October 30 Monday Diary

looking at videos, etc
NOT sleeping

8:00 up, fed cat n dog, pills
Called shop about car
got dressed, went down to car
Wouldn't start, waited for jump
Took car to shop
Got a ride home with them
Waiting on couch   looking at email  etc
Tried to take a nap but no dice
Shop called 16:45    car not ready
Showered dressed  pill packed  
Kissed Merry good bye
Downstairs, summoned Lyft car
5 minutes maybe
At Willow station....5 minutes maybe for train
Arrived for Red line 
off at Universal 
Summoned Lyft
Office 7:35
OTC  19:43 -- 23:58

Avik and Denny left at 23:30
Immediately, two calls at once... sigh.

October 29 Sunday Diary

In bedroom
Up 2 pee, and  down

Up 10
Coffee
Merry out with A to MM

At desk, bill pay, diary

Down to car to see if it would start
Nope
Called AAA battery service.
Tech said, bad alternator and battery

Upstairs worked on fantasies and pix
Nap
Up 1630

Started watching game 5 of WS
Sunshine home, got a little sick on some ride-she went to bedroom

Read newspaper
Dinner 2 lunchables n chips
Nap 1800-2200

Up for end of game

Back to bedroom
Talked with Merry about
....spank or no spank   (for now, no)
... Do I get aroused looking at spanking videos (not so much)
...or what does around me (my own fantasies)
...does she turn me on? Yes
  because I get turned on either by spanking and fantasies thereof, or quite simply sexually, in some fashion that might be referred to as 'normal'

October 28 Saturday Diary

800 up coffee

Talked to Dad

w AHS

Nap til 1630

UP for Game   OU and TT

 while looking at Tumblr and blogs

Dinner  baked chicken and quinoa

Input one new 'story' on other blog

Nap on couch until going to bed....

october 27 friday

up 0700 fed cats

800 pills

1000 coffee

laptop

thurs diary

looking at blogs

1200 dressed to car

dead battery
called Aaa
took 5 min

Winco
wells fargo
vons

home 1515
groc up/away

laptop

nap to 2030
dinner stirfry n rice

w  Vice Principals
nap on couch
bed 2300

oct 26 thurs diary

otc 0026 to 532
crazy night with phone calls, 2 or 3 at a time
car 542 home 634
fed animals
pulled laundry
talked to M
S offered, declined  I am still miffed about the "timer" conversation
Oral offered  accepted
mdm  lunchables, pb on tortillas, chips
w CM
pills
Brushed teeth
In bedroom
sleeping
M out on lunch date
email from Dad
Thinking about work and Dad
 panic attack

text to Denny and Ivik
Denny said he would get my shift covered
sleep
up 1930
shower dress
dinner Pastrami on toast
w Vice Principals
bed 2030

Oct 25th Wednesday Diary

OTC  00:26 to 05:50

Car 5:55  home 6:57

Fed animals

Talked To Merry

She asked The Question, I said Yes.

She smacked my bottom, as I stood naked at the door, for 

all of 90seconds? 2 minutes.

but Donna was barking outside the door, and who gives a fuck anyway, she barks all the damn time, and so Merry stopped

Pix in bathroom

MDM pulled pork n chips, 

Watched Scorpion

Pills? Yes  Brushed teeth? Yes

bed 0900

Up 14:00 ish

up 16:55

Shower brushed teeth  dressed

Pill? yes

Packed

Kissed Her goodbye

With Stitch, took garbage cans to curb

Car 17:25  

P/l 19:14

OTC 19;22  23:56

The night was easy enough, but the fuckin' morning....  

That's a different blog though

I DO get spanked by a beautiful Mistress, thank you, but I wish I wish it lasted longer than a minute or two.

