cameras)
28  Days, no cigarettes ( and two months prior)

28 Days, no chastity (and two months prior)

3.02 Monday Diary and THought for the Day

OFF 6:15, in car 6:19.
A little bit of trouble staying awake on the freeway,  was traveling along Ten, and blew by the interchange for the SevenTen; missed it by a couple miles.
Home, 7:11.
I was seriously in the mood for something but at the same time, I was bugshit tired.  The four-legged furry ones were vocal about their hunger, and I fed them all, then prepped my own dinner, and took it with me into the bedroom, where She was still sound asleep,  and I ate, and watched "Shameless".
She woke up as it ended,  and we talked a bit, and I went to sleep, and She went back to sleep.
She got up later, as She had errands to run.
I left a note on Her desk, telling how much cash to withdraw from my account to put in our account, and She left home without it, and had to call me and ask me.  
I keep my phone on 'quiet time' during the day,  but when it's on a solid surface, it makes a loud enough noise by vibrating to get my attention, which it did.
Apparently, She had a bit of an adventure in the course of Her errands, having to do with Her exclamation of surprise when a banking machine gave Her two hundred ONE dollar bills, but that's Her story to tell.
She came home, which I knew, because She came in the front door, yelling at Stitch, something about, him NEVER answering his phone, such as this time when She called, asking him to come out and help with grocery bags.
Sleepus Interruptus, all day.
UP 17:45.
Talked with Her a bit, then I got in the shower, then dress, got ready.
Kissed Her good-bye, departed 1842.
Easy freeway driving, at work  19:25.

A very low-stress, non-demanding shift at work.

H s l S  53
H s l O 205
H s l D   54
D un   99
HER DO  N
D s l CI  96


Thought for the day:
(The idea of using the spare bedroom for a punishment room is very familiar to me, although at the time, we thought of it more as the PLAY room)

3 01 Sunday Diary and Thought for the Day

UP for P & S  0230 and 0540.

Awake, 10:00, and She was awake next to me, and we just  ... talked for awhile.
UP and out of bed 11:30, and She started breakfast.  
I ate and read the newspapers,  and started feeling queazy.
I went back into the bedroom, to finish the newspapers, and napped from 1 to 2.
THen up, and showered, dressed, packed, toilet.... toilet ...again.. 
A goodbye kiss to Her...
And in Her car  2:55
RAIN on the way to work
At work about 3:55.

Not a bad night
Some talk with MT, whose last night at this company will be coming Wednesday.

H s l S  29
H s l O  181
H s L D   30
DAY un 98
Day s l Ci  95
Her DO  NO


Thought for the day

2.28 Saturday Diary and thought for the day

UP 01:30  p& S, again 05:30
UP 09:00.  Stitch had taken care of the animals.
I gulped some coffee, got dressed in outside clothes, gather equipment, and went out front to begin mowing/whipping the inner front yard.
Stitch came out shortly to start raking behind me.
Once I was done whipping, and picked up a second rake, and we continued til it was done.
Then I gathered wire and began repairing the wire fence on the eastern edge of the house by the driveway.
And I thought I repaired the fence by the northern edge of the property at the back gate; come to find out later, Donna still managed to get out, later that evening.
I went in, and began a tool-rearrangement project.
Then I leveled the stove, which had been sitting at a slight slant for some time.
Then I tried to swap out printers, and install a newer one that Coco was gifting us, but I did not have a working power cord for it.
Then I worked on a pen-rearrangement project.
Then I spent an hour in the hot tub.
Then I showered and dressed...
And went with Merry in the bedroom.
After inquiring if I was up for up, and I said I was, I stretched over Her lap, and She applied 25 smacks of a light wooden spoon to my outer buttock, then had me rotate 180 degrees, to apply 25 smacks to the outer buttock.
Then we began fooling around,  and having a little sex.  
No happy ending for me, but it was still quite enjoyable.
We got up and out of the bedroom, around 7.
I went to the computer, long enough to download screencaps from the video onto a flashdrive.
I started laundry..
And went into the bedroom, for some TV.
"Suits"   then dinner, while watching "Justified"
Then Merry came in, and we watched "Gotham" and "The Big Bang Theory".. then we watched all of "Clerks II"
ANd asleep,  01:30.



Thought for the Day