04.29 Wednesday Diary

00:15  PIl

AT work, watching The Newsroom on my tablet... Season 1, eps 1 through 5....
OFf work 850, in car 853....and home 9:40.
She was sleeping...and after a discussion that got aired on my Facebook page and doesn't need to be rehashed here, I returned to the car alone, to begin morning errands.
10:35  at the SS office, in line, or with a number, waiting to get one form, to ask for an appeal....  
Form in hand, left there at 1210.
Off to the banks, to take as much money as I could out of Chase, and put into WF...
THen in search of a PO to get stamps and get my IRS payment mailed,  17 days late.

HOme 12:51.

Sleeping 1300, in the other bedroom, which is always cooler than ours..
THen up, and sitting/napping in the living room chair...
Then,into the main bedroom....
1800 awake for Pill
UP 20:00.
Cleaning a couple bags I brought in from the two cars...
Dinner of chicken and rice was served, and I ate while watching a two hour ep of Law and Order/SVU.
She came ino the bedroom near the end of it...
Then I watched Criminal Minds....

HSLS  1446
HSLO 1602
HSLF/me  1447
HsLF/her 939
Her DO/HR S  N/958
D s l CI 154

04.28 Tuesday Diary

00:10  Pill
..at work: caught up on blogs/diary...  read some chat between Merry and 'Ray'... researched Cal.Choice, my health insurance broker.
0615 Pill
0618  Off work,  in car, heading home...
0658 Home...

Feed the animals...
Put together scrambled eggs and rice and cheese and onions in a bowl for my DM.  
Went into the bedroom, and woke up Merry, to watch The Following with me while I ate. 
8:40 to sleep...
930 and 1200 (pill) and 1400 and 1600  up to pee...
17:55 UP...  Talking to Merry about ... financials..
Talking to Coco about the router...
Shower and dressed and packing up...
Moved my car around the corner to get out of the street-sweeping hot spot. 
Kissed Her, good bye.
18:30  pill
In Her car, 1845..
Stopped for gas,  fifteen dollars worth...
Easy driving,  at work  19:35.

H s l S  1422
H s l O  1578
H s l F4me  1423
H s l F4Her  935
H UN   710
Her DO/HrS  No/934
D s l CI 153

04.27 Monday Diary

We watched Nurse Jackie and Happy-ish.

Finished all of The Newsroom season 3.
Then a movie called The Spy Game.
Which I knew I'd seen before.... took me a while to decide, it was at my parent's house, some visit there before I met Merry.

05:30 sleep
0715 Up to feed animals, snack, pill.
Back to sleep til 13:00

Awake on and off til

1800 up.
 Toilet, shower, dress...toilet....
Packed up,  said 'good bye'

Her car, 1850.
Work, 1933.

...Saw the week's schedule, I am not 'on' for the coming Saturday...  and not a big surprise, considering how (un)reliable I've been lately.

Spoke to Merry a bit about...
  ... 5th Wednesday munch
 .... M & M coming over Friday
....  Picking up Babyman to come to the house, Friday night
...   LICK party OR  Poly Munch, Saturday?
    Hope I'm up to doing any of this.  
  
HSLS  1398
HSLO 1554
HSmyF 1399
HS her F  911
hr UN  686
Her DO, H s:  N/910
D s l C  152

04.26 Sunday Diary

Newsroom  S 2:4.
Merry called,  leaving BoD.
Then called, getting off the freeway near our house.
I got up, ..toilet...dressed... and went outside, to get in the car, to travel from our house to take HLB home, and return home with Merry.
We dropped HLB off, and She had me get in the driver's seat to back the car up the steep driveway and out..and I just kept driving from there, til we arrived home.
More Newsroom, most of season 2.
05:30 Pill.
06:00 sleep.

Awake on and off through the day.
11:30 pill
14:30 up.
Took some Tumz and Alka selter...
and Started vomiting,  and passed out for a minute on the bathroom floor.
With Sunshine's help, sent text to my work supervisor...that I wasn't gonna make it to work.

Sunshine started my laundry for me.
Pill, 19:00
Back to the bedroom..
Watching The Newsroom season 1... episodes 3 through 9..
 with dinner served, during.

Pill, around midnight.

HSLS  1374
HsLO  1530
HsMY fun 1375
HSHER F 887
HR UN  662
Her DO/HR S  N/886
D s l CI  151

04.25 Saturday Diary

More episodes of The Newsroom, through the night...
05:15... sleep
07:00 ish  Pill
.... up to pee
.... up to pee
... up to pee
18:00  UP 
  Coffee, somethin' to eat, read last Sunday's newspaper...
 Vomiting..
  Merry, getting ready...  
  She left, about 21:15.   
  We thought I would take Her ..and pick up HLB..and take them to a thing at the BoD, go to work driving for a bit, then pick them up again...but clearly, I was in no shape.
 So She was driving, and I/we stayed home.
 The Newsroom,  season 2, episode 1..2...3...