October 24th, TUES Diary

OTC  0026: 0538
Car 5:45  home 06:31
Walked in the door, in the dark, stepped on the black cat under my feet.
He hissed and yowled, and I yelled, "G.. D.... it!"
Fed the animals.
Went in to talk to Merry.
She was, oddly, awake.
And asked, "So, do you deserve..."
And I said, "Yes, I stepped on the cat and loudly said your most despised curse words."
"Okay then. Get ready."
I started stripping and she saw my TWs.
"Those have urine stains. Put on new ones when I'm done."
"Yes, dear."
Naked, I got on the bed, FDAU, and waited.
She did not tell me to get FDAU, but there's something about the feeling of being in position, and just ... waiting....
She returned from the bathroom, and commence spanking me, starting with the medium brown paddle, then using the bath brush to bring a nice red color to my bottom.
She went back to bed.
I put on clean TW and went about my morning, which consisted of
MDM  pulled pork on buns, n chips, and watching The Good Doctor  and I took my pills and brushed my teeth!

Bed 8:45 ish

I woke up a few times, always feeling a sense of dread about how awful busy it's going to be at work.
I really really thought about calling in sick.

Up an hour late, intentionally, 17:10
Shower dressed  Pill  back Kissed her good bye.
car 17:43   
Office 19:19
In 19:30
AND it was not nearly as bad as I predicted.  Denny and Ivik had the work covered down to one lone job.  
I had to do PM set up for Wednesday, and not all that much there.
So...much ado about nothing.
OUT 23:55

DD contract dilemma

A DD Contract Dilemma for Wives

Well ladies , the DD contract has been drafted and your husband has been summoned to you for the formal signing.

While you have dressed in a business-like fashion for this formal occasion , he is appropriately attired as required by the contract he is about to sign - naked.

Your husband appears much more excited about the occasion than you are so  you are faced with a dilemma ....
Should you have him sign the contract before  or after you paddle his backside raw?

So ladies , which would you prefer?

This wife has decided she would rather deal with the formalities before getting down to business.
His attention to the details may  be affected by the presence of the marital paddle which will be applied to his backside after signing.....

This wife has opted to give her husband a taste of what he is signing up for , in the event he might change his mind. Evidently it did not change his mind and he is even more anxious to sign up than ever, although his sore backside may distract him  from reading the fine print ....

So, am I supposed to get naked before we sign the document? 

Wish we had time to try this:

OTK hairbrush, 2 minutes
  one minute break
100 with light paddle
  one minute break
50 with larger paddle
 one minute break
50 with  strap/tawse
  one minute break
50 with bath brush
  one minute break
Wooden spoon, 3 minutes
  one minute break
50 with short cane
 one minute break
20 with Long cane 
 ....   done? 

OCTOBER 23RD, MONDAY DIARY

Up to pee  several times

7:00 fed animals took pills

back to bed, all day

UP 16:15
T, shower  dress packed  T 
Kissed her good bye
In car 17:00....Stitch called, flat tire at Alameda n Willow.
I went and got him and bike in car.
Back home so he could get red card from Merry
Took him to bike shop on Pacific\
Came back home for toilet.
Out again 1741 
Stopped for gas
OFfice parking lot  19:15
In 19:21 OUt 23:56
Fairly easy night, but tomorrow's gonna be a bitch.

caught up on diaries.

Input on my other blog,  "The Genie of Fantasy"  10 -- 15.

OCTOBER 22ND SUNDAY DIARY

UP TO PEE

Up to pee

Up for alka seltzer

Up to pee

Up for more alka seltzer.

Up to pee.

Up for dinner,  chicken  jojos coleslaw

back to bed....

The whole day.

October 21st, Saturday Diary

UP 0100
Up 0300
Up 0900
Sunshine offered, and I accepted....
Some kind of spanking, in Stitch's room, my notes are a scribble
  Coffee and pills
checked accounts on line
Updating lists
Looking a videos I could download
Before going to the market, Sunshine offered another and I accepted
61 + 25 with the zombie killer!

