9.09 on chastity the ten ruined orgasm challenge

This is a challenge for couples, in which he accepts to have all his orgasms ruined until all “10 ruined orgasms” are achieved. All the challenges must be completed before being allowed a real orgasm. The challenges can be done in the order of his choice but she chooses when he is allowed to take a challenge.

1 - Jerk off in front of her and let go of your cock as soon as you start cumming. You can cum on your own belly or on the floor…

2 - She must edge you with a blowjob. When you start to cum she will let your cock out of her mouth and faint to lick it…

3 - You must fuck her doggy style and ruin your orgasm on her ass…

4 - You must have a ruined orgasm outdoors. She Chooses how you will be stimulated and how it will be ruined…

5 - You must have 3 ruined orgasms in one hour with her help. If you fail, the challenge won’t be completed…

6 - Stand on your back. She will lick your cock until you explode. She must ruin it by licking only your balls while you are dripping on your belly…

7 - You must find a way to cum in her mouth or on her tongue with a ruined orgasm…

8 - Have a ruined orgasm while fully clothed. She will “dry-hump” you over your clothes and stop all stimulation when you will start cumming…

9 - Have a ruined orgasm after being teased and denied for at least 1 hour…

10 - You will be tied while she will tease you. Everytime you will be close to orgasm she will start to tickle you. As soon as you start cumming she will stop all cock stimulation and tickle you for a couple of more minutes…

8.29 on Chastity, ruined orgasms

The Art of The Ruined Orgasm #1

The advantage of the ruined orgasm is that it is one more tool to add to your bag of tricks for teasing and orgasm control.  You can tell your man that he is allowed to orgasm and then at the moment he is about to orgasm or as soon as it starts you release his cock.  

Incorporating this into your T&D keeps your man guessing about what to expect.  Not only will it be a mystery of when he can orgasm but now he won’t even know if it will be a full orgasm or ruined orgasm.  Ruining his orgasm also prolongs his denial period. He gets some release but not a full orgasm.  Therefore you can prolong the time frame of when he is allowed a full orgasm by slipping in a few ruined orgasms.

One final benefit is that it can be used as a punishment.  If your man has been naughty or simply not meeting your expectations, you can announce that the next orgasm (or next 2, 3, etc.) will be ruined.

The Art of The Ruined Orgasm #2

The most basic approach is to stroke his cock and then at the moment he first spurts you release his cock and let it twitch and spurt on its own.  He will experience very brief pleasure at the first spurt but then once you release and there is no friction the orgasm becomes ruined and he is left frustrated.  This is a good way to introduce him to the ruined orgasm.  

Another technique is to release his cock before he starts to cum.  This may take some practice because you have to anticipate when the orgasm is coming.  If you spend a considerable amount of time teasing your guy or if he has been denied an orgasm for a long period of time, this becomes easier to do.   

The Art of The Ruined Orgasm #3

Some variations to experiment:

• Announce the ruined orgasm ahead of time or surprise him
• Tell him to try and orgasm while you tease him or tell him try not to orgasm while you tease him.  Imagine the fun of him trying to orgasm only to have you pull away at the last second and leave him with nothing.  Do this a few times and then send him over the edge and let go.
• Use your hands, mouth, tongue, panties, feathers, etc. to tease him. One of the most interesting videos I watched was a woman that held her man’s cock straight up and she very slowly licked from bottom  to top until he spurted.
• Make him ruin the orgasm himself.  This is a good test of his loyalty. Will he let go before he spurts (bonus points for him), at the first spurt (good boy), or will he push the envelope and hold on a little longer after he spurts (bad boy.  Punishment time!).
• Combine with anal pleasure.  Stimulating the prostate will cause his cum to leak-out more.  Some women use this technique regularly to “milk” their man so that he can go very long periods without a orgasm.

8.24 On chastity and ruined orgasms

Completely ruining the orgasm

• Let go as soon as orgasm starts
• Let go earlier than above after edging lots to get a tiny dribble each time
• Let go then block with thumb/palm
• Edge until its not fun then really early ruining
• Pegs on balls for 10 minutes while edging (at least 3 pegs) ruin it normally but take all pegs off fast as soon as i let go
• An hour or more of porn with massive frustration, then very slow ruined orgasm(s) usiing one finger on the back of the head or slow rubbing on head. no other stimulation.
• An hour or more of porn followed by 3-5 *extremely* fast ruined orgasms until dry
• post orgasm torture? Or 3-5 ruined orgasms with post orgasm torture but no orgasm
• Lots of porn followed by dry towelling torture until super sensitive then dry orgasm with foreskin held back. towelling every 2 minutes to dry and torture. Possibly ruined too.
• Ruined orgasm by any method with tin foil scrunched over head during dribbles.
• Use numb cream on the penis head 10 minutes before touching him

Can anyone else think of some particularly nasty, evil and frustrating ways to “cum” minimizing the enjoyment as much as possible. It should leave him disappointed, frustrated, possibly horny and desperate afterwards.

The Art of the Ruined Orgasm

Edifying for someone who might not really know .... 

The Art of The Ruined Orgasm #1

The advantage of the ruined orgasm is that it is one more tool to add to your bag of tricks for teasing and orgasm control.  You can tell your man that he is allowed to orgasm and then at the moment he is about to orgasm or as soon as it starts you release his cock.  

Incorporating this into your T&D keeps your man guessing about what to expect.  Not only will it be a mystery of when he can orgasm but now he won’t even know if it will be a full orgasm or ruined orgasm.  Ruining his orgasm also prolongs his denial period. He gets some release but not a full orgasm.  Therefore you can prolong the time frame of when he is allowed a full orgasm by slipping in a few ruined orgasms.

One final benefit is that it can be used as a punishment.  If your man has been naughty or simply not meeting your expectations, you can announce that the next orgasm (or next 2, 3, etc.) will be ruined.

The Art of The Ruined Orgasm #2

The most basic approach is to stroke his cock and then at the moment he first spurts you release his cock and let it twitch and spurt on its own.  He will experience very brief pleasure at the first spurt but then once you release and there is no friction the orgasm becomes ruined and he is left frustrated.  This is a good way to introduce him to the ruined orgasm.  

Another technique is to release his cock before he starts to cum.  This may take some practice because you have to anticipate when the orgasm is coming.  If you spend a considerable amount of time teasing your guy or if he has been denied an orgasm for a long period of time, this becomes easier to do.   

The Art of The Ruined Orgasm #3

Some variations to experiment:

• Announce the ruined orgasm ahead of time or surprise him
• Tell him to try and orgasm while you tease him or tell him try not to orgasm while you tease him.  Imagine the fun of him trying to orgasm only to have you pull away at the last second and leave him with nothing.  Do this a few times and then send him over the edge and let go.
• Use your hands, mouth, tongue, panties, feathers, etc. to tease him. One of the most interesting videos I watched was a woman that held her man’s cock straight up and she very slowly licked from bottom  to top until he spurted.
• Make him ruin the orgasm himself.  This is a good test of his loyalty. Will he let go before he spurts (bonus points for him), at the first spurt (good boy), or will he push the envelope and hold on a little longer after he spurts (bad boy.  Punishment time!).
• Combine with anal pleasure.  Stimulating the prostate will cause his cum to leak-out more.  Some women use this technique regularly to “milk” their man so that he can go very long periods without a orgasm.