8.31 on chastity for couples

Chastity - Some of Her Concerns

If your wife is not dominant by nature she may be worried that you want her to become something which she feels incapable of being. She may agree to your chastity desires just to please you. Is she submissively agreeing to your domineering need for submissiveness? She may begin to wonder why you want her to change, and to question whether you love her as she is? She may start to question your whole relationship .

Some women will be concerned that your fetish means you will not be the man she married. Perhaps one of the reasons she loves you is because of your manliness and because you have always made the first move sexually. She may be worried that you will change in to some indecisive slave, when who she married was someone with his own mind and an animal in bed. You need to carefully explain that she will be controlling your desires without diminishing your qualities as a man. There is no reason why a man locked in chastity can’t initiate sexual playtime. Part of your wife’s version of dominating you may be to insist that you make the first move to orally serve her, to give to her as many orgasms as she would like, and then to gently massage her shoulders as she falls asleep, while you have been denied your own orgasm.

The main thing is that you both progress from turning fantasies into reality at a pace which is comfortable for you both. This initially will need to be judged by you. So be careful and don’t push the idea too fast, unless of course she wants to! You cannot teach her to be dominant, you need to allow her to find her own style, and if it is not as strict and as domineering as you would like, then you must adjust your own expectations, and to accept what she wants of her role. A submissive male in chastity should gladly accept his keyholder’s methods and techniques, his goal in life is to please her.

I know if she’s open to the idea of keyholding, her mind will be planning little ways to tease and excite you, just thinking of how to excite and deny a man is as equally arousing for the woman as wearing the device is for the man.

In addition to delighting in the sexual pleasures she will receive from your newly improved attentiveness, she will begin to appreciate the extra tasks you will perform around the house. She will soon realise that within almost every woman is the potential is become the loving dominant partner of the relationship.

*Hmmm* Scenes venus Three special punishment video

A roleplay:

Making a video of special punishment.

<Camera on him>

Her voice:  “For a repeat violation of Rule number ….,  you will be receiving special punishment. Be in the living room at 2 o’clock, prepared to receive instructions.

…

<Again, camera on him, fully dressed>

Her voice:  “In my chat with friends, I’ve mentioned special punishment .  Some have expressed curiosity, so I’ve decided to video record this session, and post it in a fashion that it can be seen. Notice [..] holding the camera.  Camera on, please, focused on him.”

Camera on him, she continues:  “This is Special punishment, being administered for a repeat violation of rule number … in our Marital and Household Agreement.  Start by .. stripping, naked.”

He does so.

“Get the pillory, put it in the center of the floor, there.”

He does so.

“Face the pillory, ankles in the clamps… separate the bars, put your junk in between the bars, and screw down the bars….. okay, now then…”

She enters camera, kneels down, to close and lock the ankle clamps.

She picks up an inflatable vibrating butt plug, lubes it, slips it between his cheeks, into his anus,  gives it a couple pumps, as he flinches, and activates the vibrator.  She produces a bar of soap, holds it to his mouth. “Open!” 

He opens his mouth, she shoves it in. “Bite down.”

“Stretch out your arms, open your hands.”   He does, and she puts 3 lb. dumbbell weights in each one. “Hold them.”

“Your goal is to hold on to those, until I say otherwise.” She goes, off camera.

Camera zooms in on the plug in his butt, his package sticking out between the bars, the shaking in his arms, the look on his face….

After five minutes, she returns on camera, and takes the weights out of his hands, as a look of relief crosses his face, and he slowly lowers his arms.  She stops the vibrator, and removes the plug from his butt.  She undoes the screws on the bar clamps, separates the bars, and with a hip movement, his pulls his junk out from the bars. She kneels and unlocks the ankle clamps, and says, “Turn around.”  He does, now with his butt to the pillory, and she relocks the ankle clamps.  She brings a stool, for him to put his hands on, and says, “Bend over.” He does,  and she adjusts the pillory’s height, then pulls his sac out, between his legs, puts it between the bars of the pillory, and screws it down.  She brings over the full enema bag (that she prepared during his earlier ‘down’ time, and inserts the nozzle of the double bardex into his anus, and inflates it.  She puts a sheet of paper down on the stool where he can see it. “I am going to remove the bar of soap, and you will immediately begin reading this over and over, while I start the enema flow,  and you will continue reading while you retain the enema. Now…begin.”