She and Stitch went to the market. 
I took a shower and dressed
watched OU KSU
They returned.
I helped put away groceries
Continued with videos
Merry offered another, and I accepted...
About 150 whacks with red paddle

dinner   chicken n jojos n coleslaw, and watched AHS-Cult
Heading to bed, we made a deal...
I went to bedroom, stripped naked, got on bed, prone face down... just to spend some time with the feeling of 'anticipation' before a spanking.  I could feel my pulse racing, my blood pressure rising.
She came in and applied a dose of two implements to my bottom while I was prone, then had me get FDAU for a dose of the zombie killer to my sit spot.
Then she got on her back on the bed, panties off, and I got between her legs, and gave her a long overdue  oral orgasm.
Sleep  midnight ish.
After number 1:

after number 2:

after number 3:

After # 4:

OCTOBER 20TH FRIDAY DIARY

otc  0025 TO 605
Car 6:11  home 718
Fed animals
Input my diary for Thursday
Talked to Merry
MDm  bbq chicken n chips   Watched "Vice Principals" 
To bedroom
Sleep  09   up 11
up 17:00
showered n dressed
She asked if I deserve, I said yes.
So, 40 with church paddle applied.
If I took pix, I don't know where I put 'em
Car 18:45 
Lake Forest Munch
Home 22:20
bed 23;30.

October 19 Thursday Diary

OTC 0028 to 0543
car 549 to 636
UP
fed animals
talked to Merry who was far too tired to offer
MDM roasted chicken and  Lunchables
W Crim.Minds
took pills
brushed teeth
Sleep  830
up 1400
again 1635
Talking

She was awake but ...nothing offered
shower dress pack
kissed her goodbye
Forgot pm med
car 1724
office 1919
in 1932
volume busy but manageable
out 2355

Oct 20th Interesting stuff

Got the wording right on this one

and finally

October 18th Wednesday Diary

A bit of a stupid night, what with a ride in Dallas that was supposed to be for 02:15 was input for 14:15.

Emailed back and forth with Merry about my list, an updated version of "house rules".

Worked on my newest blog:  https://mylifespankedhusband.blogspot.com

OTC 00:29 to 05:36

Car 05:42   stopped for Gas
Home 6:43
Fed animals
Talked to Merry, who wasn't feeling well enough to ask "the question."

MDM   chicken n lunchables  
TOOK morning pills
W  "Scorpion"
Went to pee
Went to bed 8:30
  and told by Merry, who went into bathroom moments later, that I left the toilet seat up!
Awake 1130  As Merry was going out on a lunch date

UP 16;15  as Merry came to bed,  still not feeling well enough to ask 'the question'
Toilet  shower dressed  
TOOK a pill
Kissed her good bye
Stitch took the trash cans to the curb
Car 17:01
Pk Lot 1853
In 19:01
Mostly quiet night.
A bit of a drama with a driver who misunderstood directions, and returned to base, when we had him doing a pick up for a VIP at 2300 , so 30 minutes notice
BUT he still made it, arrived at LAX, and called 'code 4' a minute later
Merry and I exchanged emails about a new  document
OFF the clock 23:55

I've been given a set of 18 rules?directives?  that make sense for me to live by
Looking at 'em for today--
I did not offer Merry a DO,  but I'm confident she would have declined.
I did not brush my teeth after my morning meal. (I did before work though)
And, somehow, I forgot to put the toilet set down after urinating. I swear, first time in a LONG time.
Oh well

OCT 18th random finds

SURE!

would love to find this note someday

YES YES

what, you mean now?

of course not

seems familiar

True, this

October 17 Random finds

October 17th Tuesday Diary

OTC 00:28 to 05:38
VERY quiet night, hardly any phone calls
Car 5;45  home 6:29
Fed animals
Talked to Merry.
She was having toilet issues, like constantly going.
She offered ("Do you deserve a ...) and while I wanted to say 'Yes', we agreed she really wasn't in good shape to deliver.
MDM steak n chips
FORGOT a.m. pills
Watched  "Good Doctor"
Bed 0830
Up once  twice?
UP 16:15  p'd  showered dressed
Checked on her in the bedroom.
She offered ("Do you deserve..") and said she was ready to deliver.
I said "Yes," and fetched the medium church paddle and the dogleg hairbrush.
With me leaning against the door, she delivered some 40 smacks of each implement to my bare buttocks.

