Thursday, March 26, 2015

3.25 Wed Diary and Thought for the Day

Off work 859, and headed to Brbk.
Circled the block a couple times, found a great, free parking place.
Signed in ,0940, was shown in 5 min. later for EKG, which took ten minutes. Was given paperwork for a blood test.
Out the building, down the path, across the street, and into a first floor suite. Blood draw took ten minutes.
On the way out, I saw I had voicemail from a local number.
I listened to it, then called this Monica back, to confirm what I heard, this endoscopy required a $400 co-pay.
At her suggestion, I called patient services for my insurance company and got the same answer.
I called her back... And she offered to take post dated checks, two weeks apart.
I headed home, arriving at 1142.
Meal was peanut butter on cookies.
I slept in my chair a bit, then moved into the bedroom.
She wokebup around 4:30, saying the water was shut off.
I got up, started filling half gallon bottles with water from the trickle still coming from the kitchen sink.
Stitch arrived home, and I snagged his phone to finish registering on LYFT
Merry got scared, and Sunshine took over, and made dinner, taquitos and rice.
I ate, in my chair, and moved into the bedroom, in time to watch CSI - Cyber, then two eps of The
Following from DVR.
She then channel surfed, and had Pretty in Pink on when I went to sleep, 0130.

H s l S 606
H s l O 759
H s L F/me 607
H s L F/her 119
Her DO and hours since no/118
Hr L. 30
Day s l C 119

From Mistress Ivey's blog: 
Ladies, what kind of things do you think are fun (sexually speaking)? That is, do you enjoy receiving oral stimulation? Giving oral stimulation? Acting like a bitch and shouting orders to your submissive partner? Maybe you are more the type who enjoys embarrassing your partner and making him feel the humiliation?
My point here? If you are going to make your female dominated relationship work, you are going to have to find something that is fun for YOU! Maybe locking your guy in chastity then sexually teasing him for weeks (or even months) at a time is what gives you a thrill. It doesn't matter what you enjoy. What matters is that you make sure you are doing SOMETHING! Your partner is expecting his needs and/or desires to be satisfied, and only YOU can do that. So doing nothing will not work. Find out what is fun for you, and then use that to have fun with him.
If you were both open and honest in creating your agreement, then you stand a good chance of making your relationship a success. After all, isn't that what this is all about? Your relationship? Don't be afraid to try something new. After all, chances are, you have already reached a point where your male dominated relationship went stale. That is, it may have become boring, sex almost non-existent. This is YOUR chance to “fix” things.
Don't be afraid to talk to your partner about ANYTHING. Do some research. Find out what kinds of things other people are doing. Start out slow. Add things as you go. Experiment. Be brave. If your partner likes the idea of being cuckolded, but you just can't bring yourself to do that sort of thing, fake it. Get all dressed up. Go out. When you get home, tease your partner by telling him all about how you met this really well hung guy, and how you went to his place and he fucked your brains out. He won't know the difference unless you admit that you just went to your sister's house and watched TV.
If your partner wants to be publicly humiliated, tell him you are going to invite some friends over and you want him to serve you all, maybe wearing only his chastity device. Or maybe make him masturbate for you. You might be surprised how embarrassed he becomes just at the thought of doing that.
The best way to find out what your partner likes is to have him gather some captioned photos. The caption says it all. The photo is usually irrelevant. But you will find out what kind of Mistress he wants you to be. There is always a way for you both to be more sexually satisfied than ever before, if you are willing to work at it. But remember, it is supposed to be FUN!
Mistress Ivey

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