She takes out the bar of soap, and he makes a face, and begins reading:

“I will not raise my voice at my wife…. I will not direct sarcasm at my wife… I will not direct foul or abusive language at my wife… I will not argue with my wife in an angry fashion…”

She opens the valve… the bag empties into his rectum. He grunts and groans and grimaces as he continues reading, sometimes through gritted teeth.

After five minutes,  she return within camera… undoes the screws on the bars and separates them, pulling his sac out from between them, and kneels to unlock the ankle clamps.  She takes the enema bag off the stand, and says, “Stand up… take this and go, evacuate. Get cleaned up, and come back here. You have ten minutes. Go.”

He hurries off camera, to the bathroom.

<Camera fade out/in>

Still naked, he returns, to stand in front of her.

She says, “Tell me what you’ve learned.”

“I will not raise my voice at my wife, I will not direct sarcasm at my wife, I will not direct foul or abusive language at my wife, I will not argue with my wife in an angry fashion.”

“Fine.  NOW, go clean the bathroom – tub, toilet, sink and floor.  Then, sweep and mop the kitchen floor.  Then, go to the corner. Once I see you in the corner, you’ll have fifteen minutes there, before I administer a Merry Two beating.”

He walks off camera.  Camera goes to her; She says, “And there it is…”

Fade out.

* :-/ "Scenes Heart two Pillory Training

♥ 2

In the cock n ball pillory (CBP)

"Time for some Pillory training," she says. "Get naked, get in here."

He is summoned and he appears, naked.

  He steps into the pillory, ankles in the clamps, and she locks them.  The vise is opened; his cock and balls are inserted between the bars, and the clamp is tightened.

He holds his arms straight out, and weights are put in his hands.

He must hold his arms, straight out, for (RNG 2-10) minutes.

If he drops his arms, he is given a two-minute rest period, then starts again, with two minutes added to the original time.

If he is unable to finish the allotted time on three tries, she applies (RNG 8-15) strikes of the waffle maker, sharp side, to the FRONT of his thighs.

If he completes the trial within three tries, she applies (RNG 10-20) strikes of the waffle maker, dull side, square onto his buttocks.

He is released.

8.31 Monday ..at work...Diary

after midnight at work:

01:00 call tranferred to NY
01:30  new booked for PHL at 0730.  Required me to make two other calls to get it covered 
01:31  request for a new pickup downtown at 05:00 (no) 
02:25 tranferred to NY
02:35  request for chauffeur info on several rides
03:35  transferred to NY
04:30  transferred to NY

05:15 a.m. dispatcher arrived.
05:40 a.m.  AM rez-agent arrived, a bit late.

06:20 leaving, heading home.

8.31 I really wish I felt better....

There's this

sometimes you just need it

and this:

Not that it matters ...right away.... with the boys at home.  

Every day, a little better, I can only hope.

8.30 SUnday Diary

Still feeling crappy...
Waking up off and on, convincing myself I AM going to work...
 Waking up other times, trying to figure out HOW I could go to work like this.
DID get up 1500 ish.

 Took a shower, packed up, and got into car 16:00 
At work 17:00.
The night of the MTV Video Awards.
 The night work was well managed and put together, I just had to deal with the morning work, and not much of that ...
Then had to deal with the nuttiness that happens when one of these shows 'breaks'.

s l S    70 Hr
s l O   529 H
s l F/me  269 Hr
s l F/Her  269 Hr
Un         420 Hr
s h l Do   70 Hr
s l CI  277 D
Glu Free  37 D
S H last D  500 H
s l P or M  16 d 

8.29 Saturday Diary

Just 
  feeling  
   crappy ...
  A pain in my stomach that would not let up....
  Trying to sleep in a house that would not cool down....

  Sleep and awake
 Sleep and awake...

Dinner..... beef stew....

watched "Sex & Drugs & Rock & Roll"
 watched "Blunt Talk" ...
  and sleeping....

We talked about going to the 'big' party at BoD...
 I just could not get up for it, I just did not want to move.

Numbers: 
 who cares, see tomorrow's.

8.28 Friday Diary

In BR1 together...
 Rewatched 'Zoo'....
Engaged in oral and intercourse....  0200  
sleeping..

Awake, kind of  1300 
 and feeling
  like 
   crap.
  Depressed, a lot..
 and a dull ache in my belly that I could not shake.