Selfies I took in the dining room, so not the best quality.
I kissed her good bye, and was off
FORGOT to take evening meds.
car 17:17   p/l 19:00
OTC 19:07 to 23:57.

October 16th, Monday, Diary

Asleep and awake etc

Up 13:15
Tlt, shower, dressed, tlt
Merry stayed home to finish A's laundry, so I went alone
to Walmart to get my scrip  (tlt)  then back home
(Tlt)
Merry joined me, and we went to my dr appointment.

We discussed...IF the dr was going to perform a digital rectal exam, what to say if he mentions the bruises on my bottom.  
We decided to say, 'We were at a party....subject of birthdays came up and a paddle came out...and Merry was overly enthusiastic giving me 60.."
At the dr at 15:50
Finally in an exam room at 16:30
Talked about my foot  (referall coming to podiatrist)
And my symptoms of  prostatitis.
All he wanted was a urine sample....
Which he 'looked' at while we waited.
He came back and said, he was going to send it out for urinalysis.
No digital exam performed.
Another apptment made for Nov 13.
Home...dropped Merry, got my bags.
Rolling to work 18:00
In parking lot 19:32.
OTC ...19:38 to 23:58
A really slow night  (up to midnight ya know)
With Denny here til 2300
And Thing2 here til 23:30
Had an email exchange with Merry about starting up our FLR-DD relationship again.
We'll see how that goes.

October 15th, Sunday, Diary

Then a snack  (jojos n coleslaw for me) and both of us to bed.

Couple hours later, we got up for dessert, and finally dug into the cheesecake that's been in the freezer awhile.
And we watched TBBT from last Monday

Back to bed.

Up later....
Read newspapers in bed.
Napping

UP for dinner...
Roasted chicken, coleslaw n chips
Watched
  Lucifer
  AHS
back to bed.

"Pulp Fiction" was on, so I started watching that til I went to sleep again.

October 14th, Saturday Diary

UP 0930 

with a migraine

coffee...

in bedroom, watching football  (OU vs Texas)

Talked to Dad...

Napped  and used  small laptop...

Merry went grocery shopping

Dinner   jojo's n coleslaw...

Showered n dressed for party

Left 1945

Arrived 2015 or so

Was bored to all heck while the leader talked about Introductions and Negotiations.

Finally  party on

People were slow about getting it on, and I told Merry I wasn't going to 'go on' first.

She had cancelled a possible date for the party, because of my morning migraine, so that person did not come to the party at all

Merry had a nice chat with one guy-dressed-as-girl

We watched a scene in front of us of a plump woman, on her back on a bench, restrained at ankles and wrist, her right hand free to use a vibrator on herself,  while various guys came along and put on gloves, and put their hand into what I described as her 'cavernous' vagina.

Another scene across the way from us:

One petite woman ..naked.... facing a cross, another woman flogging and spanking her.

Other scenes going on in other rooms....

In time,  we decided to utilize the available spanking bench in the other room.

I took off my shorts, kept my shirt on, because vinyl on skin is so sticky;  Merry took down my panties; I straddled the bench, and she beat on my bare bottom with I-don't-know-how-many implements.

She seemed pleased with the results.  Couldn't take any pix THERE so pix waited til we got home.

At midnight the raffle was held.  Everybody that showed up got a ticket Everybody that attended the pre party lecture got another ticket

Merry didn't see anything she wanted of the offerings, so at my urging, we put all our tickets in the cup for a butt plug.

We won!

Shortly after that, we headed home.

And I took these pix

October 13th, Friday Diary

OTC 00:25 to 05:45
A rough night...or morning...constant phones from 3:30 to 05:00.

car 5:55  stopped for gas
Home 7:08
Talked to Merry.
Spanking offered and declined
Fed animals
MDM chili n lunchables.  Watched Orville
Bed

While I slept, Merry went to a med appointment;  dropped the rent check off in HB, and dropped Babyman in HB, and returned home

Up 19:30 maybe
Spanking offered and declined
Dinner   chili n chips 

quickly back to bed.

