15th o September, Sunday, Diary Still in Ventura

0730 up ... poop... dress...
get coffee from front office...pills
made a CC list for Merry...
...250..20-b
shower, shv, dress
0945 in car with M, out to
 Alexanders for brunch   (FB)
sausage, bacon, potatoes, omelette, prime rib, ham
ooh free newspapers at front desk
 stop for ice on the way home
1210 room
Football...
  newspapers...WWF
Merry, out to Walmart, and Camarillo Outlets ...
 crossword puzzles...
1715, M home
 both us, up and out to see 
The Cross on the Hill (Serra Cross)(Grant Park Cross). (FB)
then to Camarillo, Wood Ranch Barbecue
2015 home
finish late game (Falcons o'r Eagles)
TBBT then 
bed / sleep, 2200 

OUR 6th Wedding Anniversary ; Saturday 9/14, diary: In Ventura

Happy Anniversary to my beloved, Merry 
0830 up
 coffee from the lobby, and chat
0930  ... 193... 20-B
1030 to Denny's in Oxnard, FB check in
1055 10-N
 55+ omelette, potatoes, muffin
drive around Oxnard
Park and walk
  Starbucks!
Back in car, drive to Main St Ventura, park and
Archaeology Museum (FB) then
San Buenaventura Mission (FB)
and I rested in car while M shopped on Main Street then
she returned to car, found closer parking, and we shopping in an antique store 
more driving
Taco Bell for M
Motel
 Football  OU v UCLA, while Merry napped
M awake at halftime of a blow out, so dressed
in car and out
Busy Bee Diner  (facebook)
10-N
BBQ cheeseburger, potato wedges, banana split, choc ice cream
2100 back at room
"10 things I hate about you"
sleep...

Friday the Thirteenth of September Diary, headed to Ventura

0745
 more packing, check laundry
...197, 20-B, pills
fill pill case
computer banking
0930 Merry, up
10:00 out to Enterprise
1040, me home...
1100 M home with rental, H. Elantra
packing....
1230 on the road 36694
1320 stop in WLA for a rest room
later while rolling along, text from PBS showed that M's 2nd ex-hub/father of her children ... got married to his long time nasty gf today...
1455 arrive Ventura 36774
Check in to Motel 6
 then
Tour
Drove by the house on Halifax that I lived in 10th grade
then the house I lived in on Drexel, 11th grade
then the route I rode my bike on, during 11th grade to school
then the high school I attended
1600 parked on the downtown section of Main street
1610 Dad called...."Where are you?" He  always asks that when he calls, makes sure I'm not behind the wheel, or napping...
"Walking down main street, in downtown Ventura.."
"WHAT are you doing they-er?"
Well. I told his wife, via chat in WWF that we were going to Ventura this weekend, but she did not tell him.... so I explained.
He really called to see what was going on with my doctors. SO I told him, AFTER the appointment on the 25th, I would start being scheduled for radiation treatments.
1615 sat down in Busy Bee Cafe   (FB checkin)
excellent pastrami on rye with coleslaw and potato salad and some of M's onion rings
1715 off to a Von's for ice for our ice chest, but I ...waited too long....  tried to find toilet in a Rite Aid, guard told me ...no public toilet..
so I ran into Von's but started on the South end, and the restroom was on the north end, and by the time I was directed to it... an explosion happened in my shorts.
Then on to motel, and a shower.
In bed, watched college football  ...Washington St Cougars vs Houston Cougars.
Notably, my high school mascot, for Ventura, were the Cougars.
UP to pee a few times
sleep on and off...

12TH O SEPTEMBER, THURSDAY DIARY

0600 UP, 2 fleet enemas..
read, WWF, fed D
0740 out with Merry...
to Rad.Clinic, met with Rosa
walked to main hospital, St Mary Med.Center...
paperwork...
undressed in a cubicle
to a private room with Rosa, another nurse and Dr Gates...
fiducial implant done
out 
dressed
back to RadClinic
made appointment for 09/25
Out 
7-11 for coffee
home 0920 (9790)
NAP to 1045
10-N, pbuttr, ham, cheese, crackers, 
nap
clothes, out of dryer
pack clothes in a suitcase
talked to Health Advo on phone
1400 start Avengers Endgame  to 1655
1400 Merry, up ...
1540 Stitch home
1700 Demo Debate to 1950-
Caro v TBB to 2110
1930 10N
stir fry n rice
pills
2115 bedroom
2230 up for a BBLS

Nine Eleven 19, Wednesday diary

0815 changed u & s
Fed D; bs 180, 20-B
icoff n pills
some diary entries
read and wwf
update dvr log
Batman 2:19-24
1220 cel n car
1225 Merry, up
1420 car to Walmart
 (meds, belt, wallet)
1510 home
1530 ARMADEDDON to 1800
Jeopardy x 3
1930 10-N
pork n pineapple n carrots
bedroom 2015 ...pills
2230 up for a BBLS 
sleeping ...

10th o September, Tuesday diary

00:30  BBLS
0900  change u & s
0920 bs 170, 20-B
ordered WM refill
Merry did a redo on my butt bandage
motel research
1220 to Walmart, get printer
1320 home 9773
M did motel research, paid
 and reserved a car rental
1430 start on  Printer
1500 M out with Ly to mnch
1600 to OD for more ink
1630 home back at it
1730, mission accomplished, on couch
1900 TBBT
1945 10-N
fried chicken n chips n chocolate
M to bedroom 2030
TBBt to 2045 then bedroom
2230, pee n back to bed
Merry up awhile...

9th o' September, Monday, Diary

0400 PB & Choc
0800 change u, BT, heat coffee
BS 209, 20-B, pills
some diaries..
talk to Sunshine
message to Dr Yeh re recent trip to hospital
WWF ...
Merry up 0930
got a response from Dr Yeh, so appointment for stitches removal on 9/17.
get mail
on couch talking; poke her again about her not going to service with me the day before
She got up  went to bedroom  slammed door.
I get up to follow and apologize, but the door was locked which infuriated me...
I pound on it, she opens it ... I told her, if I ever find it intentionally locked again, I WILL BREAK IT
Lay on bed to 1215
up...
speak to Health Advocate re them working for me to get SSDI aka title 2 of SSI
1500  talked to M about the argument 
1600 told M that tonight's football was a double header, and football would be on Thur, Fri, Sat, Sun, Mon and she got annoyed and went to the bedroom
Texans v Saints to 1930
Oak v Den to 2200
M up 1800
2000 10uN
tacos n home fries, n pills
2045 bedroom
2230 to sleep ...