She wanted to go to the market; I suggested, we wait for sundown.

I dozed in the living room chair  until like   20:00
Up and dressed...
We went to Von's and Winco... and home...

Dinner .. baked chicken and rice....
and to BR1 to sleep some more.

s l S   22 Hr
s l O   481 Hr
S l Fun/me  221 H
s l Fun/Her  221 H
UN  372 Hr
s h l DO  22 Hr
s l Ci  275 Dy
Glu Free  35 D
S H last D  452 H
s l P or M  14 D

8.27 Thursday Diary

In bed, watched reruns of some show or other...  sleep about 02:30

Kind of awake, 0800...

We started fooling around, and engaged in oral and intercourse, with no happy ending for me.... 11.00

Into the living room...
watching  "The Newsroom" on my tablet... 
half asleep most of the time...

Merry started having problems that were keeping Her close to the toilet, so when it came time, I got to be the driver to take Bullfrog, along with Babyman, to his storage unit, with the last of the stuff that was in my car, then go to his ex-apartment, to check out a motorcycle that he was considering taking over possession of, but it would not fit in my vehicle... and from there, he went his own way on a skateboard, and I returned home with Babyman.   

Back in chair, napping, watching "The Newsroom" ....

Dinner... no idea what...  while reading Thursday's paper...

and moved into BR1

s l S   13 Hr
s l O  457 Hr
s l F/me  197 H
s l F/Her  197 Hr
UN  348 Hr
S H l DO  13 H
s l Ci  274 Dy
Glu free 34 D
S Her l D  428 H
S l P or M  13 D

8.26 Wednesday Diary, after work and home

Left work  8:45.
Home 9:39.
Looked into the garage, as I was told the electric garage door was not working.
Given that most of the outlets in the garage were not working, decided it to be a circuit breaker, but have yet to narrow down just which one.
MDM  pork and rice, while watching "Rizzoli and Isles".
Merry got an emergency call from Her oldest son, asking Her to come help him.
She got up and dressed, and took Babyman with Her to go do that, I went into the cooler BR2 to get some sleep.
Shortly, She called me to say, She was coming back to use my vehicle for moving.
I went outside, to move it onto this side of the street, and to get my personal gear out of it ... to make more room...and went back to sleep.
Awake, around 19:00.
Merry was still gone... eventually got home 2200 or so.
I showed Stitch how to get the garage door open...
And sat around and read, and watched "The Newsroom" on my tablet...
And dinner,  pork chops and rice...
and in BR1, watched "Zoo" and "Suits" ..
and to sleep.

s l s        180 hr
s l O       433 hr
s l F/me  173 hr
s l F/her  173 hr
UN         324 hr
S H l DO  180 hr
s l CI          273 D
Glu-free    33 D
s H l D      404 H
s l P or M    12 D

8.30 on chastity and orgasm control

Reducing the frequency of orgasms

Reducing the frequency of orgasms by the male will have a substantial effect on his sexual ardor and the focus of that sexual ardor, which will be his wife/significant. This means the male should avoid masturbation. 

In the beginning, the male should go without orgasm for at least several days at a time, extending over time to 1 to 4 weeks, depending upon a number of other variables. There is powerful biochemistry at work when orgasm frequency is reduced. There is a steady build-up in Dopamine (the desire and pleasure neurotransmitter) and Oxytocin (the bonding or devotion neurotransmitter). Orgasm releases a flood of dopamine which is immediately disposed of by a release of Prolactin leaving the male in a depressed Dopamine condition for a week or more.

What is the ideal time between orgasms for the male? 

That it is personal choice for the two individuals involved in the relationship. It’s a trade-off between the desire by the man to experience the intense pleasure of orgasm (greatly amplified by the infrequency from higher receptor concentration) while minimizing the period of low dopamine loss of feelings of well-being. 

For the female, the trade-off is a complex mix of what she believes is best for her mate whom she loves, what is best for their relationship, and frankly what is best for her. Realistically, every time her mate orgasms, she can expect one to two weeks of a low dopamine, low oxytocin mate with the attendant loss of attention and devotion that she enjoys the rest of the time and probably a more irritable, cranky mate as well.

Moods and feelings that are associated dopamine, prolactin, and oxytocin 

Dopamine:

Normal/Somewhat Elevated: Motivated, Feelings of well-being, pleasure in accomplishing tasks, healthy libido, optimistic about life, good feelings towards others, a desire to bond with others, sound choices.