Oct 12th Thursday Diary

OTC 00: 26  to 5:32
Merry mostly slept on the floor next to me, whilst I worked

In car 5:49  home 6:38

"Do you deserve a spanking," she asked.
"Yes, dear."
"Get ready in the bedroom."
I went and stripped to mesh undies and socks.
She came in with the wooden spoon she acquired the night before and delivered about 60 strokes to my bottom.

what I wore to work

Taken down and spanked

 Then I fed the animals and prepped my MDM: fried chicken that she bought the previous night, cheetos...and watched "Criminal Minds".  
Went to bedroom, reading Thrillist blog entries, while wondering if the landlord would call
Sleep 0900
He called around 10:00.  No check at his office yet.  
Given options we decided that Merry would deliver check to his office in HB, when she drops off Babyman.

Back to sleep
Woke up around 14:00 with a piss hard on, looking like this

Got up to pee and back to sleep

Alarm went off at 16;15
Merry came in, just back from the market, quite mad.
"Did you move money from hh account to djp?"
"Yes, to cover that ride in CLE that I offered my credit card for."
"And you didn't tell me, so I'm at the market trying to pay for groceries, and my card was declined.  I was very upset, wondering where the money went. Stitch was with me, so we used his.  Still, you should have told me.  Now I KNOW you deserve a spanking!"

So, many/most of the spankings she gives me are For No Particular Reason  or  Just Because ... because she likes to spank me and I like to be spanked.
If any reason was 'needed', it could easily because, of my attitude most of the time, my sarcastic mouth, my sullen disposition, my not giving her sexual fulfillment anywhere NEAR as much as she deserves... the list could go on.
However, THIS time, I really deserved a spanked.
So, I showered, and dressed in a black sheer thong that did nothing to cover my bottom,  put on a robe to go to the living room to tell her I was ready.
She told me to 'pick something', and I chose the flexible leatherish paddle that she had won at a raffle at a party.
We returned to the bedroom, and she bade me bend over
She said, "After each swat, you will say 'I will tell Merry whenever I move money around in our accounts.'
She gave my butt some 20 hard swats, and after each I repeated the words.
Then she proceeded to give each of my cheeks 10 or so rapid swats, followed by ten or so hard swats to my upper thighs, near the sit spot.
Then she was good enough to take pictures on my phone.

Done, I finished dressed, and packed up, and kissed her good bye.
Car 17:10 
Office 18;54
Upstairs,  went to restroom, clocked in
19:11 
I expected the worst for the night, but it was 95% under control. I just had to juggle a couple things... then do set up for the next evening, which was easy enough.
Out 23:55

October 11th Wednesday Diary

OOT  00:26 to 5:44.
In the car with Merry  at 5:52
Home 6;37
She went to start hot water for tea, while asking, "Do you deserve a spanking?"
"Yes."
"Strip and wait for me in the bedroom."
I stripped to a green thong and socks,  and waited.
She came in with the zombie killer.
With me bent over, hands on the door, she paddled my bottom with her right hand, her left hand, her right hand again, her left hand again, more than 60 swats in all.
We hugged.
I went off to feed animals and make MDM pork chops n lunchables.
While Watching Scorpion. She watched half of it, and went to bed.
At 8:00 I followed her.
Up once or twice.
Up 16:25 showered dressed 
Prepped
Called the landlord, who had messaged me about not yet receiving the rent check.
Car with Merry  17:14
Office 19:05
She came upstairs to use the restroom, then went back down to the car, to go meet her date at a restaurant.
In 19:12
Kinda of a quiet night
Up to the point at 2200 when some booker input online several rides in Cleveland.
Our primary affil. accepted 3.
I called our #2...but they have our company on credit hold.
I only got them to accept the ride by offering my own credit card.
Merry returned to the office around 21:30.
And went to sleep around 2230 
She got up in the wee hours for maybe an hour, and went back to sleep
OTC 19:12 to 23:56
What I wore under my pants to work: