9.02 Wednesday Diary ...after work....

8:13 left work,   9:10  home
Fed all the critters and went into the bedroom.
Merry was kinda waking up, and offered to me a spanking.
I accepted,  and stripped and went OHL,  and She applied 70 swats of the church paddle.
That led to me giving Her oral service, which led to intercourse, which led to ...  stopping when I got tired.
I got up and prepped MDM...  and back in the bedroom, we watched the season finale of Rizzoli and Isles ...
It came up up, and we 'had sex' again.... no 'happy ending' oh well.
And sleep, for me ..
Til 1900 or so ...
UP and peed, and picked up the pile of DVDS that had fallen off the chest of drawers on Her side of the bed..again.... not sure if it was the cats who hang out up there, or the recent tremblor. 
And I picked up the tray table and items that were on top of it, that some other cat had knocked over.
Moved into the living room, did some reading...
Dinner was served... chicken and rice and green beans...I took it into BR1 and watched the series finale of Falling Skies,  then She came in, and we watched the penultimate episode of Zoo.
 .....    after midnight....

s l Sex                         12 H
s l O                            601 Hr
s L Fun for Her AND Me  14 H
UN                               492 H
S H l DO                      12 H
s MLCi                       280 D
Glu-Free                    40 D
S HER l date              572 H
s l P or M                   19 D
No kids?                     Yes 

9.02 Wednesday Diary at work

After midnight:
00:50  Caller cancelled one in Dallas, one in LA
02:15  Caller cancelled one
02:16  Where's-my-car in Atlanta
03:50  Fox agent confirming a couple
04:05  Idiot Fox agent called again to reconfirm what she just confirmed
05:07  Caller looking for NY (transferred!)
05:10  AM dispatch arrived
05:15  AM rez-agent arrived.
And rather un-eventful for the rest of my time.

Leaving work, shortly after 8 a.m. 


It's been too long:
Notice the perfect 'cherries', squarely centered in the middle of each buttock:

9.01 Tuesday Diary...after work

Left work,  6:26
Home  7:14

Fed the animals...
Spoke to Merry, a bit.
Put together MDM ...  Pork and rice ...  and read another of Sunday's papers.
And to BR1 talking a bit more .... and asleep  8:30 ish.

11:30 awake?

14:45  awakened by Merry, asking me to write a check for Babyman's rent.

17:30 A wake up call from Her, saying She'd be home in 20 minutes.
UP and moving...
Showered and dressed.
And discussed....
 Coco, moving out, next Tuesday, heading up north, while leaving her pain in the butt dog with us.  The dog is a chew-everything-in-sight menace, but a great playmate for Donna.  
 Bullfrog, looking to move in with us...into the back room in the garage.   

(while I was at work, Merry generated a Household Agreement. I think Bullfrog is in for an eye-opener.)
Went to my car, moved bags to Her car, moved my car across the street, kissed Her good bye...
6:35 headed to work.
 Poo poo traffic
7:38 at work.

Easy night, easy morning...
Until 21:30, when res. calls started coming in, like everybody suddenly remembered shit they needed to do for the next day... 
It was not a storm of calls, just steady, one after another, which my associated fielded in a decent manner, considering his inexperience.

He even took one last call at 23:31... when he shoulda clocked out at 23:30, but wasn't looking at the clock. Heh.

s l Sx                 118 Hr
s l Or                     577 Hr
s l Fun/me or Her  317 Hr
Unlock                  468 Hr
s Her last DO        118 H
s l Ci                     279 D
Glu Free                39 D
s Her last Date  548 H
s l P or M           18 D
Babyman with us    11 Da

9.02 Chastity for couples

Obligation Ideas for  the Keyholder

• The key will always be securely under the supervision of the keyholder.
• The key-holder has the obligation to pay attention of the user’s health condition and arrange necessary suitable treatment, when any disorders are identified on the user’s body. 
• The key-holder will remove the chastity belt at least once every 5 days to allow the user to be cleaned properly. This time will also be used to check that there are no health issues in regards to wearing it. Cleaning will involve users hands being fastened behind back, and hood applied with blindfold before device is removed.  
• Hair may be removed to help keep the user clean
• The key-holder will not allow the chastity period to exceed 3 months without break.
• The key-holder will make the user aware of how long the expected chastity period is to be, when locking the chastity belt.
• If the chastity period is increased it is the key-holder’s obligation to let the user know how long it has been increased by and why. 
• It is up to the key-holder’s discretion how long each chastity period is to be. The key-holder may increase or stop any chastity period as he sees fit. 
• The key-holder can humiliate the user at any time by mentioning that he is kept in chastity
• The user must show device on request

Obligation Ideas for the Chaste male

The Chaste male could have the following obligations to submit all control and
ownership of penis / orgasm to the keyholder until end of chastity period. 

• The Chaste Male will agree to an initial trail period of no less than 28 
• days. 
• The Chaste Male will allow the key-holder to put the chastity belt on him 
• whenever she pleases.
• The Chastity belt will particularly be used to prevent unauthorized 
• masturbation during day or on business trips or attendance to KINK 
• fetish parties.
• The Chaste Male is prohibited to have any sexual intercourse without the
• key-holder’s permission.
• The Chaste Male is prohibited to masturbate without the key-holder's 
• permission.
• Making efforts to remove the chastity belt by The Chaste Male is 
• forbidden and will occur punishment.
• The Chaste Male will allow the key-holder to use any number of toys in 
• his ass whenever she wants for as long as she wants, so as to tease 
• his prostate into a state of total arousal. 
• It is the responsibility of The Chaste Male to maintain the cleanliness 
• of the chastity belt.
• The Chaste Male is never permitted to leave the key-holder’s control 
• without the key-holder’s special permission.
• The Chaste Male will accept that having his prostate milked is sufficient 
• sexual relief for him during any chastity period. Having his 
• prostate milked is at the key-holder’s discretion. 
• The Chaste Male may not ask the key-holder for the chastity belt to be 
• removed. Except for health or safety reasons.
• The Chaste Male will allow the key-holder to masturbate him or have sex 
• with him whenever she wants. He will not have an orgasm without her 
• permission however. If he does, he will be subject to whatever 
• punishment the key-holder sees fit. This punishment may override the 
• key-holder’s obligation to keeping chastity periods less then 3 
• months.
• It is The Chaste Males’s obligation to let the key-holder know if he has 
• had sexual relief without his knowledge. For instance through 
• nocturnal relief or a self provided prostate milking. 
• The Chaste Male will be required to sexually satisfy the key holder 
• without user orgasm, this will include fucking duties, fellatio, 
• foot worship, rimming, providing urinal or other toilet duties for 
• key holder, massages etc.
• The Chaste Male will be grateful and thank the key holder for keeping him
• in chastity.

• Chastity Agreement

  This Chastity agreement describes the duties of the Male. The Male is to be locked in a chastity device. The Keyholder is to control the keys to that device and, therefore, the sexual behaviour of the Male.
  • The Male will remain in the chastity device at all times. He will keep it clean and only remove it for inspection with the supervision of the Keyholder. He will never attempt to defeat the purpose of the device.
  • The Keyholder will keep the keys to the device in a secure place away from the Male. 
  • The Keyholder will unlock the device only at her/his discretion.
  • The Male agrees to have no rights in determining the length of confinement even if the term is permanent.
  • The Male agrees to accept behaviour modification to eliminate erectile function.
  • The Male agrees to use prosthetic devices, in lieu of his penis, to satisfy his mate.
  • The Male agrees to allow others to use prosthetic devices on him.
  • The Male agrees to whatever use the Keyholder requires, including servicing others, female and male.

9.01 Tuesday Diary at work

after midnight:
01:00 CBS agent confirming  0630 pickup in Chi
04:12 Fx agent cancelling 0715 pickup in Chi
04:32, 04:36  CBS agent asking if the 06:30 px is in car
04:41 Where's my car, in Miami (it was parked outside)
04:43  calling for local  driver details
04:47 calling for driver details in KY
04:58 Confirming a.m. pickup

05:15 AM Dispatch in
05:20 AM rez agent in

And OUT  6:20

8.31 Monday Diary (after work ....home)

In car 6.25, home 7.07.

Fed the animals.

Started MDM, leftover beef stew, with warmed tortillas and tortilla chips, while reading one Sunday paper..

In BR1, 08:00.
Talking with Merry a little bit...asleep  08:30.

Awake off and on, but never had to get up.

She came in to check on me, 17:30.
Upright  17:50.
Showered and dressed etc

Car, 18:35   AW  1920.

Easy night....easy morning.... 

I'll catch up on 'numbers' on Tuesday. 

9.01 on chastity for couples

Think About the Chastity Benefits

To be of benefit you must be honest with yourself and remove fantasy from practicality, think carefully about each question and allow yourself time to fully answer each question.

1. What does chastity mean to me?

2. Why do I want to be locked in?

3. What would my maximum lock in period be?

4. Do I want to be completely dominated, subservient to my keyholder?

5. Am I by nature submissive?

6. Is my wife dominant by nature, if not does this matter anyway if she is open to the idea and is generally a little adventurous in bed?

7. Do I want to use chastity as an extension of our sexual repertoire for fun, love and fidelity? Or do I want it to become a way of life, with me being permanently in chastity.

8. How can I prevent my Chastity fantasies from taking over my life rather than being a part of it? Are my fantasies realistic?

9. Will I be imposing my Chastity desires on my wife, and in so doing controlling her, rather than my wife controlling me?

10. In what situations do I most want to be locked up? Are there occasions when I really won’t want to be locked up?

11. How do I want my keyholder to control me? (consider these words - loving, confident, playful, strict, harsh, dominate, authoritative, assertive, caring.)

12. Would we need a written chastity contract? Why?

13. What arrangements should be made so that I am able to remove the device when it’s absolutely essential for health reasons?

14. What style of chastity device would I like most and why?

15. Will this design appeal to my wife. Am I willing to take my wife’s opinion into account with respect to my choice of belt/device?