Low Level: depression, Anhedonia (no pleasure, the world looks colorless), lack of ambition and drive, inability to feel love, low libido, no remorse about personal behavior, social anxiety, impaired judgment.

Prolactin

The symptoms associated with excess levels of prolactin are:
lethargy, loss of libido, depression, irritability, infertility, decreased testosterone levels, weight gain, little interest in bonding with others, pessimistic about life.

Oxytocin:

Normal/Elevated: strong feelings of attachment, devotion and connection; increased sexual receptivity, positive feelings, health benefits (lowers blood pressure, faster wound healing) fewer cravings and addictions, feelings of protection and responsibility.

Low Levels: little or no feelings of attachment, devotion or connection, little or no feelings of protection and responsibility for another, low libido, depression and weakened immune system.

The three most important “factors” in Chastity

Dopamine - the neurotransmitter that causes the feeling of pleasure we receive from engaging in certain activities. Sexual arousal, the eating of calorie rich foods, and for some, certain other behaviors like gambling or shopping, and the ingestion of certain drugs like cocaine, amphetamines and heroin all raise the level of dopamine in our reward center. 

This rising level is experienced as pleasure and the higher the level, the more intense the pleasure provided there are sufficient receptors to accommodate the rising level. The intense pleasure of orgasm that we experience results from the sudden flood of dopamine that is released in the reward center of our brain.

Prolactin - the neurotransmitter of satiation; it applies the brakes, so to speak, on the level and duration of dopamine and oxytocin ( it affects oxytocin indirectly by its effect on dopamine). Prolactin levels generally remain stable in the reward center of the brain except during orgasm when they are substantially increased to deal with (i.e counteract or reduce the level of) the sudden flood of dopamine and oxytocin. The elevated levels of prolactin after orgasm persist for a minimum of one week and as long as two weeks

Oxytocin - often called the “cuddle hormone,” when the level is elevated, it produces the pleasurable feeling of bonding or “connectedness,” as well as feelings of closeness, devotion and protection. It is the primary factor in establishing the basis for pair bonding. A burst of oxytocin is produced during orgasm and is responsible for the post orgasm afterglow of love and connectedness we feel. 

After orgasm, in men, the level or oxytocin quickly drops - in less than an hour it is well below the level it was at before sexual arousal began. In women, the post orgasmic level of oxytocin decreases more slowly reaching normal levels in several hours and remaining there. In addition to orgasm, the other mechanism for raising the level of oxytocin is touching and caressing, not necessarily in a sexual manner; even the simple act of holding hands will raise oxytocin levels.

 Even when the level of oxytocin is reduced to normal levels, although the powerful bonding feeling is lost, the memory of that feeling remains. It is that memory that provides the basis for long term relationships to survive the dopamine/prolactin roller coaster.

*ok* Scenes Spade Nine pegged enchaste

♠ 9

Roleplay:  pegging him while he is in chastity

“Oh?” She says. “You’ve been locked up for SOOOO long that NOW you want penetrative sex?  I’ll GIVE you penetrative sex.  Get your clothes off, and get on the bed, FDAU.”

He strips down to naked, showing the CD locked onto his genitals, and gets on the bed, FDAU.

She enters the room, searches through a drawer, produces a strap on, and straps it on.

She rubs lube onto the dildo, then moves in close to him, applies lube between his cheeks, and onto his anus, brings the tip of the dildo to bear on the target, and pushes in, while he pushes back, and she fucks him.

“THIS is what you wanted, RIGHT, dear?”

“Yes, honey, yes…ohhh ohhh.”

After (RNG 5-10) minutes, She withdraws.

“Now that you got what you wanted, it’s my turn for what I want.

*gs* Scenes Diamond Queen bad boy gets enema

♦ Queen

Role play:  a bad boy is given an enema, then more

“You’ve been such a bad boy!” she says, taking him by the ear into the bathroom.  “Get undressed.”

He strips, while she fills the enema bag with cold water.  “On the ground,” she says.  He gets down, FDAU, She administers the full bag.

“You will hold this for fifteen minutes, or it will be very painful for you.”

If he is unable to hold it, he is bent over a chair, and (RNG 20-40) swats of the zombie killer are given, then he is sent to stand in the corner for 15 minutes.

If he succeeds,  he is treated to a (RNG 5-10 ) minute session of his ass being fucked by a strap on.