HSLS  1350
HsLO  1506
HSLF/me 1351
HSLF/Her  863
h UN  638
HER DO/HS  n/862
DSLC 150

04.24 Friday Diary

...email received, background check finished, I'm ready to go as an Uber driver.

watched Godzilla...
watched more  Newsroom...from season 3 and 1, I believe.
10:00 sleep.
12:30  Pill.
Merry said, "See ya later" around 14:00.;
16:00 awake ish.
18:00 Up.  
  Talking to Stitch.
  Merry home from market(s),  helping Her bring in groceries.
And unpacking.

Dinner prepped then ready.
Sorted bills in the bill box.
Paid the primary household bills.
Left a sheet for Merry while talking to Sunshine.
Into the bedroom...
Watching Newsroom....   Season 2, ep 5. to start with.....

HSLS  1326
HSLO  1482
HSLF/ME 1327
HSLF/HER 839
H UN 614
HER DO/HR S  N/838
D S L CI  149

04.23 Thurs Diary

Finished Jersey Boys.
Loved it.
Watched a bit of Sin City.
02:30 sleep.
05:30 Pee, snack, pill.
7:50 pee, fed all the animals, unlocked the back gate for the pool guy, cleared the kitchen sink,
And back to bed for The Day.
12:30 Pill
18:30 Pill
And UP
Toilet, coffee
1830 Big Bang Theory
19:00 Big Bang Theory
19:30 Mike and Molly
20:00 Big Bang Theory (new)
20:30 Odd Couple, 
 And dinner, pulled pork served in homemade hot pocket shells.
21:00 Mom
21:30 Big Bang Theory
22:00 Elementary
Some silly documentary, Unhung Hero....

HS 1302
HO 1458
HMD 1303
HHD 815
HUn 590
HDOr 814
DCig 148

04.22 Wed, Diary

00:00, pill
00:30, sleep
03:30 p n s
5:30 toilet n P
7:30 toilet, feed the animals
Showers for both of us
09:45, in car
10:40 at Dr S, she went in, I stayed in waiting room
1145 off to Walmart
Then the Vzn store across the street.
A new phone in my pocket, we left, drove through a CJs.
Then went to Bbk for the open Uber registration.
Had to replace the windshield wipers before they would pass the car, so I went for a three block walk for forty cash, and the mechanics replaced them on the spot, for thirty.
Then I finished the walk through docu inspection, and was told, 3 to 5" days for background check.
Done, 14:55, then began the drive home through the beginning of rush hour.
1600 home.
I sat in chair to catch up on newspapers, and she went to the bedroom to take a nap, without telling me.
19:00, she came out of the bedroom and I went in.
She woke me up around 20:30 just to tell me that she had adjusted something on my fcb page.
Dinner, pulled pork on toast
Watched Criminal Minds
Watched CSI
Started Jersey Boys.

HS 1278
HO 1434
HF 1279
Hhers 791
H U  568
HDO N/790
D C 147

4.21 Tues Diary

03:33,, up p & s
7:10 fed dogs and cats, Pill
10:30 up Ib and Ri.
11:00 called off work
  Merry said, goodbye, heading for OC court
17:30 up for alka.
She was home.
Court went as expected, a waste of time, continued to June.
18:30 pill
Watched The Following..
Moved cars across the street.
Watched Agents of Shield, with dinner.

Watched CSI.
Watched Gotham.
....
HS 1254
HO 1.41.0
HF 1255
HHErs  .767
HUn 544
Her DOb.?No, 766
DCI 146

Diary 4.20 Monday

00:05, P.
06:20, P.
6:35, off heading home.
07:15, home.
Fed all the animals.
Prepped my dinner,
And watched Nurse Jackie.
8:15 Sleep.
9:30, up , painful need to pee.
10:45, as above.
12:10, as above.
13:15, ditto.
14:30, same
16:30, again.
17:30, repeat.
17:45 up.
Tumz and IBU
Pill
Toilet
Shower, dry, dress
18:43
19:25 at work
Tired beyond belief, in immense pain.
Called my supervisor
A relief arrived 2130, and I was out
Had to get some gas, and had $10 left on our 76 card, and I got 3 gallons.
22:20, home
Watched Scorpion.
Dinner was peanut butter on graham crackers.
0009 sleep.

HS 1230
HO 1386
HF 1231
Her 743
HUn 520
HDo N\742
DC 145

04.19 Sunday Diary

0300 Up  pee and snack

0500 Up when I heard banging and yelling....

 Merry was pounding on the bedroom door on the other side of the house, because Stitch had locked the door to keep Sherman out, should he come to the house (no longer 'home' for him) in the middle of the night... and he wasn't opening it, thinking it was Sherman,  until Merry made it clear that it was NOT.

She wanted a fresh pair of underwear....

   I since suggested, She could start storing some in the bedroom in which She sleeps, I'm sure I could create drawer space.

06:00 Pill

09:00 acid blocker...

  Laundry, dryer

10:00 Pee

12:00 Pee

14:30 reluctantly UP

 Toilet..

Laundry out of dryer and in.

Showered, dried, dressed...toilet

Prepped a mug of  Red Bull and Mountain Dew....

Kissed Her, good bye.

Stitch helped me get my stuff to the car.

  The car-car, as She called it. 

I asked, "So..what is mine?"

"That's a car-van."

"Oh..well, where's the key-key?"

"Um, in my purse-purse, in the bedroom-room."

Ah.

15:45 In car-car, and rolling.

Lane closers on the 711 north...  very slow  on the 51....   once on the 1101, pretty good for about a mile, then down to almost nothing-per-mile, then it opened up, a whole mile before my off ramp.

All in all, traffic as bad as a regular work day at this time.

1700 At work... on toilet again.  

 For Sunday,  108 rides,  51 farmed out.

For Monday,  129 rides... 71 before 13:00, which I call the a.m. portion.  I farmed out 24, just to get work covered to 11:40.

19:00 Pill.

She called me around 22:30, asking me to look at Her fcb page.

We've discussed that I can't access fcb on the company computer... but I can on my phone... so I looked, and saw what She wanted me to see, and saw another post ...in my name...which I did not put there.  

 I called Her back, and inquired, and She plead 'Guilty with an explanation'. 

 The explanation had to do with Her adjusting the various settings that control who can see one's  or my posts, and who can't...

Which I found acceptable, and then we came to an understanding about just when She can put posts on my page in my name...  which is now to say, when She gets prior permission from me.

HslS  1206

HslO  1362

HsMLF 1207

HsHLF  719

H un  496

Her DO? H since  N/718

D s l Ci  144

04.18 Saturday Diary

Home...
Sunshine wanted to talk a bit...
01:30 to sleep.

05:30,  up for P & S

07:30 up....   Pill... toilet, shower., dress, packing...
Kiss good bye to Her.
Stitch helped me with bags to my car.  
08:25 en route.
09:02 arrived...  In a hurry to get to the toilet; called Merry to make sure She was up, as She had asked me to do... She had been up for twenty minutes due to a previous phone call.
..Alka seltzer.
12:00  Pill
15:30  Acid blocker...
19:00 Pill
19:00  Relief dispatcher arrived (not due til 19:30)..
19:25  Off, out, heading home
20:10  Home

Some talking between Her and me.... 
Laundry in wash, 2115
Setting the times on a few watches, something I had not done since the time change  
Trying out pens...again
Dinner was just ready,  baked chicken and rice..
In the bedroom, eating and watching "Agents of Shield"
She joined me, and we watched "Big Bang Theory" and "Elementary".
I rolled over to go to sleep, which kinda annoyed Her 'cuz I did not say 'good night' first...
We kinda sorted that out and 
0100... to sleep.

HslS  1182
HslO  1338
HslF   1183
HsHERlF  695
Hr UN  472
HER DO/HR s  N/694
D s l CI  143

4.17 Friday Diary

Out Lyfting, three more rides after midnight, the last one left me deep in Santa Ana, close to running out of gas while two college girls were in the car, and ... a WF debit card that would not work at the gas pump...so I managed to get in five bucks from my remaining CapOne cc that had a few available dollars on it.
The rides were worth another $45.   
Later in the morning, the summary report emailed to me showed a potential deposit of $54 and change for the night's work.
Home...
Looking for the dinner that was put away for me.  I declined having it put in a storage container and hidden in the bedroom fridge, and insisted it go in the main kitchen fridge...and it was gone, when I got home.
And I saw Sherman, asleep in the other bed.
Coincidence? I doubt it.
I had a leftover Merry-surprise-pie which was quite good, enough.
She was awake at 4 a.m.!  Talking to some buddy/friend she had created via Trivia Crack.  
And She couldn't go to sleep when I was trying, so from the DVR, started watching "Django Unchained."
And I stayed awake, watching the whole thing....
0600 pill
0715 up to feed the dogs...
Tried to get some sleep from 10 to noon...
Up and dressed and in the car, me driving...
to H-ucla so She could get signed documents prior to court next week, and I filled up the gas tank at an adjoining gas station...
Then east to Walmart..to fetch a prescription for Her, while I looked at cell phones, thinking to get a cheap 2nd phone to add and use the Uber app.
The cell phone I wanted, they did not have the activation card for, so I decided, this can wait....
Home...unpacked the car...
Showered and dressed...
And back in the car to pick up HLB, and bring him to the house.
Merry was ready when we arrived, and it was far too early.  Both he and I had factored in a cushion to allow for Merry always not getting ready on time and being late... and here it was about 17:00 and the demo he (and She) were doing was not due to start to start til 19:30, and the place was 14 miles away, so maybe 30 to, worst case, 45 minutes.
SO we sat around....
HLB and Stitch did all the talking; Merry and I did not have to say a word,  tho' Merry had quite a bit to say when their conversation steered to 'boats'.
On our way, about 1825
Arrived there...a little bit haphazardly, as the 'event' listing which we were going by had '455' as the street number, should have been '1455'.   
But we were still earlier enough to pull into the 7-11, across the street, where HLB was going to extra twenty bucks from the ATM to give us for gas and the ride, in general, but his debit cards did not work, he said.
Wish us luck ever getting THAT twenty bucks.
I took him and Merry across the street, got 'em inside the studio, and around 19:45 excused myself...
Went back to the car, pulled it around to the back of the complex to the parking lot,  got kind of comfortable and dozed from about eight to ten.
I woke up, found a bush to hide behind, and pee,  and then played scrabble on my tablet, until Merry called me, ready to go, around 22:45.
I swung around front, got the two of them in the car, and off we went.
We dropped HLB off at home,  then  decided to stop for a late dinner at the same Spires that we stopped at after the last time we dropped HLB off.
We decided,  there won't be a third time. 
First time, service was poor, food just okay.
Second time, service was good, food was bad-fair-okay, and the coffee was bitter.


HslS 1158
HslO  1314
HslFun1159
HslFun/Her/from me  671
Hr UN 448
Her DO? H since  N/670
D s l CI  141

04.16 Thursday Day

02:00  UP  P & S

05:45  up to Pill

07:15 Up to let Donna out, and feed the dogs, check email and fcb

0900, Up  to P and dressed..
 Ran into Sherman in the kitchen, who seemed to be keeping me away from the fridge by blocking my path to it...
Back in the bedroom, watched some stupid (Pain or Pleasure) movie with Merry..
Dad called, saying, No, I should Not come out to visit...
I took checks outside for Pool Guy, and unlocked the gate..
And caught up on dishes...
And we decided to take care of motor errands tomorrow, and did a pinky swear that we would get up and do 'em...
And we watched "CSI" and "Criminal Minds" and "Gotham"
And I napped from 1700 to 2100, getting up once at 1800 for a Pill
UP and dressed...
And out in car 2130, to go Lyfting.
Starbucks for an iced coffee first... then I caught two rides before midnight for about fifteen bucks.

HslS  1134
HslO  1287
HslF/me  1159
HslF/her  647  
Hr UN  424
Her DO? /Hr S  646
D s l C  141

4.15 Wednesday Diary

00:05 Pill
09:05 Off work, getting into car
10:05 Home
..snack (stuffing, pb on crackers)
12:00 Pill
12:15 Spoke to Dad, wants me to get "out there" soon as they know a surgery date
...sleep
17:30 up, Pill
..Getting ready at the table..
Doing two sets of taxes, Merry and mine, and Stitch's
21:20 Out with Sunshine to PO open til 22:00.
Successful drop off, home 22:00
Staring on dinner, ham/black eye peas soup.
Bedroom, watch Justified finale.
23:30 sleep. 

Hsls 1110
HslO 1263
HslF4me 1111
HslF4Her 623
HUn 400
Her DO?HS N/622
DslC 140

04.14 Diary, Tuesday

00:30,   Pill.

On the phone with Merry,  for about an hour...   
..while updating my diary...  very handy, these office headsets....

06:10 Pill

6:31 off work, in car...
 On the way home, off at LBB, I was looking for the garbage collection truck, which can and does obstruct the whole street that I use to get home, so I try to watch for it, and use an alternate route...
Then I remembered, it's Tuesday, not Monday; garbage collection was yesterday...  ahhh.
7:17  Home.

I let Donna out,  fed the animals...  
Prepped my dinner ..chicken, sweet potatoes, carrots...
And went into the bedroom to eat, while watching "The Following" with Her.

0900 asleep.

1200 up for Pill.
1400.  Up for alkaS
1500 Up to pee.
At some point She had joined me in bed; around 1715 I rolled over to spoon, my front to Her back...
and woke up 1800.  My alarm was not set for 1730 like I surmised.
UP,  Pill..toilet, shower, dressed, toilet..
Kiss Her good bye...packed, and out to car.
1837 in car
1927 at work.

Another night of checking in with farms doing our work...of covering our remaining work with farms.....
And revising the morning work.... 
Well, I was caught up 2230 or so, and called Her to check in.
Dad had sent an email, saying that Mom was going to have surgery to remove a brain tumor... and She had responded, saying that She or I or both could come out there anytime, on his say so. 
And She told me of Sherman's decision...first, his denial of threatening Coco, which we doubt, but, like, whatever...and that he said, he would begin moving out,  on Wednesday...
Oh boy.

Hsls  1086
Hslo  1239
HslF  1087
HsHlF  599
H Un  376
Her DO  N
HR s...  598
D s l C  139

04.13 Monday Diary

00:30  Pill

One ride,  $7.45

03:56 Home and off duty.

Dinner...leftover from yesterday's family dinner:  chicken,  stuffing, green beans, sweet potatoes...while watching season's premiere of "Nurse Jackie".

05:00 done, to sleep.
05:55 awake for Pill.

07:50 Up to let Donna out, and feed the animals,  and Pee and snack. 

12:00  Pill ..and alka seltzer and gas-x.

Merry,  out to take Babyman home... go to OC court again ... get money from Ch account,. put it in WF account, then make a house payment...then go to Walmar for various this and thats.
..home around 1700.

I got up...showered...dressed.... packed up..
1800 ish..Pill...

Car 1839 , and at work  1926.

Two events going on,  cars tied up everywhere.
A regular client, well known actress (if you're into the whole Underworld series)... looking for a car and driver in 90 minutes tolerant of her smoking...
Along with other, than went on and on....

H s L S  1062  

H s L O  1215

H s L Fun 1063

H s HEr L Fun  575

Hr UN  352

Her DO? HR since  n/574

D s last ci  138

4.12 Sunday Diary

Three more rides, for about $44

Home and off duty, shortly after 03:00

Called  my office with an early heads up, that I was feeling awful and very likely would not be in to work (in 12 hours).

Dinner:  my last can of chili from the cupboard, over rice,  along with the last two cinnamon rolls, and last two taquitos.
0415...  to bed.
0530.. up, pee, Pill, snack.
915, up, Pee, and text management that I would not, for sure, be in that afternoon.
12:00 Pill.
1745, Pee.
1930, Alka seltzer and Ibuprofen.
2045, showered, dressed, getting ready.
In car, off to Starbucks.
21:41 On duty.

Two rides before midnight, $21.

H s L s 1038

H s L o  1191

H s L F/me  1039

Hr s F/Her  551

Hr Un  328

Her DO/Hr S  N/550

Days s L CI  137

4.11 Saturday Diary

0100 or so, Pill

Another 4 rides for about $55 and a five dollar cash tip...

Home and off duty 3:22.

Dinner, saved for me: Pork chops, rice, carrots...
Watched  "Big Bang Theory"...
 Watched a bit of "Young Frankenstein" just  to remember the exact quotes:
"What knockers!"
"Thank you, Doctor!"
05:00 sleep.
06:00 pill.
Awake for another pill,  12:00.

18:00 awake to watch "Elementary".
Showered, and dressed.
In car, to 'work'  2100.
Starbucks first, 
and on duty 21:15.

Four rides,  for about $54 before midnight..
A crash course all over Orange County.

H s l S  1014
H s L O  1167
H s L Fun  1015
H s L Her Fun  527
Hr Un 304
Her DO?/Hr s   N/526
Days since L Cig  136

4.10 Friday

00:04 Got an order that cancelled, 3 minutes later...

00:09 Got an order that cancelled 2 minutes later...

0:50 Got an order... that did not cancel, got four bucks for it.

01:21 Got an order that cancelled, 2 minutes later

01:45  Got an order that did not cancel, got four bucks for it.

It was 2:14, I had under 40 miles remaining on the tank, and She has the gas card. I headed home,  at normal speed, still in driver mode, in case anything did come up.

02:30, Home and off duty.

Dinner, hot pockets, and peanut butter on graham crackers, while watching "Justified".  

A Pill, at some point....

04:00 or so, trying to go to sleep.

0900, awake off and on....   alka seltzer from Her.... really upset stomach...ugh...

Working with Her on notes to pass on to our boarder who has overstayed his welcome... 

Loaded some new timewasting games for my phone...

1200 pill...

She left around 1500 with Stitch to go get Babyman and bring him to the house til Monday morning.

I added a bunch of water to the large dog-water-bottle-dish.

And made coffee.

And updated blogs  up to this point   ...   16:33  4/10.....

Watched  "Agents of Shield"...
Tried to take a nap...
Shower, dried,  and dressed...
Went to work  ...
In car, about 20:00.   

Got three pickups, for about $24, before midnight....

H S L S   990

H s L O  1143

H s L Fun  991

H s HER L Fun  503

H UN  285

Her DO? Hr since  N/502

D s l C  135 

4.09 Diary Thursday

0430  Up for P & S
0600 UP for Pill
sleeping...
1200 up for Pill
1400 awake, saw that She had just starting watching "Guardians of the Galaxy" via on/demand.
Then, watched "Criminal Minds".
UP, 1700... showered, dressed, packed and prepped...
In car 1755, with Her and Stitch...
Headed for Uppity..stopped at market, then dropped them off at the Meeting Center....18:30.
ANd began Lyft-ing....
 Got two rides for  $19.49 before going back to pick them up, shortly after nine.
Took them home, and went back to 'work'.
Sat in front of my house... 
21:51, got an order that immediately cancelled....

H s L S 966
H s L O  1119
H s L Fun 967
H s HER l F  479
H UN  256
Her DO?HR since  478
D s l c  134

4.08 Diary Wednesday

03:45  "pill"09:00 off work
09:11 in car
10:03 HOme
She had saved for me dinner in the bedroom mini-fridge.
I heated it,and went into the bedroom to eat...
She was watching the last some minutes of "Brokeback Mountain" on tv....
I got my laundry together, in the wash... went to sleep around 10:00
UP 15:00 P and ?   and laundry in dryer.
17:30 UP.
Laundry in and away. 
Talking...
Pill 1800...   made a decision, and set alarms, to take 1/2 a pill every six hours....  Six pm, etc.
TV...
"Agents of Shield" from  15 days ago
"Agents of Shield" from 8 days ago
Dinner...
"S.V.U."
SHe came in to join me for "CSI Cyber"...
Took a pill, and sleep, around 0000.

H s L S  942
H sL O  1095
H sL Fun 943
H s HER L Fun  455
H UN 232
Her DO?/Hrs s   N/454
D s l CI  133

4.07 Diary, Tuesday

6:34, left work.
7:15, home.

Even though Stitch was home, on vacation, and awake,  doing I-don't-know-what in his bedroom, I still got to let Donna out, and feed three cats and three dogs.
Then I prepped my DM, reheating chicken and rice from the previous night...
And ate in the bedroom, next to Merry, while watching "The Following".
Then I found the last 45 minutes of "Die Hard with a Vengeance" on some movie channel, and watched that...
0930 to sleep.

12:30  up  P & S

17:15 UP....  
  Toilet, shower, dry, dress.... moved my car from the street to the driveway...  alka seltzer,  Pill,  Toilet again... prepped coffee...  forgot to pack pretzels to snack on...  kissed Her good-bye...

Car 1837.
Rain, as soon as I got on the 711 ....
Rain stopped, but crappy traffic from the 51 interchange into the 102...  
At work   19:50.

Not a busy night at work, but the new-ish guy that's now my partner on every one of my shifts reverted to making several rookie mistakes that complicated my work.   
And, a rare night in that, as soon as our Reservations Dept closed shop (22:00) I got back to back to back reservations calls to deal with, because this partner still has not had training in taking them.

H s l S  918
H s l O 1071
H s l F 919
H s HER/F  431
HR UN  208
Her DO/Hr since  N/430
Day s l C  132

4.06 Monday Diary

OUT  and in car  6:29.  Home 7:11.

Merry was gone; left ..with Stitch, who’s on vacation this week, to take Babyman home, then go to the OC courthouse…again… to file papers.

I fed all the animals… 

Prepared my DM (leftover Easter ham, and sweet potatoes the way SHE makes ‘em) and  watched the season finale of ‘Shameless’ in the bedroom, while eating. 

Sunshine called to say ‘hello’ and ‘goodnight’ just as I was finishing and going to sleep,  0915.

At some point, she came home, came in and said, “You wanna donut?”

Uh, no, not right now, thanks.

Because of the rantings of her PBS, she had to go BACK to the OC courthouse, with Stitch…

I got up to P, and found  a box of Krispy Cremes on the dining room table, with 5 remaining.

I ate two, along with a cupcake from the Easter basket that I had brought home from work.

She came home…at some time… I was asleep, and got in bed next to me..

She told me …through my sleepy fog… that Coco’s bratty ‘puppy’ had taken the box off the table, and eaten the last 3 of the donuts.

Up about 1730,  checked email, returned texts from a couple ‘buddies’, and played Trivia Crack…  looked at mail…

Toilet, shower, dry, toilet…

Talked to Merry, who was waking up….

She said, “You’re taking me car, right?”

I replied, “We did not discuss it, and if we don’t discuss it first, I’m not going to do it.  Gotta go.” I kissed Her  good bye, and left.

Traffic was unusually for a Monday gnarly in the 17-50 interchange…

I pulled into work  19:31.

..An event going on…  the premiere of the upcoming tv show, ‘The Comedians’ …  15 cars, we farmed out 11 of them.

120 rides for the day (Monday),  54 farm outs.

99 so far for Tuesday, with 5 farm outs so far.  Which means, most of the work is in the evening, and we’ll be farming bunches, then.

H s l S   894

H s l O  1047

H s L Fun 895

H s HER L F  407

HR unl 184

Her DO?hrs since  N/406

D s l CI  131

4.05 Easter Sunday Diary

545,  up   P & S, saw Stitch sleeping on an reclining chair, covered in a blanket.

Up 10:00 with a P from Merry.

She was a bit upset that I was not interested in 'sex' as Sunshine had told Her I might be.... but Sunshine misquoted me, I told her I was 'hopeful' if I felt better... and I did not...
so Sunshine took off to pick up Babyman, and bring him to the house.

UP 1330.  Toilet, shower, dressed...
Packed up, checked email...
She and Babyman walked in as I was almost ready....

In my car 1437....
Stopped at the 7-11 for Vuse filters...
At work  1527.....

Easy night, doing set up for Monday....
Sunday, 93 rides, 29 farmed.
Monday,  98 rides  19 farmed (so far).

H s L S  870
h s l o    1023
H s l Fun   871
h s HER l F  383
HR  UN  160
Her DO/Hr s   N/382
D s l c  130

4.04 Saturday Diary

7:30  UP.  Toilet, showered, dressed...toilet again, packed up, made coffee to go.
  Kissed Her good-bye.   Told Stitch, make sure She's awake by 1030.
  8:16  in car. 
  8:51.  At work  8:51.
Forgot my ADP password.  Tried three times, got locked out. Had to reset the password, couldn't get clocked in til 0915, but my supervisor, who was on duty there, said, he'd adjust it.
A fairly mellow shift..

UP and out  19:30.
Merry and Stitch were in Merry's car, in the driveway, waiting for me..driver's seat open.
Which meant, I drove, to the Poly Dinner we were attending, in Brbnk.  
We arrived,  8ish.
I was without jacket,  having left one at home, and another in MY car at work..and it was cold as a witch's tit in the restaurant.
After an hour or so, I went to sit outside for awhile.
Merry came out...I told Her I was fine, just too cold inside....
She went back in, and later, sent Stitch to check on me.
But Stitch went out the back door, got lost, and spent time listening to some live music being played while he was lost.  
I came back in before he did.
And we departed.
I returned to the office, and got out, to get my car, and Merry switched over to the driver's seat.
She had a stop to make on the way home  (looking for sweet potatoes again) and I had to get gas.
Found a 76 gas, directly across the street from the 7-11 that I go to, every couple weeks, and had not even noticed the 76 there.
Only got 8 gallons, afraid of maxxing out the 76 card.  
Home, 23:22.
IN bed with Merry...and we spent another hour talking, and playing Trivia Crack back and forth on our phones.
Sleep, 0045.

H s l S  846
H s l O  999
H s l Fun  847
H s Her l Fun  359
H UN   136
Her DO?/Hr since   N/358
D s l CI  129
  

4.03 Friday Diary

Home,  01:20.
Dinner.... watched The Big Bang Theory ... 
0230, sleep
0400 up P & S
0815  up feed the animals...snack...P.
845 asleep,
1100 awakened by Her, home from appointment with J. 
I thought my alarm was set for 1000, but guess I'm still learning my way around this new phone.
Toilet, shower, dry dress....
12:00 in Her car together, me driving, to HB, K's house, to pick up paperwork... 
Then to courthouse in S.A..... She was inside... 15 minutes, maybe twenty...
Back to HB to drop paperwork....
then to a Mex restaurant in HB for lunch...
and headed home.
1600, at home...
Scooped litter box, cleaned up the newspaper all over our bedroom floor, filled the dogs' big water bottle...
Watched "Archer", "Shameless", tried to take a nap...
Gave up, 1830...
Up, toilet... dressed and prepped...
1920 On duty for Lyft-ing.
Got one ride, just before 2100.
Home and done,  2130...with a head ache and nausea.
She asked for company, and I drove Her to the market, and waited in the car.
Then we went to another market in search of sweet potatoes, but none to be had there either.
Home...
Eat  (banana, popcorn, graham crackers)...
While watching  "Scorpion"..
Lights out  00:20.

H s l S  822
H s l O  975
H s L F(me) 823
H s L F (her) 335
Hr UN 112
Her DO/hrs since  No/334
D s L CIG  128

4.02 DIary THursday

0230  up P & S
0600 up P & S
She brought me a Pill...
Still in bed, we watched "Comic Book Men" and "The Following"
 then we talked....
Then watched "Criminal Minds"
 ...and a nap....
1715, Up and dressed.
Once ready, I went out to 'the car' 18:00 and set it up for Lyft-ing.
And ..had to go get gas.
Went 'on duty' from the 76 at Atl and So.
Went to *bux for an iced coffee...
2115 home to use the toilet, still not a ride yet.
 I got six orders..that immediately cancelled, before getting some 'real' rides...   three in a row, each over $9.
then one, kind of a 'screw' because he input it as Lyft-share, meaning he got a flat rate from A to B but once he got to B, he asked me to take him to C, much further away,  so... I took him from Lkwd to Ana  for a flat rate of $6.00
  (I immediately sent an email to L, about it, and come to find out later,  he added a $5 tip to the charge, and L was going to give me another nine bucks.)
After dropping him, I headed home.... 

H s l S  798
H s l O  951
H s L F(me) 799
H s L F (her) 311
Hr UN 88
Her DO/hrs since  No/310
D s L CIG  127

4.01 Wednesday Diary

Off work, in car  0925.
Went to H.D., purchased cord for the whip/weeder whacker,  and super glue.
Home....  brought my stuff inside the house,  changed to my outdoor-clothes,  and went to work on the yard.
Managed to do the entire outside sidewalk area, and the primary western quadrant of the inner front yard.
In the house...scooped the cat box...  moved my car across the street, to just in front of the house...
Took a shower...
created a DM, and watched "Justified" while eating....and went to sleep 1630.

20:30 kind of awake, as dinner was served.
ANd watched 'SVU' for today, then one from last week...
  and back to sleep  23:30.

H s l S  774
H s l O  927
H s L F(me) 775
H s L F (her) 287
Hr UN 64
Her DO/hrs since  No/286
D s L CIG  126

3.31 Tuesday Diary

In car and rolling home,  6:43.

Home, 7:35. 

Fed the animals, did some dishes, found the empty spool for the weeder whacker that I can take to HD, and maybe get the right replacement this time…  started rummaging in drawers for the small clipboard I wanted to use while out Lyft-ing…and saw that She was awake…  lying in bed, eyes open, waiting for me to join Her … to talk.

 I prepped my DM, and came in to the bedroom, to dine.

She wanted to talk about … the announcement… I hit Her with, the day before…  (that until I’m really feeling it, until I’m feeling good, and am not in constant pain of some greater or lesser degree in my gut, that I choose to shun all BDSM-related activities, and stick to a rather vanilla lifestyle).

We had a bit of a discussion (argument…) about feedback, and what it constitutes… 

Which kind of resulted in my saying, I was not of a mind to listen to an argument against my decision, but I was open to, well, commentary. 

And Her commentary was: I AM Her husband, and whether or not I actively participate in…well, BDSM activities, I remain a … or rather, HER, submissive / slave.

That really did not sit well in my gut, but I let it go, as She had plenty to deal with, as it was.

And in seconds, Sunshine was ‘out’ and crying, “Shilo, you don’t wanna be my daddy no more?”

So I had to explain, that THIS had nothing to do with being her daddy, that I love her incredibly so much, and this and that are not related, and etc.

To sleep, 10:00.

Awake, 12:15 for P & S and reading messages that Kt send to Her on FL.

Back to sleep, from 1240 to 1600 or so.

Just after 5, She was prepping to go to the market, once Stitch was ready…

I got up..1710…  put my clean laundry away…  dumped and cleaned the chamber pot …

Showered and dressed…   got myself ready…

She (they) returned home…

I kissed Her good bye…

In car 1832, and made great time, for a Tuesday, or any day.

Turns out..as told to me by a co-worker …it’s Cesar Chavez Day.

Busy enough at work.  Not berserk, but enough to keep me from being bored, while working with (and training MY way) TNKOTB, KW.

H s l S  750

H s l O  903

H s l F for me  751

H s l F for Her  263

Hr UN  40

Her DO?/hrs since   N/262

Days since last C  125