*HMM* Scenes Diamond Jack CT+pillory+humbler

♦ Jack

Corner time, CBP, and Humbler, oh my

"Time for more training, Shilo, get naked."

He is sent to stand naked in the corner for (RNG 10-30) minutes.

He is called out, to step into the CBP, ankles in the clamps, bent over, and   balls pulled back between his legs and into the vice.

His ass and anus is used and abused at her pleasure and discretion, which could range from no contact at all, to contact the whole time,  with plug, dildo, Icyhot.  

He is released, and told to stay in position long enough to have the humbler attached to his balls.

She sits down, and receives oral service.

"Now start housecleaning..."  

He does so, with the humbler in place.

*OK* Scenes Diamond two caned for smoking

♦ 2

Roleplay - Caught puffing

She leaves the house.  He waits a few minutes, goes into back yard, produces a pack of cigarettes from a hiding place, and lights up.  

       He is puffing away, when she walks out into the back yard, saying, “My lunch date cancelled… what the fuck are you doing?” 

         He rolls his eyes upward, as he puts the cigarette out, and follows her inside, and sits down at the table.   

   “How long have you been smoking … again?”                                                  “Hmm, not rightly sure.”                                                                                  “Don’t give me that crap, I’m sure you keep track of how many cigarettes a day, just like you used to. So, WHEN?”  

   “Oh, six weeks….” 

            “How many a day?.... Don’t guess, look it up… and better yet, give me weekly figures,  from today to last Friday as one week, and backwards from there….”    

     He fetches his notebook, and starts figuring, and announces, “Per week, from the last week, and going backwards:  55, 63, 72, 74, 56, 63.”             “So,” she says, slowly, “Tomorrow , at a time of my choosing, you’ll be getting one stroke of the dragon cane for each of those cigarettes  the last week, and every other day thereafter, one stroke for the week before that, and so on, until it’s all paid off. Understand?” 

   “Yuh…Yes, dear.”

THE NEXT DAy

She says, "Its time"

He appears, naked, on the bench.

She applies  55 strokes of the long cane.

8.29 on Chastity, ruined orgasms

The Art of The Ruined Orgasm #1

The advantage of the ruined orgasm is that it is one more tool to add to your bag of tricks for teasing and orgasm control.  You can tell your man that he is allowed to orgasm and then at the moment he is about to orgasm or as soon as it starts you release his cock.  

Incorporating this into your T&D keeps your man guessing about what to expect.  Not only will it be a mystery of when he can orgasm but now he won’t even know if it will be a full orgasm or ruined orgasm.  Ruining his orgasm also prolongs his denial period. He gets some release but not a full orgasm.  Therefore you can prolong the time frame of when he is allowed a full orgasm by slipping in a few ruined orgasms.

One final benefit is that it can be used as a punishment.  If your man has been naughty or simply not meeting your expectations, you can announce that the next orgasm (or next 2, 3, etc.) will be ruined.

The Art of The Ruined Orgasm #2

The most basic approach is to stroke his cock and then at the moment he first spurts you release his cock and let it twitch and spurt on its own.  He will experience very brief pleasure at the first spurt but then once you release and there is no friction the orgasm becomes ruined and he is left frustrated.  This is a good way to introduce him to the ruined orgasm.  

Another technique is to release his cock before he starts to cum.  This may take some practice because you have to anticipate when the orgasm is coming.  If you spend a considerable amount of time teasing your guy or if he has been denied an orgasm for a long period of time, this becomes easier to do.   

The Art of The Ruined Orgasm #3

Some variations to experiment:

• Announce the ruined orgasm ahead of time or surprise him
• Tell him to try and orgasm while you tease him or tell him try not to orgasm while you tease him.  Imagine the fun of him trying to orgasm only to have you pull away at the last second and leave him with nothing.  Do this a few times and then send him over the edge and let go.
• Use your hands, mouth, tongue, panties, feathers, etc. to tease him. One of the most interesting videos I watched was a woman that held her man’s cock straight up and she very slowly licked from bottom  to top until he spurted.
• Make him ruin the orgasm himself.  This is a good test of his loyalty. Will he let go before he spurts (bonus points for him), at the first spurt (good boy), or will he push the envelope and hold on a little longer after he spurts (bad boy.  Punishment time!).
• Combine with anal pleasure.  Stimulating the prostate will cause his cum to leak-out more.  Some women use this technique regularly to “milk” their man so that he can go very long periods without a orgasm.

*hmm* scenes spade 10 the RPS

♠ 10

Using the Random Punishment Selector

Video camera is used for each session, with or without third party operator

*Very Hard : Base swats 120 – 200*

*Number of implements:  4*

>Zombie Killer

>Wooden spoon     

Medium church paddle   

>Black Delrin cane

*Positions to select from (four)*

                                                >Diaper                                                                                                                   >Bent over chair

ON spanking bench  

In Pillory, bent over with balls pulled up from behind  

 >FDAU on bed                                                                                                >FDAU on bed with humbler attached to scrotum

*State of dress:   Naked*

*Four extra punishments*

>Corner time                                                                                                           >Enema  

 >Ginger fig                                                                                                          >Icy Hot

Corner time given is divided by four, to be performed in between spanking sets. 

   The ginger fig is inserted during whichever of the spanking sets is longest, as determined by the number of swats                                                                              The enema is administered  after all the spankings, using the double bardex nozzle, and retained as noted by the program, and the Icy Hot is rubbed in while the enema is being administered.

*grunt* scenes spade three SIssy for the day

   ♠ 3

All day Sissy

He is told to strip, and take a shower, and shave all over.

Once he is dried and ready, a chastity device is locked on.

He is given to wear stockings, bra, panties,   to wear around the house, nothing else.

He does housework or whatever else around the house, dressed that way.

If they have reason to go out, he wears a dress over the lingerie.

Three times during the course of the day,and more if She chooses, he is put over her lap, for a spanking, with implement of Her choosing, for duration of (RNG 10-20).

Twice, and more if She chooses, She bends him over bed or chair, and pegs him for duration of (RNG 5-10 min). 

*grunt* SCENES I'VE WRITTEN VENUS SIX, mom teaches future daughter in law

Roleplay: Mom shows the future daughter in law, wherein J plays ‘Mom’, D plays “the son”  and the future DiL is only heard, never seen.

<camera on him,  voices off camera, as he fidgets, looks down, seems nervous>

Mom: I am so glad you’ve accepted his marriage proposal.

Her: Oh, how could I not?  He is so good to me, I love him so much.

Mom: When you say, good to you, how do you mean?

Her: He is caring, thoughtful, considerate, kind… you know, just nice.

Mom: How do you think he became that way?

Her: His upbringing, I’m sure YOU had bunches to do with that.  And he STILL comes to see you, nearly every day, as near as I can tell.

Mom:  Uh huh. SO, have you two been um intimate yet?

Her: <giggling> well……

Mom: You are adults, I’m not trying to pass a judgment, just curious… with lights on or …not?

Her: Well, lights off or … very dim.

Mom: So you haven’t had, say, a good look at him, with the lights on, like in the shower, or something?

Her: Well, no… have I … missed something?

Mom:  <chuckles> Perhaps.  I want to discuss his upbringing, and how I’ve ensured that he has become kind, thoughtful, considerate, all that good stuff.

Her: Okay.

Mom:  Every day, growing up since he was in his teens, every time he comes to visit me, whether I have a good reason, or if it’s just because I want to remind him, I spank his bare bottom.

Her: silent a moment, then giggling, “Say again?”

Mom: I spank his bare bottom.  And I believe for your long term marital harmony, that you should continue to do the same.

Her: Really?  And he’s going to let me?

Mom: It’s not a question of ‘him letting you’. You are going to demand it, and he will submit to it.

Her: Well… um… I wouldn’t know where to start.

Mom: And so, this get together, for a demonstration.  As your life together goes along, you don’t need to follow what I show you chapter and verse. You may well find ways and means more suitable. I’ll just show you the way I have done it, and if you stick to the basic ideas you’ll do fine.   So to start…         Dear, go get the hairbrush and cane.”

<camera has been on him the whole time.   He makes a face, tilts his head upwards to the ceiling, and says, “Mom, please…”

<off camera>  “Back talking me, are you?”

“No, Mom,” he says, getting up. Camera watches him leave the room, and return, carrying the church paddle.

<camera swings to Mom, sitting in a straight back chair with no arms.  He hands Her the paddle and cane, she takes them in her right hand, puts the cane aside.>

“Start stripping.”

He grimaces, and hesitates.

“Do not keep me waiting.”

He takes his shirt off.  He takes his shoes off.  He takes his pants off, and stands still, in socks and tighty whities.

“At this point, you lecture as needed, regarding anything he has done that has displeased you since his last spanking and if there happens to be nothing, you can call it a reminder.  Then…”

She reaches over, pulls his TW down to just above his knees, and pulls him down over her lap.

She slowly and steadily beats his buttocks with the hairbrush (SD [1=4, 2=5, 3=6] x 10) times.

She stops, and rubs his buttocks affectionately.   Then, “Stand up.”

He does.  And she tugs his TW the rest of the way down to his feet.

She stands up, and turns the chair around.  “Bend over it.”

He bends over the back of the chair, grabbing the seat of the chair with his hands. 

She puts down the brush, picks up the cane, stand behind him, to his left.  She taps his buttocks with the cane,  and says “Count.”  And she delivers (SD [1=4, 2=5, 3=6] x 3) strokes, waiting for his count after each before delivering the next.

“Stand up, and go to the corner there, hands on your head.”

He goes, camera follows him.

Off camera, she says, “Corner time is completely  optional, your discretion.  I put him there because I like seeing his red bottom on display. And it gives him time to think about the discipline, and any behavior modifications he needs to make.  How long he spends in the corner…up to you.  Maybe a short time, if this was just … maintenance, maybe a longer time if this was punishment and discipline.”

Her: Okay.

Mom: This is probably why he has not let you see him naked in good light.  He didn’t want you to see the marks on his bottom.

Her: <giggles> Yeah, I expect so.   So…. How often, did you say?

Mom: For best results, daily.  If you skip a day, you might find yourself skipping another day, then another day.  I think it’s best to set a routine, a specific time each day or evening to do it.  If you’re prepared to set up a specific time with him,  and start taking care of this yourself, then he really has no need to come visit me every day.

Her:  Oh, I am,  I really am.

8.28 on chastity for couples...physical control, and teasing...

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8.27 on chastity and devices

Doris Miller: Penis Padlocks

Carbon County natives Doris and Frank Miller (top picture) run a booming business manufacturing the CB-6000 line of male-chastity devices. These high-tech, clear-plastic penis padlocks assure the keyholder that the wearer’s genitalia remain safely under wraps during unsupervised periods. A.L. Enterprises, Inc. recently moved from Price to Las Vegas’ freer business climate, but its patent notices still liven up the business pages of Utah dailies. City Weekly asked Doris about the male-chastity biz.

How did you decide to enter the male-chastity business? 
Too often in his business travels, my husband, Frank, saw men take off their wedding rings and mentally become single again while away from home. This could have been prevented if they were wearing a chastity device and their significant other had the key. Frank came up with the idea of male chastity about 14 years ago while we were living in Las Vegas. Of course, I thought he had lost his mind, but after watching him work on prototypes for three to six months, I realized he had a fantastic idea. I suggested that we quit our jobs, take the month of February off and make his design “fly or die”—and flew it did!

Who’s your main customer base—jealous wives?
Our revolutionary line of products is marketable to the fetish enthusiast, as well as couples looking to increase their intimacy and sense of adventure. The target customer is diverse. The product appeals to men and women alike. The misconception is that the male-chastity device is only purchased to correct a wayward husband. In reality, the majority of customers purchasing a male-chastity device fall into two main groups: either fetish devotees, or couples interested in expanding their sexual experiences with “chastity play.” Chastity play can bring the spark and excitement back into an otherwise stagnant relationship. Customers who use our products in cases of infidelity find chastity play helps bring trust back into the relationship. Our products have been used in the medical field and are currently being tested to treat men with erectile dysfunction.

Why did you move your company back to Las Vegas?
For several reasons: The Price City Council agreed to give us a business license after we agreed to keep our blinds closed and not to retail sell out of our building. We want to expand our line in the future and don’t want to have to address any issues with licensing. Also, Las Vegas is more centrally located for trade shows, customs, advertising and, overall, no unnecessary restrictions.

Why are your products made of clear plastic?
Frank designed it out of polycarbonate so the traveling man could wear it and still be able to get through airport security without detection.

How can the keyholder be sure the wearer hasn’t tampered with the lock?
The numbered plastic locks can easily be cut and removed. If the wearer does this, he had better have a believable answer for his keyholder why it was necessary to do so. Where there is honor, there is chastity!